Sugarcoat

I don’t get it but it’s ok

I’ve thought about this a little. If someone is let’s say insecure, and they express that insecurity (for example acting shy when you feel shy) then you are acting authentically to how you feel internally We can though, sense our potential, have an idea of how we could be (for example more confident) and we might feel our shyness is blocking us from accessing that confident self. But our current self is our current authentic one

I’ve thought about this a little. If someone is let’s say insecure, and they express that insecurity (for example acting shy when you feel shy) then you are acting authentically to how how feel internally We can though, sense our potential, have an idea of how we could be (for example more confident) and we might feel our shyness is blocking us from accessing that confident self. But our current self is our current authentic one

I think you can intuit god realization by sensing that there must be something beyond this normal experience, like there’s something about this experience that is not “it”, even if you haven’t had god realization. Like what is beyond this “self” experience, must be something (but then it’s maybe nothing precisely) Its counterintuitive because it seems god realization is realizing this is truly “it”. Someone on reddit said “enlightenment is this, without the doubt about it”

I’m guessing to expose the nature of seduction

To be honest I don’t know enough people to be able to draw a conclusion about wether there is a tendency for an at least significant portion of women and men to somewhat fit into norms of femininity or masculinity . So I can’t say if the definitions are wrong. Few people btw expect women/men to fit into them exactly, it’s regarded quite loosely I think

I don’t know exact definitions but it seems there are loose conventional definitions and that’s what I’m referring to

All women are not naturally feminine nor are all men not naturally masculine but a portion is and then it’s not performative when it’s who you authentically are.

It can take work to actualize your authentic best self but once you get there being yourself is effortless and makes you most attractive

I don’t know how other women function so I’m no representant but if I used online dating I wouldn’t really care if a guy just has selfies he took himself. Online dating is mostly looks based when you swipe so I would just judge whether I find him attractive or not. I wouldn’t assume he has “no life” because he has no interesting pics. Maybe he just isn’t the type to take photos like that. I’d say tho that interesting pics can add something positive by making the person seem slightly more interesting upon first glance, but it’s no way a “deal breaker”. I just realized this might make me sound shallow lol. But to be honest a pic being interesting can’t compensate for me not finding the guy at least somewhat attractive. Personality can bring looks up a significant portion but it’s difficult to convey a significant portion of your personality through a few pics, so it will be a mostly looks based judgment.

@Sucuk Ekmek We will see

Understood Ok understood, I don’t think I’ve noticed that particular movement you talk about. It’s very subtle indeed.

Does this simply mean placing your attention on it? Do you touch your skin to create a physical tingling sensation? How do you know it’s energy and not just physical sensation? In the past when I’ve done practice I used to meditate and sometimes my blood flow would get kinda blocked in my butt and it would start hurting a little. And I lowkey found that if I placed my attention on it and held it there, it kinda changed my relationship to the sensation and eased the pain. I have also done practice from eckhart tolle where you place and hold attention to one body part at a time then the whole body at once. You’ll feel the vibrational energy in each body part and it grows when you put your attention on it then you feel the entire bodies energy it’s quite calming Also during sleep paralysis I’ve felt all sorts of energies I think there’s something spiritual about it there too

God is very good at fooling itself into thinking it’s actually a limited human. That’s what I mean by saying the illusion seems real

This is something I struggle with, a lack of interest, that’s one reason I’m not so good at socializing

The most solid and real seeming illusion

Sometimes basic things can be worth mentioning

I agree

What are you trying to say?

It doesn’t include gay marriage so I don’t agree with that. I have catholic background btw so I’m going after what I heard from church

Love can be very egotistical

Yea and something similar is simply referencing things that are occurring/things (or something about the person) currently in the setting you’re in. So if you’re at the club you might mention something about the music. If you’re out in town you mention something about the town. So you just say something that is relevant to the situation and since you’re both in the same place it will fit into the convo with them. It’s super basic tip but it’s not always easy to be present and find these things in the environment to reference because if you’re nervous you can get overly self aware/self focused (in bad way) and get stuck in your head. It’s like being in flow with the environment. Most people have this skill if they’re simply relaxed enough (and interested enough, if not it can seem fake) it’s like if you’re playing a video game and your mind is tuned in/connected to the game so everything you think and say will be connected to it. Then apply this to social situations and you’ll have something fitting and relevant to say and connect over. A way to practice this could be to literally place your attention on the outside world/other people .

What is meant by reason?

I say on WhatsApp

I think what helps is decluttering the mind to make space for the intuition, to hear it better. Sometimes it can be subtle so not always easy to follow. So that means for example getting rid of neurosis, stressors, distractions etc