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Who’ll get more ladies? Rupert spira ,sadhguru and eckartte tolle vs mystery/connor Murphy and neil strauss

@Leo Gura Leo is there any difference between intimate human relationships and the courting process monkeys and other animals go through? I like to think that there is more to human relationships than my reptilian brain/biology provoking me and incentivizing me to reproduce.(similar to the relationships you see onDisney movies and titanic etc).i like to think that human intimitate relationships are highconsiouse and different from the relationships other animals have(which are mainly just to reproduce). But is this actually true? Or is the complexity of our mating strategy blinding me? Similarly to how the complexity of my basic survival(having a job etc) makes me forget that what I’m doing is no different than a bird building a nest.do I just like to think I’m smarter/more special than I am?

This doesn’t coincide with my experience of reality leo.especially considering the fact that the person asking the question is a lady.maybe for men game is more important(but I disagree ever here).i certainly think game/good social skills help but I still think being physically attractive to your partner is very important.wdyta this cartoon and song video.as exemplified in the video,although very rare,I do think it’s possible to fall under the looks threshold enough where game will not be of much service to you. Btw is it possible to create pure raw physical attraction through game?to the point where a women craves you? Have you ever?

@Leo Gura this is what Owen cook calls the halo effect leo.i was wondering if you should try and show that you are detached even after you get into a long term relationship (6 months+). Owen cook says that even in a long term relationship if you get too close(show your partner that you are always available no matter the time),your partner will lose attraction/start taking you for granted.is this true leo? tldr-is showing some detachment/willingness to emote from the relationship necessary even after getting into a long term relationship? If you don’t show willingness to emote will you partner start to take you for granted?

@Leo Gura since everything exists,does this mean that there is a world somewhere where hogwarts is real,and im(my ego)is a student there,and instead of ron weasley im harries best friend and i end up getting tortured and killed by voldemort? If literally everything concievable this must be too right? (Srs question)

Why is focusing on a few girls a problem? Leo do you agree with rsd owen cooks "halo effect theory"? I.e-you should not always be Too available(show that you are too interested) otherwise the girl starts to loose attraction.he says if the girl seems uninterested the worst thing you can do is give her more attention as this will lessen her interest further.instead if she doesnt give you attention,you too should not give her attention.my problem is,im afraid if i stop giving her attention,she wont care or even notice.

@Leo Gura have you ever gotten a girl to fall in love/have oneitis for you from pick up leo? I have this intuition that says pickup might work to get a girl for a one night stand(when a girls out with her friends,having a great time,in a flirtatious mood etc) ,but won’t work well for getting a long term girlfriend who showers you with affection/attention.reason being 1) eventhough you can trick her into thinking you are high value (according to mystery H.V-preselected by other girls,leader of men,having social proof(lots of friends etc) .if you are not ACTUALLY preselected and a Leader of men and have zero friends,once she finds this out won’t she lose attraction and regret going home/sleeping with you?especially if you don’t have an exciting life for her to be a part of( eg- like me-work at a restaurant+study+workout +study pickup) *if the goal is to get a long term gf(and not just sleep around),would you recommend-*becoming a leader of men,making lots of normal friends(social proof) before getting into pickup? Otherwise i feel like I’m tricking her.eg-i don’t have social proof(exciting friends) for her to hang out with,neither am i preselected by other girls ,but I’m pretending/lying that I am.i think it’ll only be a matter of time before I get caught(which would be okay for a ONS,but not for a long term)

@Leo Gura is the main reason you moved to Vegas to improve your pickup skills?

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@Leo Gura so you didn’t have a gf till you were 20+ either?! Omg that means that there IS hope for me! I thought you were a playa in high school and your early twenties

@Leo Gura did you have any girlfriends in high school/early twenties? Or were you focusing on building up your business?

@Leo Gura where is my sunday video? If you do not release it whithin the next couple of hours i will go to rupert spiras house.there me and rupert will have a nice conversation(while enjoying a nice cup of tea ofcourse,we are not blueberry smoothie drinking savages after all) about how we are god and how you are a selfish devil.me and rupert will then spend a couple of hours writing a nasty poem about you.oooh what nasty things we will write about you and what nasty names we will call you.just be glad you will never see it,if you saw it you would definitely cry.after spending a couple of hours mocking,ridiculing and laughing at you me ,rupert and our main man osho will come to your house in one of 0shos rolce royces and pelt stones at your house.if you come out of your house to fight us ill get my girl teal swan to put a spell on you and transport you into another dimension,where you will have to converse with sam harris and other materialists until the end of time.you have been warned devil.

@happyhappy there is i guess I don’t have it neh.is there a actualized app or something? Omg exactly??. The doctor,lawyer engineer scene bro?.but I think it’s far worse for our girls .if i remember correctly the last time I looked at the matrimonial section the guys seemed to be more concerned with the girls complexion than her character.

@happyhappy haha me to bro.the first actualized video I watched was about how to get a gf??.a couple of videos later and now I’m learning about how i(the ego) dont exist, how we are LITERALLY all one,how we are god etc The dating pill idealogy is also based off of the morpheus matrix meme bro.basicallu the Blue pillers_believe in the fairy tale,disney prince and princess,romeo and juliet,there is a special someone waiting for everyone type of love Red pillers-believe women are hypergamous.and men are hypogamous(eg-kevin samuels,jordan peterson and leo as well i think) Black pill-very nihilistic.black pillers believe that if you are below a certain attractiveness threshold you will never be able to find a partner (incels,elliot roger etc)

@happyhappy How bro? Is there a private message feature on the website? Machn would you say sl is primarily stage blue? imo the less developed districts/provinces(giradunkotte,anamaduwa,killinochi,puttalam) are blue.but the more developed provinces(kandy,Matara) seem to be green to me.i feel like kandy,matara have skipped/made a shadow out of orange and gone directly from blue to green without integrating orange.Colombo is abit hard for me to categorize.i think colombo has many high consciouse individuals(yellow) such as yourself,Gaia kodituwakku,lunar sangakkara,tissa jananayaka sir etc ,but I would say out of all our provinces colombo is the most orange(Dhammika perera and some other colombo 7 people’s?).would you agree with my assessment? I would love to hear some feedback from you as I don’t personally know anyone who has looked into spiral dynamics. btw machn do you happen to be vegan/vegetarian?

@happyhappy Thank you❤️.hehe dude speaking about pills ,are you familiar with the various dating ideologies(redpill,blackpill,bluepill,purplepill) if so which ideology would you say you subcribe most to? Same here machan❤️.its so cool to randomly meet someone from my dear country on a lovely forum like this

@happyhappy browski at the end of the day wouldn’t you say no one “deserves” to die? Or maybe they deserve to die,but we should not look down on terrorists murderers,robbers,(some srilankan ministers?)etc right? Since free will doesn’t exist there is no individual entity responsible for these egregious acts neh? The reason some people cause suffering is because they were unfortunate enough to have a very stage red/low blue upbringing due to harsh survival conditions don’t you think? Eg-the church bombings that happened last year were a result of people being born into a very stage red/blue part of our country right?

@happyhappy Perfect example brother.its so cool to see someone from sl here.dude but at the end of the day since we are all one ,there cannot be such a thing as an altruistic act right?selfishness goes full circle and turns into selflessness neh.

@Leo Gura no video today leo?

@Leo Gura no video today☹️?LEO WHERE THE HELL IS MY SUNDAY VIDEO??!!YOU BETTER RELEASE IT RIGHT NOW!DONT INVOKE THE WRATH OF GOD YOU SELFISH DEVIL! WHAT DEVILISH ACTIVITIES TOOK UP SO MUCH OF YOUR TIME THAT YOU COULDNT RECORD A MEASLY 2HR VIDEO?I WILL NEVER FORGET THIS BETRAYAL.I WILL HAVE MY REVENGEEEEEEE.

@happyhappy have you ever tried psychadelics machn? If so is it as life changing as Leo,joerogan,Sam Harris etc say it is?

@happyhappy preferably dilmah or zesta?.mchn do you happen to be a vegan or vegetarian by any chance? ( I know it’s very random,but I’m curious?).ive been reading your posts and from what I’ve gathered you seem to be a very kind,caring, polite, high consciouse dude.I bet you are atleast green(at minimum) on the spiral dynamics model.im guessing you either went to royal,st thomases,stpeters/Jodephs or ais,cis,gateway

I just started bro.im about to turn 23. Btw I hope you don’t mind me asking but are you Buddhist? Living in a Buddhist country is a huge advantage for those of us interested in enlightenment etc wouldn’t you agree? The only drawback about living in srilanka is that it’s impossible to get any psychadelics. How old are you machn?

@Leo Gura do you still feel jelous sometimes Leo?