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@Emerald also, to be honest, men also want to receive love and attention...

I can't help but feel that you only think that this is a good idea because you are a woman and of course as a woman it would benefit your survival if guys behaved this way. Like honestly, as a guy, why would I risks going through all that trouble, be vulnerable, increase my chances of being taken for granted or friendzoned when I know that I can do the opposite and get a girl get super attracted and attached to me with much lesser risks? If I am genuinely attracted to her as well and don't plan to mistreat her in any way then what's so wrong about it?

@Leo Gura what do you think about this? Doesn't it go against traditional pickup theory of being detached and not over investing in the girl? Which is supposed to make her more attracted to you? @Emerald doesn't it go against women having a motherly role in a family? It's a feminine role to give love, care and empathy to children and masculine role to provide for them and protect them. To me it makes sense that giving love is feminine by nature and should translate into other areas as well, no? Why would that be different in a man to woman relationship?

@Optimized Life thanks, that's an awesome perspective.

@Lila9 wow, thanks

@Lila9 can you recommend any?

@Leo Gura I see. Thank you for sharing.

@Karmadhi ?

@Karmadhi you sound even more depressed than I am, haha. Are you okay?

Leo, do you mind if I ask how this makes you feel? On two levels. 1) Did you have any feelings of jealousy / insecurity. I don't mean about money, but the kind a person might feel if a gf flirted with another guy in front of you (I assume not, but still curious). 2) Did you start thinking less of her after it? Or, alternatively, would you admire her more if she told you how a billionaire offered her a mercedes and she rejected it because she doesn't need random "freebies" in life? If you didn't start thinking any less of her after it, is it because you didn't treat this relationship seriously / consider her as a potential life-long partner anyway or is it because you genuinely don't mind it?

Thank you. That’s an interesting take. I don't think I've this issue when growing up to be honest. My problem was that I would be adraid to express myself around my dad and would try to be as invisible as possible. And I think because of that I still have issues with opening up to people and having a good time without constantly analyzing my every action.

@CARDOZZO 22, sorry for not responding earlier

Good to know, thanks for advise.

@Leo Gura thanks. I will try to adopt this attitude.

@Leo Gura how did you learn to stay positive and "Radiant like the Sun" while also being real about how the world is instead of just bullshitting yourself and wearing pink glasses?

Can I ask what is it?

@lostingenosmaze okay, do whatever you want. I unfollowed it.

@Leo Gura if you hide a thread, do the bookmarks also disappear?

@Judy2 thank you, I am actually having a great day. I hope you will have one too:)

@Judy2 sure, I didn't mean to push you, sorry. Just was curious about how it works. Maybe I am:)

Why scared? I understand why someone wouldn't want to love themselves because they just don't like themselves, but why would you be scared? How might it hurt you?

You need just one person though. Thanks, I love this band

A pet rabbit. Buy yourself a pet rabbit. Who would refuse you offering them to go and play with a rabbit

I would like to belive that it does... I like that song.