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@Leo Gura how did you learn to stay positive and "Radiant like the Sun" while also being real about how the world is instead of just bullshitting yourself and wearing pink glasses?

Can I ask what is it?

@lostingenosmaze okay, do whatever you want. I unfollowed it.

@Leo Gura if you hide a thread, do the bookmarks also disappear?

@Judy2 thank you, I am actually having a great day. I hope you will have one too:)

@Judy2 sure, I didn't mean to push you, sorry. Just was curious about how it works. Maybe I am:)

Why scared? I understand why someone wouldn't want to love themselves because they just don't like themselves, but why would you be scared? How might it hurt you?

You need just one person though. Thanks, I love this band

A pet rabbit. Buy yourself a pet rabbit. Who would refuse you offering them to go and play with a rabbit

I would like to belive that it does... I like that song.

I want to change myself, and first of all my mind. I feel like it's currently so messed up because of the way I have been living up until now. Can I completely rewire my brain to become pure, calm, strong, focused, determined with really hardcore daily meditation sessions? Like if I meditate for 4 hours daily for the next 3 months? Will I transform into a different person?

@Leo Gura just wanted to admit defeat, lol. I failed after 5 days and now think that I should take a more balanced approach.

Yep, let's go

@Leo Gura yeah, you should

Okay I got it, thank you so much Leo. Do you have any specific video about being positive btw?

@illusory buying tickets right now

Okay, sorry, you are right. I need to look at it more positively. It's just that sometimes I wish I had eat easier with dating and relationships. This would free my mind to be so much more into personal development and spirituality. Instead of being something that is constantly bugging me and distracting frlm everything else 24/7. Like I've realized that I can't even plan my life strategically because of it. Because realistically I know that I should spend the next 3 years developing myself and my carrier. But then when I think that I will have to live until 25 years old without ever having a girlfriend it makes me feel so bad and insecure that I start looking for some random quick fixes and try to do everything at once. This is also one of the reasons I find you inspiring. Because you actually went through not having any relationships until your mid 20s and seem to be doing quite okay now, hehe

Yeah, okay, I agree. Being loved for who you are is rare independent of your gender.

Omg, that's awesome

Idk, Leo. I don't care that much about getting laid and I feel like it's easy for a girl to find a long term relationship as well. Like all the girls at work, even those who are not conventionally attractive, and would be labelled a 3 or 4 on this forum have boyfriends. And it's not just about their looks. Like I said they have many qualaities that would make you totally undatable as a guy. For example I have this one girl at work who plays video games, is fat, and even smells bad to a point where it's actually kind of a pain to sit next to her sometimes. And yet... She has a boyfriend. And I am pretty sure she didn't have to do 10000 cold approaches to get him But in general I agree with you Leo and everyone here. This is a stupid thread and I might as well wish I was a Batman.

@Zion I think it means using them to achieve yourr own goals and desires. Making them your tools basically.

You are right. In fact, I think that even if someone else loved me the way I am right now I still wouldn't love/accept myself and would ruin our relationship because of it.

Yeah, I know, I am not denying that. Like I said this is just a venting post, I am not making some serious claim statement about the nature of society or whatever. And no, knowing that someone else struggles as well doesn't make me feel better. Thank you.

@thierry thanks )