Something Funny

I think "betraying" is a strong word. You are doing something fishy aand your intuition is telling you about it. I would be more concerned if you really should spend the rest of your life with a person who is so different from you that you can't find a wedding setting that suits you both. You are basically starting your marriage with negativity and doubt. That's not good. It's not only her moment. It's your moment as well. And if you actually plan to spend the rest of your lifw with her, then it is a pretty signifcant moment. So why not do it properly, the way you want. Your mindset remind me of child's mindset, where a parents told him what to wear and what to do, so he does it. You are not a child anymore. You can decide how you want to get married by yourself. You can literally create the wedding of your dreams and do whatever you want with it. And ideally, you would have a partner who shares enough values with you so that it's her ideal version of a wedding as well. But maybe I am being overly idealistic and you should just settle for what you have. Idk, it's your choice

@Judy2 she literally run away into the woods to get away from him, and you are saying that he didn't do anything wrong. Also, he has a second thread where he asks if he should be able to look through this girl's phone (I assume it is the same girl) because she "isn't open enough with him". I wonder why she isn't /s

@Thought Art you need to post some calming qi gong video here

I am from Poland and there is no quacker oats. But it's still an interesting point.

@Scholar his position is that he should be punched in the face for being a heartless asshole towards a girl who haven't done anything bad to him.

Respect is given - by you. You can respect people unconditionally without them having to earn anything. Once again, stop pretending like you care about her future, you don't. What you are doing is not kind or helpful. She clearly didn't become a sex worker on a whim. And she won't stop being a sex worker because some guy on the forum told her to. And you shaming and clowning her is not making things any better, you are just being a dick. You would really love for this to be a reality, don't you. It would confirm so many of your beliefs. But unfortunately for you, nobody knows what the future holds.

@Sidra khan sounds cool, okay.

@Roy don't prerend like you actually care about women not respecting themselves, or selling themselves, or whatever. As if you just want to help them. You clearly have no respect for women yourself.

@Sidra khan why?

@Leo Gura I really don't think it should be okay for moderators to speak about other forum members in this way...

@Princess Arabia just to confirm, I do not agree with the 2 hypocritical r*****s above.

@Princess Arabia ☮️

1) This might come as a suprise for you, but most men have never been to a sex worker of any kind. So yeah, most those men who use your services likely have various mental and personal life issues. 2) 99% of men don't do pickup either. 3) Approaching girls is actually fun and exciting. And it's totally up to you how you do it. It's your choice to lie or be honest, to look for a one night stand or a soulmate. Cold approach is just a skill.

I didn't really mean that you are consciously preying on them. I didn't even mean you personally. I just wanted to describe the relationship dynamic. The same can be said about heroin addicts. Are they really in a good state of mind to make their own choices? Choices that are good for them? Once again, I am not shaming you. I don't think that what you are doing is horrible and shameful. It's just that you were comparing it to the mcdonalds work so I wanted to point out how it is not that different as an industry. Unfortunately we live in the world where most of our industries are very unconscious, toxic, and unhealthy. And we need to somehow survive here... I think that you, personally, are a really nice, kind hearted person.

@Princess Arabia I didn't mean to hurt you, sorry <3

Dude, once again. Your human rights stuff is what is not relevant here. Go and start your own thread about human rights. We are talking about sex industry specifically here.

Do you not agree with that? Why?

I work in logistics and help to transport medicine to sick people. However, this is not a point. I am not shaming your job. Pleasr don't take it in that way.

This has nothing to do with what we are talking about. We are not arguing whether pornhub should have a refund system or not...

1) You are preying upon people who are mostly sex addicts. Some of them probably have families and wives. But instead of becoming a therapist and offering them help and support you are extracting money from them. 2) Unless you are completely on your own, you are earning money for the same type of a douchebag who runs mcdonalds. And just because this douchebag doesn't abuse you personally, doesn't mean he doesn't abuse anyone else. 3) Ultimately, what you are doing causes the same harm mcdonalds is causing, just on a smaller scale and in a different way, because your bosses weren't cunning enough to be as successful as mcdonalds.

"Consumerism is connected to human rights" This is the most capitalistic bullshit I've heard in a while. What about eating kids? Is it my human right to be able to eat kids. I should be able to consume what I want, correct? It's my human right after all.

No thanks, I am good. Lets end it here.

@Princess Arabia @StarStruck do you guys know that you are comparing two different types of shit jobs and arguing which one is better, lol. Neither one is good?

And that's where my point of you being too binary comes into play. Please explain to me why it's is so difficult to address both sides of the issue? Why can't we take responsibility on the personal level, try to educate consumers to be more responsible with what they are watching, and also prosecute perpetrators? How come do you feel like you need to pick only one of those? This is what's bugging me the most. What I am trying to tell you is that you have a noble goal and are welcome to pursue it, but I don't see how one thing, is in the way of another when they are basically mutually supportive. And I don't understand why you feel like you need to come into this threads and push your ideas here, plus dismiss what is being talked about. Why don't you start your own thread about your vision for human rights? And then I can come in and flood it with "why you should stop watching porn" videos.

This is what I am talking about. How is that not being dismissive? What if it was your family member who was raped? Like your daughter, or your sister, or your mom? And there was a video of her being raped online, watched by millions of people. And you said that people who watched this video were part of the issue and are contributing to the problem. But I was like: "well, you see, we are are all contributing to one thing or another... And this is such a large issue in general that should be addressed at its root cause. So anyway, I am gonna go jerk off to your daughter/mom/sister getting raped. "