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  1. Posted

    18 hours ago, flowboy said:

     

    The definition of codependency is an unrealistic hope that people will change.

     

    What's the root of codependency?

    Almost always the relationship with one or both of the parents.

    If your dad (or mom) was never attentive or loving enough in some way, or emotionally manipulative, always putting you down, or always needed you instead of being there for you in the way that you really needed, you have two choices: accept that he will never love you and be there for you in the way that you need (hopelessness, unacceptable to a child), or decide to struggle to change your parent into the person you need him to be, who can love you the way you need.

    With such a history, people start dating as adults, and then they go looking not for the people they need, but the people who they can struggle to change into the people they need them to be.

    And it never works.

    See, this is the stupid boring pattern that you're caught in.

    It's just imperfect parenting, making you want to seek out this loser and die of an overdose with him, thinking it's romantic.

    It's not.

    It's boring and hopelessly cliche.

    Millions and millions of women have died because of loyalty to a toxic boyfriend, and nobody remembers them or thinks that's cool.

     

    Your parents fucked some things up, now you're codependent. Is that worth throwing away your life over?

    Because you could also escape this relationship and get therapy and have a great life.

    Just don't forget the therapy, because codependency is not a habit that you can simply unlearn.

    Very well exposition of how the codependency dynamic works.

  3. Posted

    39 minutes ago, Moksha said:

    A good man knows who he is and who he is not. He trusts his intentions. He places himself neither above nor below others. Serving them is the same as serving himself. He lives unconditionally and unapologetically. His value is realized within, and is unswayed by people's opinions. His work flows from him like the rain of a ready cloud. His rest returns the rain into the sky. He is not magnified by life, nor is he diminished by death.

    Nice post.

  4. Posted · Edited by Tudo

    24 minutes ago, Yog said:

    @Jannes  Why are eating habits a crime? You will kill in order to eat, be it spinach or a chicken.

    Why is a chicken more valuable than spinach ? Just because you can relate to it more, doesn't make it any different. Plants do not want to be eaten just as any other being on the planet aside from parasites.

    Animals can feel pain since most of them have sophisticated nervous systems. They can have emotions and feelings. Comparing animals to plants is so fucking stupid.

    Scientific studies show that most animals have neurological substrates complex enough to support conscious experiences.

    And you have the courage to compare sophisticated animals like pigs and cows to plants...

  12. Posted · Edited by Tudo

    On 18/12/2022 at 8:34 PM, Recursoinominado said:

     

    China has raised hundreds of millions over poverty, ended hunger, jobs and houses to everyone, education, healthcare etc.

     

    Bro, you are soooo deluded. It's crazy.

    On 18/12/2022 at 8:34 PM, Recursoinominado said:

     

    By the way: there is elections in China.

     

     

    Crazyness... you have been brainwashed, you are consuming too much communism propaganda from youtube.

  16. Posted

    29 minutes ago, Roy said:

    Well fuck there is your issue. You need to cut masturbation, like TODAY. You'll be able to orgasm with her, you just need to give your parts a break and build up excitement.

    She won't say anything because she doesn't want to hurt you, but this is a massive problem. Subconsciously she is going to process that as you not being attracted to her. It doesn't matter the words coming out of her mouth or yours, that is how she will feel inside. If it happens enough she will leave you.

    Yes, I know. I will stop immediately.

  17. Posted

    1 hour ago, Michael569 said:

    It might be your brain that got desensitized by seeing unrealistic images of surgically enhanced female bodies for years, this is pretty common.

    Reduce your porn time and try to use your fantasy instead a bit more. 

    Occupy your mind with other things so that it doesn't barely slide to needing so much relief.

     

    Yes, I will follow your advice.

  18. Posted · Edited by Tudo

    4 hours ago, Roy said:

    @Tudo How often are you having orgasms? If you are doing it every day you will get chafed and have lower sensitivity. It's a muscle that can get strained just like any other part of your body. Give yourself gap days.

    Yes. I have orgasms every day from masturbation. I had not reached orgasm with my dick inside her, I had to finish it through masturbation, it was a pretty weird situation actually.

  22. Posted

    4 hours ago, max duewel said:

    Frank Yang

    lol no way.

    5 hours ago, Tahuti said:

    What in the fuck.... You definitely have not read one single spiritual texts that has existed on planet earth. Leo is not the most conscious, nor will he ever be. Until he has the ability to commit Mahasamdhi【"Mahasamadhi is the state a yogi enters when they consciously make the decision to leave their body. This is only possible once they have already achieved God realization, or nirvikalpa samadhi"】, he is just a normal guy who used psychedelics and some insights arose.

    I don't believe in Mahasamdhi stuff.