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@TK2021 fun fact is that you need a more than general attentive and responsible partner for it, who you can talk about your cycle with who might even track it with you and who will not play games especially when oppinions already start to differ. both need to not only to know how a womans cycle works. they also need to track it. sounds nice on the screen. but is def not for teens and def not for changing partners.

hope you guys don’t drink from plastic bottles.

@integral it seems like it causes mental health problems to not compare the sideffects of the pill to the sideffects of unwanted pregnancy, especially produced by a guy who might want to tell her what’s healthy or not for her. i constantly hear worse stories because of the spiral or insufficient preservatives than i hear about taking the pill. if they are fourteen the guy might be fifteen to sixteen, you think they can handle that?

venta, don’t know the model.

spoooooooky - not sure if i would connect that to any kind of currency. i mean the idea in itself is nice because it would be possible to protect intelectual property data. but connecting it to a capitalistic system in sense of crypto currency is spooky, i don’t understand how this works in sense of ideas like creative commons and so on. i‘d def try to think also into this as a dystopic future. the fast money part somehow sounds suspiscious, so i don’t really buy the efficency in saving the amazonas with this.

@Craigxt22 i bought an airwashing machine when i was still a smoker - i used to sometimes smoke out of the window when i was in my twenties. it works much better in my perception than a dry filter (hepa or any other kind) the room washer eliminated the smoke smell after some hours while the hepa i tested wouldn’t. i also got really good experience with this related to hay fever and it also keeps the air moisture on a nice level. consider that all of these machines have some sound. hepa maybe less than an air washer (water filter). you can also see how much dirt you washed out of the air when changing water after 24hrs, can be a lot.

ditto i‘d rather go to a laundromat or eat a quesadilla than a shopping mall for a date. but that’s super individual stuff. some people have never seen their city by foot probably.

@bloomer not the shopping mall! except if she is a very orange personality. there must be places you like. or stuff you like to do even if you are alone. @Leo Gura really if you live in the us you really date at shopping malls? i always thought this is a joke. at the age of 21? there is not more to explore? so you only do the good stuff with friends, basically?

@ElenaO i have an ayurvedic book about pregnancy preparation, pregnancy and esrly motherhood where they describe three different kinds of nipple packs and recommendation for breastfeeding issues. Ayurvedic Garbha Sanskar in English - by Shri Balaji Tambe if you are interested. don’t know if it helps as the book contains mainly tips during pregnancy, so if you don’t want a second child you might want to sell it shortly after the first year again, maybe you can find a used one. i strongly recommend ayurvedic practices for all tissue issues, it might also contain help for loosing weight after pregnancy. and axurvedic baby massage will relax your baby, there are separate books for that. or you could contact an ayurvedic practitioner for recommendations. and from my personal intuition, i‘d try a relax day for you both together in bed with a lot of skin contact without outside stress. you could give an ayurvedic baby massage and try changing the time for brest feeding and all the other tips they give if the baby doesn’t drink. like a meditation practice for you both. a breast feeding retreat with no interference of mom or husband except for food support.

@ValiantSalvatore didn’t you say you contacted her and she was asking about where you would take her? it sounded like you had a date. oh sorry - that was @something_else i confused you both for this and the last post. was not expecting a second similar story. if you have fun, you should go with that flow for a while until it’s basically satisfying for you to having fun without the need of closing. a lot of women really can feel that as a pressure, if it’s too intense it doesn’t matter if they liked your overall appearance (physical and basic vibe) they will opt out because they don’t like to be trophies. you might underestimate how women likewise might have a hunting instinct at dating and don’t really have fun with being a prey for an end result.

its actually funny how anti vaxxers basically support pharma because of anti social and medically badly researched and false statements, while the real problems of the medical system are really not vaccinations in general. not all pharmaceutical medicine is „bad“ - in some area there would definitely be room for improvement. rather than on vaccines alone there should be more focus on infrastructure of medicine, a focus on medical personnel, a pandemic plan which includes mrgn bacteria as potential future threat, a focus on natural medicine as replacement where it‘s possible and as support for severe illnesses, better food in hospitals (its not healthy at all), and still better research in gender/ethno/age medicine for sideffect reasons. why is most energy used up in the denial of vaccination instead of asking for the development of better vaccines? or a better information for example about the risks of live vaccines? i really wonder how this might play out if some day we have to take the meat off the table because of this general ignorance.

it probably would help to evolve the medical system a lot, if there was not an overemphasis on this as a single phenomenon. next big thing will be multiresistant bacteria, and that’s widely connected to pharma and animal farming. this virus is handled in a spiral dynamics blue way which will not work if antibiotics are useless for bacteria - at least everyone should know the difference between bacteria and viruses right now, which might be a growth in consciousness. it also produces a black and white thinking because of different perspectives on medicine. it sometimes seems like alternative medicine and pharma would fight about their legitimacy. pharma might win big in vaccines but loose big in their handling of other meds.

@ValiantSalvatore i‘d also not bet on closing after the next date. depends on what you want or expect of this. a lot of women won‘t sleep with any guy no matter the hotness scale, before at least the third date. if she invests she‘d expect you to invest as well. (don’t know about that scarcity mode you mentioned before but it sounds like you expect the wrong currency for pay offs) both of you have fun! is the most important part about it.

@CuriousityIsKey the misconception of this is that there is an illness you could actually „fight“ against - if god would not want medicine there would not be medicine in the first place. if there was no cure, no one would be able to find it, no one would be able to get relief or „healing“ or protection. in the most cases we stand ourselves in the way of the sun, which produces shadows.

@Rilles principles are like rules you set for yourself, it’s a codex you live by, they mark your moral boundaries you want to obey to. can be fierce stuff. especially if it’s close to a code of conduct and you encounter people with principles of perceived less integrity than yours. values give space, they set the mood for how you enact and behave in a social surrounding and what is important in setting goals. values are moral mood shapers/modulators. they are also playing a roll in how you choose principles. principles and values are part of a value system.

@ValiantSalvatore perfect to ask her to do sth she likes to do in berlin. you could tell her you are still exploring the city. because believe me, if you think you saw it all in 3 days, you did not really see it. it‘s like the imaginary metaphoric photograph leo probably never took (no one took of him). try ordering „pussy juice“ at a bar, it will be difficult to get, except for some places. by the way if you both went for the music, you could equally make it a random club date. (unfortunately its covid time)

@ValiantSalvatore if in berlin you probably need to be more creative than a drink. ask her to do sth fun. don’t do the classic pic up stuff, it only works if you don’t have to talk much. superficial does usually not work out for long in berlin, too many options and already difficult to make longterm friends/relationships. also read the atmosphere of the club - it was probably not a dark room. so she robably went there for dancing. ask her to do sth fun, berlin fun, if she ghosts you afterwards don’t take it personal. people also sometimes hunt for one night experiences.

this is so much open for interpretation - you need a really good social judgement/empathy (which of course every guy writing in this forum has) the self deception regarding that can be enormous depending on the narcissism/ego factor of a personality.

@Bob Seeker choose one with a nice day life - austin is more quirky and much less orange as a city. culturally austin has muuuuch more potential, you can even access the city by foot or bike, while that’s just impossible for vegas, which is a bit missing out on the green cultural vibe, the amount of one person by car is generally insane in us-american cities, but vegas is almost not accessible without. which means you almost always have to meet people in a commercial environment.

@JDemiralp nice

in some sense it is trying to schedule priorities in variables of importance and urgency. but sometimes it’s lacking in flexibility, too. the time frame aspect in urgence, can get lost over individual importance aspects. what is important for one person might be irrelevant for urgency of individually-not-important but generally-important issues. a lot of creatives are already good in blisscipline. intellectual importance and emotional importance are def different types of importance on a subconscious dimension of personslity, in a non rational sense.

@r0ckyreed procrastination in a sense is also creative potential. it’s also one of my long loved concepts. although there is ofc still a dissonance between dissipline, blisscipline (you name it) and procrastination. the closest modell which explains the problematic at hand is the eisenhower model/mattix - although i‘m not completely content with the model yet. what about the reasons for procrastination - why exactly are we able to blisscipline ourselves while not dissipline ourselves more regarding models like the eisenhower model. procrastination is after all an avoidance strategy - blissiplination for me would entail a strategy to love what you where running from in the first place, as avoidance behavior blissipline already has a name: procrastination (the negative connotation has an emphasis on an unsolved problem which will come back at you eventually)

@iboughtleosbooklist if dependent origination is empty for you - it is because you originate that in perceived independence of other factors. it is ok to seek external help! it is ok to let some preconceptions go. do you have a therapist you can trust?

@wellbranding if you got it from the vaccine you might also would have gotten it from an infection - maybe even worse. it also appears as side effect. but ofc it’s a harsh draw back you are facing - it would be nice if pharmaceutical medicine would have more speciffics on dose overdose or contraindications regarding age/gender risk factors. if stuff like that happens to oneself it’s totally normal to get mad. but it does not help you a bit with getting rid of your problem. first of all its important to talk about risks regarding the vaccination, too. in advance if possible. so you say you knew about the risks but didn’t take them seriously enough? different vaccines, different risks. one dose fits all, might also not be it entirely. some choice is preferable. after all in current medicine it’s still very important to do your research and know yourself. although unfortunately this sometimes leads to mistrusting medicine while not mistrusting yourself. or like in your case mistrusting yourself while trusting (a bit blindly) in pharma medicine despite your own predisposition. now that you are already at that point, would be probably serve you more to look into alternative medicine to get you out of this, maybe a combination of classic meds and herbal and somatic/psychosomatic cure/treatments. in my opinion to put in your energy into a self feeding circle of mistrust accusations and bitterness will not serve you much. you are probably not the only one, so it might be better to put your energy into case specifficity and prevention for others but at the same time into finding out what can heal yourself, taking all medicine into account also alternative med. i‘d research accupuncture and chinese meds in general and several kind of heart tonics, too. also inflammation reduced foods (try vegan) and might be meditation could help you, stuff where you can learn to influence your heartrate, probably positive emotions are important (no application of more stress, you need to calm down for your hearts sake) i‘d also look into yoga if there is practices to calm the nervous system or heart. in the end no one takes responsibility for your body but your body alone - in both scenarios either covid or vaccination are hidden risks. at this point we know that everyone who did not have it yet without vax will probably get it sooner or later. usually if a vaccination is needed in the first place the medical situation is already desperate, same goes for alternative meds.

by this conversation, just tell her to eat her dammn sushi alone at home. i mean if she can enjoy to eat it alone. i‘m going to make myself some coffee now, because that’s the most random date with my self i usually have. insert picart face palm.