TreyMoney

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  1. Why are we even here? We are here to experience. Everything is an experience. Some experiences are pleasant, some are unpleasant, some of neutral. Everyone is playing their parts, acting in accordance with their characters, wearing their personas, believing they actually are who they are pretending to be. Its cute really. But i understand sometimes it can be nauseating to be the only one on stage who knows its make believe.
  2. Be Your Own Therapist, Teacher, Guru, Priest, Shaman, Parent. You are all you truly need.
  3. Should you judge people on appearance? Yes, relative to the situation. If some goes to a job interview dressed for a football game, or wears a tuxedo to the gym, judge them. They are not playing by the social rules for the persona interactions. Fat people are not fat. Fat people have excess body fat. People are not drug addicts. People have drug addictions. This difference between "people are" vs "people have" is massively important.
  4. For sure, agree 100%.
  5. Any progress is beneficial. All or nothing thinking can be detrimental in recovery of any kind. I prefer to think of it as being more self integrated today than yesterday or this month than last month. So if I pmod 8 times last month, my goal this month is 7 or less for example. That way slips dont trigger an all out binge. The egomind is a master deceiver and will use anything it can get its mind around to trigger a binge.
  6. Dont believe this.....even if you currently cant masturbate to orgasm without porn, that doesn't mean you cant solve your addiction. You can. It will just take time and effort and commitment.
  7. If you find yourself masturbating to fall asleep, ive had success recently with practicing legs up the wall yoga pose before going to bed. Really helps calm me down and fall asleep where before i wouldn't be able to fall asleep with blowing a load
  8. Start reading books as well on sexual addiction, porn addiction and male psychology. Im currently reading The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine. Its great.
  9. Start a porn/masturbation log and start keeping track of how often you pmo per week, per month. And keep track of your thoughts and feelings before and after the act. Then slowly try to bring your numbers down. Make it a goal to bring your numbers down over time. I use Nathaniel Brandon's Six Pillars of Self Esteem as my guide. 1. Living Consciously - become more aware of your sexual energy and your sexual behaviours. Keep track! 2. Self Acceptance - accept yourself as a sexual being with sexual needs. 3. Self Responsibility - take personal responsibility for every action you take and choice you make. Try to reduce the autopilot, automatic reactions and increase the conscious behaviors 4. Self Assertiveness - burn off your sexual energy in other ways, like exercise, cleaning or anything else physical that will tire you out 5. Personal Integrity - does pmo align with you who you want to be? 6. Living Purposefully - is pmo in alignment with your life purpose?
  10. Lol never introduce a woman to someone more alpha than you unless you want her to branch swing up to him.
  11. Ive listened to the Ultimate Guide to Happiness episode now 3 times. It is honestly my favorite video in years. I don't know why it never occurred to me before to simply write down the things that make me happy, unhappy, or what i think will make me happy but doesn't. Very happy this episode was released. Im gonna write that down.
  12. This is why forums are so annoying.
  13. Looking for good quality red pill podcasts / youtube channels? Thanks
  14. Spiritual Autolysis in action! @Thought Art Keep going until you find satisfactory answers to all your questions. Peel that onion layer by layer. You know youre done searching when you have no more questions.
  15. @Nilsi meant on YouTube. I like UG Krishnamurti. Ramana Maharahi is my guy.