spiritual memes

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  3. Posted

    Just now, Tyler Robinson said:

    Most people can't develop them. They come to a person naturally. 

    Nothing to do with environment but more to do with genetics. 

    And some good luck. 

    You can literally change your style by buying some clothes...

    And the rest can be changed in a few months with some basic personal development or overnight with a low to medium dose of psychedelics. 

    If you change your social circle, these things all change naturally on their own with no effort.

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    Just now, Tyler Robinson said:

    Those are physical and a part of basic personality, stuff you're born with. 

    Charm is a natural trait. 

    You are absolutely not born with any of these these qualities. tf are you smoking? All of these traits are based on the environment you grew up in and can easily be changed. In fact, most of these traits change naturally on their own just by living life.

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    16 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

    Physical attraction and charm. Personality, looks, voice, mannerisms, temperament, style, communication skills, how you carry yourself. The most basic and initial form of attraction That tends to make first impressions. 

     

    Most of these aren't biological.

    Charm, personality, mannerisms, temperament, style, communication, how you carry yourself are all mental, emotional and spiritual traits.

     

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    38 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

    Dating is simple. Only certain types of personalities are attractive. Others aren't. Basic biological preferences don't deviate much from the standard. Others who don't fit this category simply end up wasting their time.

    I disagree, not everyone has the same preference. Obviously some are more common than others but attraction is subjective. Just look at how many categories there are on pornhub :D

    42 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

    t's not a job application, it's a beauty contest. Those who don't have the look should not apply,, this applies to both gender.

    That's even worse than a job application...

    44 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

    However most attraction is very primitive, natural and biological. And you can't challenge or criticize this, it's how it is. Not being able to accept it is your shadow side, your insecurity. There is nothing wrong with attraction. And it's not hard at all. As long as you accept and learn this, you will be less critical and resentful of it the way you do now. 

    I never said there was anything wrong with attraction. Only that people hyperfixate obsessively over the biological side of it and base their value and others against a checklist of ideal biological traits. Judging yourself and others based on superficial traits will inevitably lead to resentment and self hatred.

    You've been reading too much redpill and blackpill. If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

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    9 hours ago, KH2 said:

    It's not a chore. I just told you that, so that you can stop making it such a big deal, and actually do something. It's just not meant to be profound. That's BS.

    Disagree. 

    You're saying that dating is something that you need to get out of the way so you can do higher things. Which sounds like a chore. And like anything you frame as a chore you probably aren't going to do well in it. If you see it as something more than that then its going to be a lot more enjoyable.

    9 hours ago, KH2 said:

    You don't have to be anyone but yourself. In fact, you have no other choice.

    The idea of all this, is that you should strive to be an UPGRADED self. I mean personality wise.

    100% agree with you. But this post and many others have the vibe of 'how can I fake a personality trait so girls can like me?'

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    11 hours ago, Tyler Robinson said:

     

    So you mean women should not have any preferences but men should. Even i feel like it's a job application to always want to look attractive to men otherwise they choose a more attractive woman over me. 

    No, I'm saying that treating dating like a job application is pretty toxic both for yourself and the person you're trying to date. People with this mentality will become bitter and resentful real quick.

    Also If you think all men will choose a more attractive woman over you then that's a limiting belief.

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    8 hours ago, Ulax said:

    @spiritual memes Are you feeling annoyed because you want other users to value connection in dating more?

    No, its more the that these posts and comments give of such a depressing and neurotic vibe. These post frame dating like some sort of hellish job application where some female is judging you with checklist of alpha male traits to see if you're qualified for her vagina.

    I want other users to value themselves more.

  14. Posted

    Reading these dating posts is depressing...

    If dating in real life is like the way people describe it on actualized, I have no hope for the future of the human race. You guys reduce one of the profound human experiences to the most superficial and toxic shit.

    At this point I don't care what women like, I'd rather just be myself and fucking die alone than try be some imaginary 'alpha male' that someone made up.

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    2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    When I do it to you, I promise you will quickly be disabused of that notion.

    I heard a story of Sasaki Roshi, Shizen Young's master, grabbing students by the balls just to stress a point ;)

    surely there are better ways to prove a point to someone than molesting them?

  25. Posted

    3 hours ago, michaelcycle00 said:

    I don't think it's the best example to say that pedophilia is love and then also declare that if someone was like that to his children he'd kill them. 

    It's like saying murder is love but we're still locking you up in a cell for life. 

    You're being reactionary, that's not radical acceptance. 

    but killing a pedo and locking up a murderer is also love.