Kksd74628

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  1. @Majed Of course, consuming information from any source isn't the problem, but that you do it without your own filtering mechanism. You should be upgrading that beast throughout your whole life if your aim is to be wise. Thinking skills are real deal. Very wise person understands that problems should always be fixed in structure level which in this scenario means; it doesn't matter what you do as long as you don't sell your own thinking system and become sheap who follows other people blindlessly.
  2. @D2sage And exactly because of that we need thinking skills, not ready solutions. You are right on this thing partly. Some problems can be avoided and some of them are created by new situations which comes from development. If you think that we can plan ahead everything you're naive. There will be things, concepts and systems that we have no idea right now. That is what is development, sir. Development isn't only scary, but it also makes your life better. Better technology, health care and possibilities. We are doing weird things nowadays because we aren't experienced with these new things. Development isn't the problem, but our incapability to keep up with it.
  3. @Rafael Thundercat Exactly! That is the reason why we need to learn the beautiful skill of solving problems asap .
  4. @D2sage That is one style of raising children, but I would argue that there are better alternatives. Protecting child/teen from dangers makes them think that failure is horrible and they will be scared, stressed and confused in the future. They can't take any risks and they won't trust to themself. Better way imo is to give them good perspectives and let them see themself what is good and what isn't. Best you can do is to show different perspectives and have good conversations and be interested in why they think like they do. Don't change, but show another door to walk through. If they respect you and see the advantage for themself, they'll do the correct decision, trust me. So don't teach solutions, but thinking skills to solve problems by yourself for yourself. Being curious is the most important energy you have inside yourself and children have incredible amount of that until they are teached to act "professionally". Children will naturally do what is forbidden, because that is interesting. The more you try to control the less you have that in the end. It is the same effect as in the relationships. If you blame and say many times for your partner not to cheat then eventually the will cheat and leave you. The whole thing you are doing right now is trying to move person with bad eye sight not to fall into any traps instead of giving them glasses to see for themself.
  5. @D2sage That "educational" sounded somehow more "serious". I understand that you gotta survive, but think life as a game that is patching to newest patch everyday. Don't resist, but give honest critique on how to make the system better without breaking the whole thing. I heard one person in Destiny's podcast to say that schools suck and we should stop whole school system and home school all children. All of that was because school is so called brainwashing element in our society. I understand the problem, it is huge and should be fixed, but shouldn't be destroyed. Of course some things are stupid that change brings, but we can't but to play with the cards that are dealt. Do the best with the resources that we have in the situation given. Solution to problem isn't the one which dodges the whole thing, but that which makes it to work. Dodging is activity which is caused by fear that you showed (I don't want my sister to have bad life). Dodging is also laziness, because we don't want to work with that puzzle at all. First we thought that games are bad for you and then we made games that help you learn skills that you need; for example grammar games that teach languages. So to summarize See things as challenges and mini games to win rather than enemies or corruption. Have courage to really think of solutions and help society to integrate those rather than demonizing some part of life which causes just more division to humanity. That doesn't lead to anything good as we have seen in various examples; for example wars, bullying and attacking minorities.
  6. @D2sage We gotta hit the balance point between conservatism and liberalism. We want maximium freedom without breaking any useful structures that we have built throughout many years. You know that you've got old when you start to cringe on what young people are doing, because that is a sign that you've stopped going forward with the progress. I mean sometimes people do stupid shit, but to bring perspective, probably you did something "unacceptable" from the perspective of older people. Change brings good and bad things, but on overall the world is learning from its own mistakes so let's stop worrying and start accepting what is. That is the only way you'll ever build inner peace for yourself and people around you.
  7. @Majed Being true to yourself, talking with other worldviews and caring to understand them is the best way to do that.
  8. @Rafael Thundercat Does person B parrot person A when they share the same understanding that 1 + 1 = 2?
  9. @ivankiss I agree that it would be disaster from the perspective of how you personally just wanted life to be. What you want and what it is, is different. You have to make a decision. Either live life the comfortable way or seek for truth at any cost. I am just expressing this possibility to you and you can either deny it, attack it and attack me or then think about what Kksd74628 was trying to say and really let that sink in. From your perspective what I am saying could be wrong or right and the ball is on you to discover the answer. I have nothing to do with your path, but just be one perspective and make you think more about these things.
  10. @Breakingthewall When you are in lucid dream you just know, feel and understand instantly that you're alone in your dream. That same experience can be had in your "waking life" too. Unless you've had that I wouldn't talk as you and if you have then I don't understand what is your point right now. I am not talking about any beliefs, but direct experiences you could have. I hope you understand what I am trying to convey right know. If there's something that I explained weakly feel free to ask more questions. Peace .
  11. @Breakingthewall You should drop all beliefs away. Sorry if my response wasn't clear enough to address that. The answer isn't any idea, it is an experience you could have.
  12. @ivankiss That's not how spirituality works. You need to experience something in order to "know" it. Spirituality isn't guessing game, but hardcore science that relies on direct experience. Having opinion, guess or intuition doesn't work. Many people make more thoughts of how universe works when "practicing" spirituality when in actuality you should drop as many thoughts of it as possible and "see" what really is and what isn't. You have to tap not knowing and question all ideas you have about anything. Then you'll be surprised what state of mind you'll reach. And as @Razard86 said it isn't easy to drop out false beliefs, because that would be total chaos and path to unknown for you and you see that as a threat. I understand and trust you. All love to you <3
  13. @ivankiss How you know it is not true?
  14. @ivankiss Anyone else? The point I was trying to make is you to realize that thinking that there are other conscious beings reading your thread is a huge mistake in your thinking. You are right now having a dream and everything is your imagination and therefore there is only the experience right HERE and NOW. The experience is same with itself and also is one, because it is the only thing that there will ever be. You are right now reading your own message that you wrote to yourself. Kksd74628 didn't write this thing. "You" did it. Like in your nightly dreams you imagine everything so you do now. That's why everything is one and same. -joNi-
  15. @ivankiss Who are you explaining this thing to?
  16. @Danioover9000 You could easily have more developed sense of morality and spiritual understanding, but I was just trying to remind you that the tone you brought this thing here was kind of attacking instead of pure criticism. I don't think that selling gym workout plan for fat people or fixing someone's sight for money and clout is bad. Yeah of course I am not disagreeing that those problems shouldn't be fixed in the first place and I'd even argue that making this big video about helping those people would redirect focus to those problems more than doing nothing (which actually happened). First of all everything Mr Beast is doing is solely his own self-expression after all and I think he should have all rights to do so within all laws. To your other point I think good thing to realize is to see that probably Mr Beast isn't being this hyper dopamine person all the times. Even if he would I think that would be extremely understandable due to his lifestyle, money and clout. What you see on internet can easily bend your perspective of the situation and that's why it sometimes is incredibly hard to analyze scenarios, because at the end of the day you're left only what catches your eye sight and what has been recorded. You have to admit that to understand Mr Beast's or anyones personality one would need to know him/her on personal level first before making analysis of him/her. So to summarize that and previous comment: 1) Picking side and not taking into account other sides is a mistake in a deep thinking (if you want I could explain that on voice, because it is long point.) 2) Usually due to picking side you'll color your talking so the output is even more biased towards some direction. 3) Internet bubbles you to your own worldview if you aren't consciously trying to see other worldviews. 4) What you see on internet isn't everything. 5) To understand someone really you'd need to know him/her personally. I am talking about very nuanced things and what you did overall wasn't that bad, but I just think a little correcting to more holistic way of presenting things could be next growth for you. So more colorful data if possible and show the other side better so it doesn't become one sided. I have just done so much thinking that I want everything to be precise. That is where I get my joy to life, from having interesting and hard conversations with people. I want to stimulate myself intellectually so I decided to make these posts. What you brought is important discussion though. With love -joNi- <3
  17. @Danioover9000 Didn't watch all the content you posted, but I guess I got an overall picture of the situation. Don't really understand how people can twist what good you do against you. For example in the latest video you posted there was this person who got one million DOLLARS!! And then that person goes like oh, but he manipulated that person to show his home like wdym?? He got million dollars and if that would bother him he would as a last trick just change address and be happy with the money and clout he got for free. Feels like trying to just twist and rotate something to look like bad when there's no point to do so. Could Mr Beast do better, probably, but remember to ask that could you and then you see that all of us could be doing better so what is the critique then. Lately I've been reading comments on Andrew Tate and now that and it just feels that were you normal person or spiritual person you gotta always choose people to hate or put down. I don't literally get it when we are trying to be as conscious as possible and people just like to take sides. Just understand that taking side always means not seeing the whole picture. You could say which perspective is better in some perspective, but calling some perspective or person solely bad is just having blindspots and biases. I've spoken. -joNi-
  18. @mr_engineer There are games that cost and still people bully other's in those games, cheat and act like a children. You can't stop child to buy games. Even in games there are rules and you can get ban. This isn't anything new. Also Actualized.org is trying to be easy to access for new people so having paywall would make it harder for people to come. Why are you arguing against something so basic?
  19. @mr_engineer Leo has stated that he is trying to impact small group of people who are extremely motivated and disciplined on this work. There will always be people thinking that something is a cult, but thoughts don't matter as long as it isn't. Actualized.org probably right now doesn't try to influence to whole world or even to whole spiritual realm, but just to his fellow friends who actually take the help with thanks and respect. You should be you and not change based on what some people think of you and the same goes to forums. If someone dislikes, (s)he can leave. Those who like can party. That's not rocket science. Polices aren't enough, you need also laws. Without laws it would become corrupt more easily and how people would know what you can or can't do. Moderation has been used here for long time and still people just play here like it is some school game. We are literally talking about destroying whole Universe before your eyes here so I guess asking to be nice and good human being and kicking trolls away isn't too much to ask.
  20. @mr_engineer Immature people can stay, but they are little bit pushed to value Leo's patience more precisely. Being new to these things is not the problem, but being this hard-to-teach person just becomes distraction for members here and restricts growth of all Actualized.org members. The impact that practically comes with this is that people start to respect the direction where Actualized.org is trying to push members more which leads to even better growth for everyone and also we get the bad apples who don't want to grow away asap. Why would you carry someone on your shoulders who's disrespecting your help? Try to understand that this forum is rare goldmine and this forum, video content and Moderators help is given all for free for you so behave nicely or you're out. As simple as that. Don't get me wrong though. Actualized.org cares about people, but just if they care about themself enough to understand the consequences of acting like an A hole. It is not too much asked to treat other's like human beings, care about their worldviews and analyze them, not bully or steal anything and have positive mind state when posting. You are given laws in your country and the point is to make better society for everyone and it also guides humanity to act better. Also understand that Actualized.org is Leo's self-expression too and yeah that is valuable too. Don't call that egoistical or anything, because of cource Leo has all rights to do things his own way and he should. Don't make something problem which isn't. -joNi-
  21. @spiritual memes Usually you have to be little creative finding good answers, but one could simply be learning to answer to that question, what small actions could create big impact in this stage of my life, better and better time after time. Being very good answering to what you should be doing right now literally is one of the most important things life, because you could build your whole life from just being expert in that. That is what I think the whole philosophy is about, being more fluid in thinking so you could find interesting solutions for yourself. Practicing thinking is the key.
  22. @hoodrow trillson I see from that last sentence that you haven't looked deeply into his side. You need to really have the attitude like "oh fuck okay, I'll sit down and analyze it". The point is that most of the times the people holding opposite view just seem to be so stupid to even look to their side and that is what causes blindspots in worldviews. I just suggest one more time to really watch maybe one whole podcast and put "hate tate" lenses away and see his side better way. That is not comfortable, but I advice everyone who is anti tate and is reading this sentence to really put effort to it, because I can guarantee that I have point right now for you to see. The ones who really do that and find something important, please come here to reply what you found out so we'll be more openminded to other sides too. With all love -joNi- <3
  23. Like Leo himself said in liberal and conservative videos, there is always some reason for the another side. Try to see why Tate "supporters" think like they do. When my friend first time showed me Tate videos, I was laughing my ass off for the stupidity until I saw wisdom in it. I am not saying that you should be exact copy of Tate or anyone else, but please look to see some good points in them. It's called as analyzing differing worldviews to grow yours. Usually if you catch yourself picking side you'll have bias. It could be bias or not and it is your job to contemplate about it.
  24. @Leo Gura Yeah, but that was sidetracking of what I said. I really believe that therapy would pay itself in a form of better quality work and therefore the only thing which would change would be happier workers.