Rishabh R

When do I felt love in the past? My answers: .By my mother .Care by my mother .Care by my father .My parents fullfilled my demands . Love by my brother .My mother carrying me to the van on first day of my school .My mother accompanying me to tution .Boosting up ,cheering up of me by my mother during bad times Why? .Because I needed it .Because it was good feeling .Because I wanted it(the things my parents brought) .Because I liked it(the things my parents gave me in birthday gift) .Because it was in favour of me .Because it was sweet .Because I craved for feeling good

@Michael Jackson ok now that's an interesting perspective.

Hello everyone, I was contemplating that how am I being a fool in life and these are the answers that I got .By not focussing on my life instead of other's life (like seeing their status then being jealous ) .By thinking that above move is not a counterintuitive move .By not questioning assumptions in every situation .By procrastinating .By comparing myself to others Any thoughts guys and @Leo Gura?

@Michael Jackson How could you say that and I am not making stories.By the way how could you know that I don't give myself 1% of the love I deserve even if you don't know me in real life. I am here to questioning that is why I am posting these topics.

By the way @Michael Jackson I love myself and rather the perspective of not accepting myself would be better.

@bejapuskas that's great as truth is experience.

By contemplating the above question I came to following conclusions: .That there are unpleasant truths of my aspect .I am lacking something (for example a relationship) that others are having and others are lacking something that I am having .Yes I am single and I don't have any girlfriend .Yes in career there are other people who are better than me .I am avoiding facing suffering Any thoughts or something you all can add guys and @Leo Gura?

Further answers after contemplating: .I am a doormat .Reality is head on .I need to study .I am avoiding truth all the time .I am avoiding many undiscovered truths

Thank you @bejapuskas ,@Esilda however we must try to keep this post alive so keep posting here people .As I would posting my results of further contemplating it.

@Leo Gura and people the results of further contemplating: .My mother is no longer with me .Yes there are problems in life .People will treat me badly .Truth will not go by my assumptions about truth . Present experience is all that is .Truth and my emotions could be inverse

Welcome our leader ???

Thank you @Leo Gura but any more ways that how can I know I am facing or not facing the truth in case of comparison with others as I am a bit of confused in this case .

@Preety_India you are right but I must also learn to accept the fact that there are people who are better than me and there are people who are worse than me in any particular domain of life.

Happy Birthday @Leo Gura

She rejected you and that is normal. Now I am telling you all this and it will also happen to me a lot of times ,also happened to me in the past.You are a worthy person whom someone will want but not everybody will want .

Hello everyone and @Leo Gura -any particular way to develop intuition?Any good books related to intuition?I have also noticed that when I am feeling a particular way like angry about or sad about something happening and questioning it that is there any proof of this assumption and acting against it leads to a good result.So is that intuition ? I am confused.

@Yog Can I question the images being popping up in my mind? as they are assumptions/paradigms in mind which are not the reality itself. As intelligence is recognising that the paradigm in mind is not the reality - I wrote it while contemplating my intelligence journal.

@Carl-Richard ok thank you.

@Carl-Richard Sorry I didn't understood what you said.

Hi @Leo Gura and others (a 21 year old collage student here )Why do I always feel like I am inferior to others? Whenever I see relationships I get extremely jealous and angry ?. Also as per my personal life I have proposed 3 girls in my life, hitted on girls , cold approached 27 girls(ya I know I need more).I don't know why I feel like a victim?I also think that girls are too egoistic so no one will be my girlfriend.

However I have discovered that l feel better when I follow my values - .Focus on my life instead of other's life .Focus on my life purpose .Be honest with myself and everyone else (If I donot like something I must stand against it)(I must stop pretending) .Make my life revolve around the thing I love most (Science , especially Biological aspect of Science)

@something_else by proposing I don't mean that proposing for marriage but saying I love you

@NoSelfSelf oo yeah I remember that I have values but every day I see them and following them keeps me away from the rut sorry today I forgot to see my value paper due to classes.By the way my one of the values is to focus on my life instead of other's life.Thank you.

In my 1st year of collage I proposed a girl by saying -I love you on a chat(Initially she blocked me on WhatsApp as I didn't know that she was in the hospital recovering from covid -19).After proposing her on chat she said -I will slap will slap you on the face.And the next day her friend from a different engineering branch of the same collage threatened me and said that study and don't do all these things.This event occurred almost an year ago- I don't know that why I am not able to forget it even though I go out a lot and got a few girls attracted to me. How is my understanding not sufficient enough about the situation? How am I not understanding the guy who threatened me ? Also guys and @LeoGura can you all recommend good epistemology books for me ?By the way I have recently downloaded the book an Introduction to contemporary epistemology

@puporing yeah thanks it is good to move on but the scars remain ??