Rishabh R

I had a major past story on it. I liked a girl , used to talk to her ,flirt with her ,we even got intimate a little bit but on the last day of my seeing her she told me to focus on studies instead of doing this and she after few minutes started flirting with someone else , she was also rude to me during some interactions between me and her in days before. After that incident I developed obsessive compulsive disorder due to which when I am not on antidepressants I imagine the imaginary her in a hypothetical situation with me and I hit her but that is hitting or talking to someone who is not there.At certain times my father spots me and tells me that this is an incurable disorder even if I talk with him about it. Lesson learnt: there are costs to being authentic but much more serious costs to being inauthentic. If someone who doesn't value you or talks rudely one must not tolerate it more than two times and stop talking to that person or leave whether it is with a girl or boy. @Leo Gura do make a video on this as it is an important topic . Also the thing which made me fell in this trap was her fairness. I think I must understand this idea that beautifulness is in the heart not in the face so not every beautiful person is really beautiful from the inside.

Are you all interested in self actualization test well you all can take it at https://scottbarrykaufman.com/characteristics-of-self-actualization-scale/ as it is one of the top self actualization tests out there.

Maybe thinking outside the box is going meta and seeing the situation as holistically as possible with the big picture.Anyways thank you @Leo Gura

Wow @Preety_India your acceptance is great

Hello guys how are you all. I have a question that is 1 equals to infinity as 1 treats itself without discrimination between its parts so as infinity.So is 1 synonymous to infinity?I have contemplated on it a little bit and the individual numbers may dscriminate between themselves but they are joined by irresistible connectedness of infinity. So infinity does not dscriminate among it's parts but parts themselves do between themselves. What are your all thoughts about it and also especially @Leo Gura ?

@Nahm yes but 2 is like 1 as 2 treats itself as special by not discriminating among itself but at the same time 1 is different from 2 as 1 and 2 as parts may discriminate among themselves.From relative view numbers are different among themselves but even though they are different they are tied by irresistible force of going towards infinity like 1,2,3,4 ...... ♾️.

@Windappreciator Ya ? that is why I was not posting anymore.

Ya @Leo Gura as the universe is one and everything.Thank you .

@Kksd74628 Sorry to disagree with you here but it didn't came here with my overthinking but as an Insight (you all can disagree with that) that is why I am asking you all and @Leo Gura about it.

Sorry @Windappreciator I quoted your name in above reply by mistake.

@Windappreciator@happy chappy Ya I agree that the parts can see themselves as absolute that is why there is a discrimination between these numbers as when relative number like 2 or 3 can see itself as absolute but is relative but infinity does not descriminate among itself. Suppose infinity is represented by n then it would have to be recognising itself as relative because as it could lead to moving in direction of n+1, n+2 and so on.

@Windappreciator I am talking about counting perspective that like if we go on the number line increasing from 1 to rest of the line we can recognise that infinity is made of many 1 as 1+1+1 and so on but which behave differently as parts(individual numbers) but similar as whole(♾️).By the way thank you.

@Kksd74628 Yup as I think that oneness and infinity are the same thing but as we consider the universe it is one and everything(infinity).So are they same ?if we take 1 on the number line as 1 can descriminate itself with other numbers but not with itself so is infinity.

Guys you all can answer as well

@Judy2 I am also trying to do that ? but still what hurts me is my expectation that Leo will release a video upcoming Sunday. @Leo Gura please release a video.

Don't worry I am also turning 22 this year.It hurts that my collage is not opening but Leo's video also have practical influences in life by just doing the techniques mentioned in the videos it produces enormous benifit. I would also further point out building a life purpose by finding what aspect of life you love ( like Science,humanities etc.) and contemplating What kind of positive impact you want on mankind to have through it ?Also remember that the whole world is going through a bad phase .

@Leo Gura Ya I am trying to get you as today a video of actualized clip titled All fear is imaginary came and as a contemplated it a bit I recognised that even if I actually die still it would be the end of suffering (if I pass away due to a disease).Not only that it will also be the end of problems of life.( I am just imagining death right now which is an assumption in itself) yup I agree with you @UnbornTao .

@Leo Gura By doing the work mentioned in that assumptions video and making my list that What are the assumptions I am making in my life it is leading me to rigorously counter intuitive directions. Still there is a fear lurking in me that wouldn't this work lead me to something dangerous ?Is my fear right(just wanted to know ) maybe that's also an assumption that I am making ?

@ZenSwift Thanks and I had discovered(earlier by doing this process) that the questions which are too obvious to question or too apparent to question are very worth to question.

@Thought Art Are you asking me or Leo ?

@Kksd74628 thank you . Thank you @LeoGura and by the way please release a video this Sunday(Maybe deconstruction of Science part 4 or something please)

@Leo Gura Oo so energy transforms from one form to another and since our cells contain energy in the form of ATP that energy does not get destroyed but changes.Which indicates that change is the only thing which is constant and also questioning assumptions can lead to success in many areas of life so this topic is also very practical ?

@Leo Gura So one must question assumptions a lot but not every assumptions ?

Like the dangers of myself getting killed or landing with an accident on road or some exceptions of counter intuitiveness of life(I know that they are very few). However I am interested the middle one (science) listed above.

@happyhappy No I think that sucess is counter intuitive which involves hard work and also reverse psycology .