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@Princess Arabia sorry but I was not talking about that. I think that Leo's video -Assumption is the mother of all --- ups will be helpful .

@Princess Arabia thank you . So, it is good for me to question assumptions about myself.

@Chives99 thank you .

@Something Funny thank you . This is a good way of thinking .

@Leo Gura So I must be optimistic that a girl will accept me one day ?

@Leo Gura thank you.

@Chives99 great. I am glad to see your progress.

@Leo Gura also I am waiting for the courses and hoping that I would take the mind course if it will be not costly. By the way I was just curious to know that will there be any actualized.org video tomorrow as I am eager to grow along with you on this self actualization journey that started in 2017 when I discovered your channel and started doing the work.

@Leo Gura I loved your clips channel the second most after the main channel.

@Moksha Great. Thank you .

What truth am I avoiding facing ? -That I don't know -That I need to question assumptions -That truth is not as bad as I think -That people are not as great as they seem -That people don't have good life as it seems -That truth will have a huge impact on my life -That truth has huge recontextualization capacity -Things which I don't consider have huge impact on my life -That I am not facing the truth Where am I avoiding facing the truth ? Dating life : those girls are not for me Life purpose: that need of myself to daily remind me of my life purpose Career: that my marks does not matter as much as I think Emotions: that my emotions matter more than I think Human interactions: they have a huge impact on the quality of my life

I contemplated this question a lot for many days during the starting of my contemplation journey - What is the most wisest way to live life ?(Mentioned in Leo's video what is wisdom ) Some of the recent insights when I came back to same question from different questions are : -There is no one wisest way to live life -I am beautiful with life -I am imagining life -I am imagining difficulties -I am imagining everything -Reality is counterintuitive -Things that do us bad in short term do us good in long term -Inner world and outer world pierce each other -Everybody's full aspect of life is same -Way already implies that I am behind -Perceptions are self fulfilling Thank you @Leo Gura

Happy Birthday @Leo Gura

I think it is given in the comments.

. By thinking about the situation .By rethinking every course of action

@Willie I agree with you but there were seniors in the room who called me and told that there is no garantee that he will not beat me in the future so to take the garantee he said that I have to write an apology letter.

One of my senior who has a habit of demotivating me called me in a room. He held his entire hand around me and was about to clutch my neck with his arms then I gave him a punch on his back then we were engaged in a physical fight and his shirt was torned.I apologised by tearing his shirt but he didn't listen . After that he went to talk to seniors of our curriculum . The senior told me to write an apology letter to the senior whom I engaged in fight with since, I raised hand on my senior. So I wrote an apology letter. Then he came to my room and told that to make his stitch his shirt by a tailor otherwise he threatened me to tell to other senior who is Don of our college to beat me along with his friends. All of this happened to me in the hostel of my college.What to do ? As a little background - I am a 22 year old engineering student in college in India . I am interested in biological aspect of science ( my stream is biotechnology engineering). I have my life purpose connected to it . @Leo Gura

How to fall in love with life .

@Leo Gura same to you.

Most of my peers are not doing any personal development work.They are engaging in jumping from relationship to relationship. Even though I have attracted many girls and was close to sex but realised that I doesn't have that much value in it as it is projected. They are busy insulting , abusing people. They laugh at philosophy and think that spirituality is not a risky thing even though they don't do it . Even they are not doing science properly. When I move out of my college environment for some work I see a different environment - people busy in their day to day work and I am not surrounded by kissing couples as in my campus. At the same time I had an insight - College is a stimulated environment. And there is another realisation of mine from years of heartbreaks ,rejections,attracting few girls that heartbreak is a saver of you from a low quality person in life . One of my seniors told me that you will never get a girlfriend but now I am greatful that I don't have a low quality person in my life . A friend of mine gave me advice that go study don't engage in relationship and I found out that he himself was engaged in a relationship and later I found that he had a break today recently I found out that a girl whom he was dating while giving me advice is getting intimate with someone else . Almost nobody is reading self help even practical advice from Bhagvad Gita which I have read a little and will read in the future cause I think that philosophical teachings have value. Am I right @Leo Gura ?

Thank you

They keep attacking me , telling me not to watch it. They say that see what other people see on the internet. This happened when I was watching the video -Avoidance of truth . How can I continue my self actualisation journey despite so much resistance from society ?

@Rigel thank you.

@LordFall Sorry but I have a life purpose.

-Cause I am assuming that I know the truth -Cause I am not seeing other's suffering -Because I don't understand that other suffer -Cause I think that I am the only one who suffers -Because I don't understand the irrationality of my emotions -Cause I think that everyone has reached the end point of success and I am in the starting point -Cause I don't know that success has no end point and failure is temporary -Cause I don't know that success is also temporary Any thought @Leo Gura and people ?