Rishabh R

@meta_male thank you. Yeah I must focus on finding a girlfriend rather than getting a girlfriend cause dating is enjoyment not an achievement.

I read some articles on dating few days ago about dating and I put it to test. I found myself rather than desperately trying to talk to girls I started to screen away girls who aren't compatible/ authentically connected to me and eventually I found a tiny amount of girl who is interested in talking to me. Am I doing it right? The article : https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes

@Leo Gura ,@Yimpa thank you.

@meta_male thank you .

Further answers from contemplation : To be not discouraged by obstacles. Few minutes before now I also realised that without action into a particular direction self help is useless

Here are my insights through contemplation : Alignment with immediately important things. Why ? Because it improves life Why it improves life ? Because it remove unnecessary distractions Why? Because it pulls the person in one direction

Since, I am getting heartbroken over and over in college it taught me lesson like - either I will connect/enjoy the conversation with a girl or the girl is not for me, if a girl to whom I am talking has a boyfriend then she is not good for me .Is it the process ?Am I doing it right? What mistakes am I making? Feedback's are appreciated.

Right now I contemplated -What is the truth about my personal life ? Answers are counterintutive : I am attractive I have attracted many people That I have overcome bullshitty situations Why? Because I took action and moved on

@SeaMonster ok The girls whom I hit on after a while either I come to know that they already have a boyfriend or they reject me and become someone else's girlfriends. This is the problem and I am responsible for solving this problem.

@Hojo awaken to truth ?

@Schizophoniaok.

@Schizophonia maybe that's what is happening to me from years of heartbreak,rejection ,insult from girls etc.

@Schizophonia yeah but suffering from pain longer than usual is unhealthy.

@Yimpa thank you.

@nhoktinvt thank you . What about heartbreak ?

@SamC The Subtle art of not giving a ------- by Mark manson.

@Galyna yeah I love contemplation and asking questions to myself.

Some of insights that hit me are - people are irrational, college is a stimulated environment etc.And are we God in the sense that when we veiw the world from above which is going meta we are dreaming the universe and being God. Sorry by the way I have failed in philosophy cause I am not awake .But there are other things to do such as learning from awake people about general lessons that can be applied in life ?

@Galyna ok ok but with every single contemplation my understanding increases and Leo said in his video what is an insight ---one way to generate insight is serious contemplation and questioning which I do everyday.Yeah you also are correct as Insight transforms the one who has it.

@Galyna yeah but when I contemplate then non-obvious/counterintuitive answers come like - Reality is counterintuitive,Materialism is illusion (insight from the question---What is the most wisest way to live life). To remember them I believe in them despite what my friends tell me.

@Yimpa I am just checking wether I am contemplating correctly but I believe in my insights after I have generated them by contemplation. So that they stick with me

@Galyna thanks that is why I believe them to my heart and some of my friends laugh at my insights cause they are counterintuitive.Thank you @Leo Gura by the way what's your opinion?

@Yimpa thank you.

@Galyna ok . Contemplation Question--- What is the most wisest way to live life ? -Reasearch and experimentation of everything -Thoughts are preceded and succeeded by emotions -Universe is a bigger surrounding and it is an unknown surrounding -There is no one wisest way to live life -To question everything -I am in boundary withing boundary -People act according to their emotions And many others.

@Galyna Sorry you misunderstood me I mean a total insight I generated by contemplating daily are more than 250(2 years of daily contemplation). Are those conceptual thinking as well ? I highly suspect that they are not.