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@Leo Gura Ok . Is this more clear , correct me if I'm wrong ? How to deal with fear of rejection ? In my experience what I do is I take action by approaching women despite fear . I get confused by many high quality frameworks such as before approaching either I can assume that I don't know what's going to happen and then approaching or approaching despite anxiety .

@Olaf I have approached more than a 100 women in my life time. Then I lost count.Maybe you're ahead .

@LordFall 👍

@Leo Gura By women .I mean are men loved by women weather they are single or dating ?

@Olaf Great progress. I must treat it as evidence of what's possible rather than getting jealous of you .

@Leo Gura A question for you . May sound irrelevant - Is every human loved regardless of being single or being in a relationship? Challenge the basic assumptions behind this question .

@aurum Yup relationship involves an element of chaos alongwith intimacy since nothing in life is wholly positive nor wholly negative . Singlehood on the other hand includes pain but it also includes peacefulness.

@aurum I would disagree since it's a breeding ground for neediness. I felt that the more I stop imagining about being with an imaginary girlfriend or chasing women more happier and peaceful I feel. Yup you can still talk to women but you no longer try to chase their acceptance .

@integral You scared me when I read this post.

@Mellowmarsh 🙂.

@aurum I wonder getting a girlfriend as a goal is itself a futile goal.

@Monster Energy Reading your response I had a mental image of Shifu meditating and chanting to himself -inner peace . It was a great series.

@Monster Energy You never know what you can do unless you do it - Kung fu panda 4.

@Olaf What happened during your challenge ? Could you describe ? I am curious .

@Olaf I appreciate you for embracing the challenges of dating but to improve it you can do 1 thing - only approach the ones that you are into.

@Blackjack38 Read Subtle Art of not giving a F---. Preferably chapter 1 . The gold of emotional regulation.

@Olaf Great . Outcome detachment is huge .

@LordFall Correct me if I'm wrong but I think it's appropriate for people in the world to learn to act despite self-doubt and then changing their beliefs based on the real world evidence . I have noticed that if not all but most of our beleifs of our potential are wrong - this I have learned through experience.

That's wisdom.

Don't suffer because you that cute girl didn't dated you. Since , dating is like mirage of happiness.

@LordFall Congratulations man. Wishing you the best life ahead.

@Ramanujan Nope despite being single I am not lonely .

Getting a girlfriend or relationship= Happiness That's the myth I need to question.

Since 2 days I was feeling reactive , hatred and anger. I mean I experience hallucinations of being hurtful to people who hurt me in the past . But tonight I am feeling complete peace .

@Ramanujan Continue to make more make friends and do so with females as well. Who knows one day you will get things better than you hoped for initially. Truly negativity is the path to positivity . Negative situations lead to better things if you keep taking action .