Rishabh R

@Majed I get you I felt this when I was in college that I won't get a girlfriend. It's pretty miserable place once you take that beleif seriously (speaking from experience) .Either question that beleif or stop buying into it since it can lead you to emotional turmoil,suffering ,sadness - all of which I went through in college by believing this thought .Fast forward today , I have graduated and I rarely think of that beleif as well as I have replaced it with better ones - I can get a someone if I continue putting myself out there. Secondly , you can replace it with I don't know weather I would get laid ot not . Now a these days whenever guys tell me I won't get a girlfriend it feels little hurt for a while but eventually it bounces off my chest .

I was also confused about the same .By the way I prefer philosophy as a lifestyle .

I think from this post that we give to many F--ks about what others think about us .

@Basman Yup which includes me 😅.

@Basman No I am not talking about belief in God but rather using philosophy for reaching God by deconstructing beleifs ,assumptions ,thoughts. Since, God is experience as well tranquility is a closer state to God compared to emotional suffering. Even though not a person of spirituality by rather basic high quality self-help which includes things that maybe or may not be found in mainstream self-help.

@Basman In my opinion philosophies like Stoicism(non-religious material ), Socratic Questioning(non-religious material ) and meditation (which in turn is a popularized by religion ) are genuine self-help materials compared to the shallow self-help culture which we see today.

@PolyPeter ❤️

@PolyPeter Thanks dude when I made the decision of acceptance of negative emotions like suffering ,jealousy I think it was one of the best decisions of my life . Whenever I feel it fully the emotional turmoil gets reduced significantly to the manageable extent.

@Boost 👍

@PolyPeter Are you talking about feeling the pain fully which I mentioned as acceptance and at the same time having a detached identity ? By the way acceptance helped me a lot and also other practices I mentioned too helped a lot .

@UnbornTao No I am real human 😂.

I'm sorry but I don't know about the 1st .However, the 2nd one which watched some months ago was not ai generated .😁 Even though my wisdom might not be fully mature .By the way sorry @CARDOZZO I am wrong since I analysed all these videos as well as your posted video and found that your posted video was more accurate than video posted in my post. Also it was more accurate than Leo's video - How socialization makes you dumber .

@UnbornTao I don't know but people love these things and for the second one it isn't ai.

@CARDOZZO I disagree with you. Highly intelligent people are rejected by society . They carry the burden of hatred .Watch these.

In practice many people flunk taking life seriously as I have observed. They can't even stop smoking cigarette for a week leave apart practicing philosophy, meditation,contemplation/self questioning. Yes you were right that people won't take a person kindly who questions assumptions.

11th.

@enchanted Once I was a writer in the Medium. I think focussing on the approaching the women whom you like rather than approaching for numbers is a better approach to dating.

@Leo Gura Observed this a lot when I was in college . The girls around me were going from a relationship to relationship. I'm glad I didn't choose that lifestyle and being single as well as suffering due to it in college redirected me to better things than a bunch of immature/toxic relationships.

Dipression is not being aware that reality can surprise you.@Nick_98 What you are describing is mood swings not depression. Speaking of assumptions - Dipression is a feeling of hopelessness based on the assumption that nothing will change even if one takes actions. Even though that is a faulty assumption in most cases.

@WonderSeeker You have reached a state of ultimate Zen non-f--kery where you are a functional person. As per your insights you can write them down on paper or just share with us here.

Yup , and then small challenges feels trivial when compared to them. By the way can I request a feedback from you about me even though you don't know me in real life and we are just random strangers talking on the forum ?you seem to be a resilient person and have experienced in life more than me (I'm just 25 years old). 😁

Yup documented as progressive desensitisation in psychology . Also Seneca whos'e book caught my attention and I bought it on Amazon Kindle (On Hardships and Happiness ) few months back wrote in that book that a wise person views adversities as training exercises so failure isn't bad but rather a training exercise .( Even though in the past I mistakenly thought it to be due to personal inadequacy )

This is something worth learning but I take action despite having the fear of failure .

@Leo Gura Is this new product a substitute to your mind course -Programming your subconscious mind ?

@Ramanujan I did it by learning from the PDFs which college professors provided me ,studying consistently . Also I did it by writing the important lessons from chapters in my copy. Even though I struggled a lot to score high CGPA and was suffering in college heavily due to above average but not good CGPA and seeing people going from relationships to relationships where I was single ,bring rejected by girls.However not clearing the goal of high CGPA and being in constant tug of war weather I will get a girlfriend or not acted as a blessing for me whenever I look at that past. Since, with not getting 8 CGPA out of 10 in college but landing on 7.64 lead me to buying of many high quality self-improvement courses ,books (physical copy and online on Kindle ) and studying them besides my integrated M.Tech in Biotechnology. It taught me emotional regulation,resilience, doubting my beliefs and assumptions which were more valuable like skills than crossing the benchmark of 8 CGPA since they help me now as well.In fact they got me multiple placement offers(3 offers ) in college. I remember once in college that I gave my exams without eating my antidepressants for 1 weeks ,suffered from withdrawal symptoms which caused me immense distress during and after exams (Scored 15/20 in 3 subjects and 8/20,11/20 in other 2 subjects ) . Finally in the last semester I got 9/10 CGPA in my dissertation. As an advice I will say this that nothing beats this - Just study consistently .You will get better as you keep going and be persistent in your studies despite getting bad marks. Romantic rejections acted as redirections towards better connections ,not giving a F--- or being detached and focussed on my own life made me more attractive and happier which I later realized deeply after college .I read and applied Models by Mark Manson . Multiple girls approached me. Some said I am handsome , cute,intelligent.