Gianna

Oh my gosh, c'mon guy. This is obvious! Time is money. Why do you think the wealthy hire housekeepers? It's not because they're lazy. They are driven which is why they are wealthy. But they are smart. Spending money for time is the best way to make money.

First option, 100,000%.

Hm, it sounds like you are really focused on doing. Maybe switch your orientation towards being and then discover what you love about that. So instead of focusing on what you love to do, focus on what you love to be. Do you love being funny, supportive, encouraging, loving, compassionate? Figure out what it is and then find a direction that's centered around that– be with it everyday! You'll start to love yourself incredibly. And it's impossible to not find fulfillment in self-love.

Yes. It's the dual side to feeling, which is being.

@Flowerfaeiry Well, I'm just saying, how do you create a dream? By having no resistance to it. This is why I say it is 'enlightening'. Of course you are right, it's normal to have resistance and very difficult not to. But people who train themselves to be allowing of everything are the people who are walking on water and having bullets go through them and their wisdom teeth being pulled out for bliss. haha. fucking insane, but it's really just the point that matters– don't be afraid to feel. Or rather, don't avoid your feelings. That's where it starts at least. But play it forward.

It's having no resistance to life stuff

Oh my gosh this is everything right here. This is what enlightenment looks like on a practical level– not having resistance to your feeling states.

This is so real. Amazing post.

When you say 'it' you mean weed right? And is yin femininity? If so, that would make sense since it's a very earthly thing. Why would it put you out of balance? I mean, if it were not abused?

Use the negative thoughts to inspire you towards something you want, and then put all of your focus/attention towards that. If you find the negative thoughts uncontrollably popping up, that's okay. Just use them as little reminders like a bell going off to remind you of what it is telling you that you want instead. This will help switch you from a state of Fear/Powerlessness to a state of Love/Empowerment. When you are in the state of Love and Empowerment for long enough to where you make it your dominate state of frequency, you will not be a vibrational match to the negative thoughts anymore. They will not be able to touch you! I hope this helps <3

Incredible, amazing, beautiful, holy cow! You are a rockstar. We all love you for this!!!

@Loba Well let's do it! Start a thread.

@Patrick_9931 oh boy, hehehe. Here's what I would say This deep zen / taoits non-action like state you mention is not only about 'stillness to eradicate issues'. It is also about 'stillness to discover movement'. And this movement is where you create from. So does it make sense to pursue enlightenment before a career? Hell yes. That's the whole point imo. If you're not very close to yourself, the career you build might not even make sense. But if you are close to yourself, it might make a lot of sense and actually might aid your enlightenment journey. Everyone is different even though essentially it is all the same. Just remember this: you can't make the wrong decision. Everything you do will be right. You belong to yourself. You can't take yourself away from yourself or out of yourself, it is not possible. It's like trying to take the paper out of paper.

@Loba <3 <3 <3

Wow @Loba hehehe just kidding

16!? Oh my goodness bby ?

With you

Of course this love is real. It's the realest experience we have.

No you should meditate more when these episodes come.

Oh yeah I forget he's charging for consulting, that's super different. But still. Better be a magic bullet.

@Raptorsin7 Yeah I've been in digital marketing for almost 5 years. I know plenty of rockstar marketers who would never charge something so ridiculous. For something as simple as Qigong and breathwork? I mean ohhh my gawd. I have worked with big corporate brands, casinos, hospitality groups. I'm familiar with marketing budgets. And I'm telling you, 8K for breathwork is fucking retarded I'm sorry. I mean it kind of makes me upset. I work with large hotel properties that don't even spend that much but I guess (granted) they don't really have to idk. I get it, I know I don't know exactly what this guy is offering. I just know it better be something fucking insane if he/she is charging that much for breathwork. haha. Try selling medical devices, haha. Anyway, You can get amazing results for a quarter of that price if you're working with someone who knows what they are doing. Just saying!

consulting obviously is going to cost more than management fees. But he/she better be showing you some good shit for $8000. And I'm sorry but click funnels and sales navigator (via LinkedIn)– which is where the higher dollar amounts come from– aren't even 8K worthy imo.

This is what people assume. It's easy logic. But the truth is much deeper and more complex than this. funnels are elementary.

Maybe homo sapiens?

hehehe. so relatable. @soos_mite_ah It's normal to have the idea that once you leave your family that's it and there's no going back. In fact, you could even argue that this mindset is necessary in order to detach and restructure yourself authentically. But the truth is, once you rehabilitate yourself, you can always turn back to your family because you will be solid enough to stand on your own ground without collapsing or being swayed. You won't regret it because you would have developed so much strength and solidity in yourself by doing it, that you would never want to take it back for anything. In other words, you never want to go back to being attached, identified, and needy once you are detached, dis-identified, and self-serving. You will be extraordinary grateful that you chose yourself. If you are having thoughts like, "I can't go back to my family once I leave them because they will not have me back," then ask yourself this really painful and terrifying question: If my family cannot wish for the best for me– without considering their own selfish needs and concerns– then do they really care about me? If my family cannot see past themselves and hope for the best for me, then do they really love me?