JJfromSwitzerland

@Leo Gura wtf, 1 day after I made this post I see a video on the actualized.org youtube channel with the exact same title: is gender a social construct?

@Consept That's an eye opening statement, that's why nowadays there is a huge agenda behind LGQTB and they are getting bigger and bigger and pushed by the media

@Peter Miklis yes, your answer makes absolutely sense to me. I just think about the feminists who want to make everything equal so that no gender exist anymore - so they are misleaded ->from the ego persprective

I don't know what all these "redpill" bullshit or whatever is, my girlfriend earns more than me and she is on my side and turns other guys down

The best video or information I ever watched about dating is this one: But now I look into this forum and some men ask for help in their dating life and I see Leo answering with some basic pick up information. Isn't this contradiction? For me the best game is no game

@The0Self English is a foreign language to me and I am not fully fluent;)

That doesn't mean you have to do pick-up so you contradict yourself and what the F does tangential even mean, I think you wanna act super smart with your words but you just talk but nobody knows what actions you take...

ok well so what about the 99.99% of all the men who never heard about pick up in their life? you say they are all on a lower stage then

what?

@wwhy I know

@JJfromSwitzerland I agree with you. Pickup strategies may be useful to get some fiele experience and shed some limiting beliefs. But like any other "system" it can't encompass the complexity of human interaction. I prefer to stay as far away as possible from manipulative strategies and instead learn how to be in my body, express myself freely, etc. yes, so somebody who has they same view as me;)

So you say, I should start pick-up now so that I can overcome it later to transcend?

Ok to be honest I do sometimes put what Leo says on a pedestial cause some videos helped me but maybe I should stop. With women I don't know if I put them on a pedestial, if so, I am not aware that I put them on a pedestial. I just enjoy the company of women I am attracted to.

Why do you think I put Leo on a pedestial only because I appreciate that video of Leo? Why do you think I put women on a pedestial? Where did I say because they go home with me sometimes, I am special? These are assumptions you make about me but you don't even know me, the only thing you know about me is what I posted here. I also don't make assumptions about you.

I am Leo cause it's all one - god. Joke lol, of course I don't know what his "authentic self" is. Ok maybe you have a point, I don't know. For me I just don't like listening to too much pick up advice so that's why I really resonated with the video "how to be a man pt 2" but then I got confused cause Leo still gives these kind of advices and I thought, they are not authentic but since I don't know him that good, I can't tell if they are authentic or not. For me this Pick-up says all women are like that and you have to act like this and then you get her to sleep with you but in my expierience this just doesn't work because every human being is different. Maybe I missunderstood pick up? What works for me is be open, talk to many people, approach many women, be self confident with yourself and your style and you get the women who want you for being you. But I am just a random dude hehe

Ok but the video I posted "how to be a real man pt 2" has nothing to do with we are god or spirituality as I understand. It basically says be your authentic self but then Leo gives the normal pick up advices as well which are not necessarly the same as being your authentic self. This was my question/confusion. My way which works for me in my dating life is I approach women and then I don't listen to pick up or dating advices anymore, I just text or call when I want and I can say it works for me. I am pretty happy with my dates and sex life. Of course not with every woman I can have dates or whatever cause it's a number's game but I try to be authentic, sometimes it works, sometimes not. I think @flowboy answered my question pretty well.

Ok, yes you have some points

Mmmh ok... to be honest, I don't really understand that quote lol. Or I should say, I don't understand it yet!

And who gives a fuck? Why you waste energy to know who have it more difficult? Does it make any difference in your life knowing that? I don't mean it in a rude way even if it sounds disrespectful.

I don't know what you mean, just try to be fully yourself and problem solved. Then you don't give a shit about masculine or feminine energy. What's that even suppose to mean? Look for example Lenny Kravitz, he is probably reeeaally feminine in your definition, yet he is so sexy to lots of women, Arnold Schwarzenegger is realy masculine for your definition but he is never as attractive to women as Lenny Kravitz.

Lol and also, which video game did he working out?

What's up I just saw this video on youtube and wanted to know your view on what he says because this random guy in the street who works out says some truth about non-duality: What do you think, does he have some points?

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Heeey yooo WTF happened to me today?! I normally meditate 30 mins daily but tonight I got an exam so I felt nervous today so I decided to meditate for 1 hour to deal with it and this happened: I cried like a baby about after half of an hour: I fell at peace like never before, I realized all the self doubt, worry about my future, depression, rejection and everything means nothing because I always can go back to meditation. When I realized that, tears came to my eyes, I was very peaceful and I fell at peace like never before. Omg what was that? I have to ask you advanced spiritual people cause I am a beginner. I feel like so much alive and ready to face all my obstacles in life but not in a warrior kind of way like I CAN DO THAT, more like I am ready in a very chilled way - at least right now, I hope this remains some time. Is this even possible as a beginner or do I overestimate it? At least I felt so peaceful, I can say that...

thanks, it's dope