JJfromSwitzerland

cause smoking some good crack stones gives you a nice high and it distracts you from all the bullshit you have going on but at the end it makes everything worse but if we are god, don't we create by ourself what we are, so basically god chose to be gay to expierence everything that comes with it?!

@Opo So basically you wanna tell me that this hyper anxiety that Preety is suffering which brings suffering for her life is better than not being afraid of covid? Yes, I think the more you are afraid of something, the higher are your chances are to get it because you only get a strong immune system by exposing your body to certain things - especially as a child. This is also what the covid vaccine does - it gives you a mild form of the virus. You can still get covid with a strong immune system and no anxiety of it but you are less likely to have a bad case of covid.

So if that's the case and as you said in the video gender is a survival mechanism and we just imagine it for survival, why are some human beings gay, what benefits they have from it for survival? Why am I turned on by a naked woman and not of a naked man? Did I create that for myself as a survival mechanism? So that means being gay was also created by oneself. You probably would say because God can expierence it, no?

cool

I think your anxiety of covid is deeper - some other unsolved issue within you, it just manifests now in the anxiety of covid. Since I don't know you, I can't tell you what it is but it is not normal that you have so much anxiety of covid unless you are a risk patient

If you are afraid of covid, your immune system is automatically weaker because mind and body belongs together so you should not be afraid cause the chances that you get covid then are higher because of your psyche, your body is more sensitive and if you get it, you are more likely to have a bad course of covid. So the best thing to do is don't think about covid all the time and focus your mind on thinks you love instead and meditate and whatever is doing good for you so are less likely to get it. But I think the issues are deeper or come from somewhere else, otherwise you couldn't be so afraid of covid. Most people I know are not even afraid a tiny bit of covid eventhough they don't deny it exists.

@Peter Miklis True, I am just lucky to live in the place I do live to have these circumstances and I am thankful for that but if you live in a village (I grew up in a small town), you know everybody so dating advice doesn't really help you there so you don't need this information and if you live in an underdeveloped country, I don't think you need dating advice either. I think you have other issues there

@Shin First: I think you confuse @Regan with me, I made the post and @Regan asks this questions Second, how do you know this, are you Leo? Third, I also wonder if this video was inspired by this post, otherwise it is just a funny, huge coincidence, so @Leo Gura, were you inspired by this post to drop the video 1 day later on actualized.org?

Let me add this: now is pandemic time and people complain about it is difficult to date. For me not at all, I even met the woman I am dating right now in the pandemic time, I just saw her and approached her at daytime in my city - so this is just another excuse. I do understand you need to be careful these days to not catch the virus but for me I take the risk of maybe get the virus but still have a life instead of living in anxiety cause I am young, healthy and feel fit

I agree, I see people here asking so many questions about dating instead of talking to people in real life. I am an open person and talk to many strangers so I don't even ask these dating questions all the people here do, for example at the skate park (skateboarding is my nr. 1 hobby) and gym I get to know many people - men and women cause I am open and because of that I never really struggled with dating

A bit off topic but how long do you need to watch a YT video so that it counts as one view?

@Karmadhi Relax, I thought we are here to discuss and learn

@Leo Gura wtf, 1 day after I made this post I see a video on the actualized.org youtube channel with the exact same title: is gender a social construct?

@Consept That's an eye opening statement, that's why nowadays there is a huge agenda behind LGQTB and they are getting bigger and bigger and pushed by the media

@Peter Miklis yes, your answer makes absolutely sense to me. I just think about the feminists who want to make everything equal so that no gender exist anymore - so they are misleaded ->from the ego persprective

I don't know what all these "redpill" bullshit or whatever is, my girlfriend earns more than me and she is on my side and turns other guys down

The best video or information I ever watched about dating is this one: But now I look into this forum and some men ask for help in their dating life and I see Leo answering with some basic pick up information. Isn't this contradiction? For me the best game is no game

@The0Self English is a foreign language to me and I am not fully fluent;)

That doesn't mean you have to do pick-up so you contradict yourself and what the F does tangential even mean, I think you wanna act super smart with your words but you just talk but nobody knows what actions you take...

ok well so what about the 99.99% of all the men who never heard about pick up in their life? you say they are all on a lower stage then

what?

@wwhy I know

@JJfromSwitzerland I agree with you. Pickup strategies may be useful to get some fiele experience and shed some limiting beliefs. But like any other "system" it can't encompass the complexity of human interaction. I prefer to stay as far away as possible from manipulative strategies and instead learn how to be in my body, express myself freely, etc. yes, so somebody who has they same view as me;)

So you say, I should start pick-up now so that I can overcome it later to transcend?

Ok to be honest I do sometimes put what Leo says on a pedestial cause some videos helped me but maybe I should stop. With women I don't know if I put them on a pedestial, if so, I am not aware that I put them on a pedestial. I just enjoy the company of women I am attracted to.