Miguel1

BE nice. Definitely be nice to women. No one ever talked against that. But make sure it comes from abundance and options, instead of a desperate strategy to get into their pants.

Since you realized that you are God, why do you even need to cling to life? Because it's an enjoyable journey. Enjoy the ride. You say ''I also noticed that the true reason why I start a relationship is my desire to hide from life's challenges in companionship and sex.'' Learning how to be an attractive and charismatic man IS life's challenge as a man. Approaching girls is not just for getting sex. It is mainly to learn how to be a MAN. Be careful of making this a one step deeper / layer of an excuse to face life's challenges.

Terrible idea. If you take this idea to its extreme, it would be like going up to a girl and immediately asking ''do you wanna fuck?'' If you do this to 1000 girls, perhaps 1 will agree, most of them will either look at you fucking weird or straight up tell you to get the fuck off their face.

To clarify, in Finland you can go to a lot of nightclubs at 18. I'm aware that in the USA, you can't at such a young age.

Amazing! Keep going. Trust me, once you hit the 500-1000 range, it will become like eating a piece of cake - especially when you approach an attractive girl that you connect with! Easy and Delicious! At my peak, I was approaching at least 100 girls a week. Went out like 5-7 times + during the day. Didn't have a single worry about my finances back when I was younger lol.

I learned game when I was 17 due to being very jealous in my first relationship. Around the same time I started reading about Osho extensively to the point his teachings were almost the only thing I could talk about to anyone. Broke up at 18, had massive heart break. And I wasn’t fully loved by my mom in my childhood. This combination got me to crave female intimacy more than anything. And so, with the craving + what Osho taught me about courage and no-ego, at 19 I probably had my first 1000 approaches. Big grown up men these days cries about approaching 10 girls.

Fine, but that’s because I have good social skills. Nonetheless, don’t try to get the easy way out and really just approach the girls.

What comment are you referring to? If you are referring to the comments I made to SeaMonster… Are you kidding me? I would go even harder than that to my younger self. Much harder.

Energy helps a ton, but you still gotta have the masculine & proactive energy leading you to take action, approach, flirt, lead. If passive energy was enough, Eckhart Tolle, Rupert Spira, Leo… would be drowning in pussies by just walking in the streets I have personally tested this a lot. I can approach and open girls in a club with my energy alone, without saying anything and create attraction - but I still need to be doing the proactive approaching and communicating with my body language. In daygame, this wouldn’t work. But even in nightgame, I’ve tested many times, if I just bask in my energy and don’t approach anyone, rarely someone approaches me. In fact, I’ve gotten better results to just go full on meditation (terraces), if you wanna play this game. I’ve gotten quite many approaches by girls this way. Nonetheless, you still need to proactively flirt, connect and lead her to bed.

Approach 1000 women.

Everywhere I go pretty much, including just seeing girls on the streets and malls when I am passing by (romantic friends). But I intentionally go to clubs to meet people.

Very good! Another one is starting a podcast for yourself. Just keep it private but make a podcast every week. Pros and cons to both. A podcast will be easier to start with, so you can just focus on your speaking and no need to focus on your facial expressions yet. Also, with a camera, if you dont know how to work it properly + the lightning, you can come off looking very bad, which can be demotivating.

@Jason Actualization @Leo Gura So I use these ones with a silicone protective layer. Pretty durable, I’ve dropped a few times and hasn’t broken. But this one is only 1L. If I were to get a bigger one, probably would break easier. The good thing with the glass breaking in this bottle is that the silicone layer would probably keep all or most of the glass within its ”bag”, so it would be easy to clean. It would just come down to how much water was in the bottle, at what spot does the bottle crack, and how big of a crack.

This is something you have to decide for yourself. How much are you willing to let pass? No girl will be perfect, and there are compromises in every relationship.

I have been using Glass water bottles. Is stainless steel better?

You can be meeting girls, have fun and learn how to become an attracting man, without jumping into a new relationship.

It means nothing. You are way overthinking this due to scarcity. Go out and meet new women. Are you currently meeting new women actively?

Very good. Then from there, the next step is to learn some flirting skills and you will be very far already. Obviously if you don't flirt and make it man to woman, they will friendzone you and it won't lead anywhere.

I see. Definitely build up your macro momentum first, and then slowly start doing harder approaches. More challenging approaches. One of my favourite things in game is doing more and more challenging things and slowly building it up. I remember my first time challenging myself to go open a group of 10 people sitting in a table, at the beginning of the night, as my first approach of the night. That was freaking awesome. But I had to build myself upto that slowly throughout months and years. Nowadays I don't have much stuff I haven't challenged myself to do anymore. --- As far as micro momentum and my mindset of just talking to everyone being superior - this is one of the biggest things that grew my game. There are quite a few but this one is def one of them. I used to actually have an ego about it. ''I don't talk to guys or unattractive girls because it's a waste of time. I will just go talk to the hot girls'' And don't get me wrong, sometimes I do this. But I def won't be nearly as in a social and fun energy as when I am being social with everyone and drop my judgmental mind. Try it. Try talking to everyone and give yourself time to warm up where you don't necessarily need to be hitting on anyone... see how your mind relaxes and expands, your creativity increases, your confidence increases, your flow increases... And suddenly those challenging approaches don't feel nearly as challenging. If anything, they feel freaking exciting.

Also the best way to run away from the work.

With his emotional negativity and attitude atm, he will most likely just get negative reactions and hard blowouts by girls. Which leads to even worse negativity. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy and a negative loop. He needs to work a bit on his negativity first before going out, because otherwise it will be a nightmare with his negativity. Why would girls want to be around such energy?

What would you say is your biggest challenge atm in cold approaching? Let me pm you about going out together.

Finland, Helsinki. Planning on traveling around Europe here at some point. And at some point, the world. Would love to meet ya'll. Most of the nights I go out alone. And yes of course, I approach alone. I make friends on the spot in the club. If I want to, by the end of the night, I know a ton of people in the club. Where are you based? We can go out clubbing if I ever come to your city.

I'll come out with you once I start traveling around Europe. But I must ask, why don't you want to go out alone?

Thought of sharing a clip of me dancing freestyle. It's short due to the forum's uploading limit but it drives the point of me knowing what I am talking about. The biggest key of my freestyling is just letting the music take me over. But I need to enjoy the music for it to happen. As you can see, you can hear me expressing the music very clearly if you properly listen to the music. Allowing the music to take over my body and mind is the way to let go and dance. combine.mp4 -- Edit: ahh I thought the video would be uploaded here and you can just watch it here through the forum's own integrated videoplayer but seems like clicking that link will download the video to you computer.