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Yeah i think she seemed very happy after we texted when i got home. As i said she texted me and texted for like 40 minutes. If she dont text me today i will but what do you think how to approach that situation delicateltly?

In my experiance when i girl is going to reject you kiss she just back off a little or turn her cheek. She just freezed, even a freezing is some sort of a sign, it wasnt even a freez, just nothing. When i reacreat the situiation in my mind i just feel so ashamed.

I wouldnt go for a kiss if i thought she is not ready.

The problem with me is that everytime when i try i just cant past 5 minitues. I star feeling very uncomfortable and its almost unbearable, maybe because i hat lots of reppresed energy to realease and this is why the resistence is so intense. Good trip report thoug!

I have one friend who is not very good looking and doenst have good online profile and pictures. But he thinks that its all about your text game and your pickup lines

Thanks for the comments!

I have very strong negative feeling towards a girl who was jerking me around and playing with my feelings. I am over her right now, but i hate her, when i think about her i am becoming very angry. I tried forgiveness but it just work for a while, and then those negative feelings come back. I cant and i dont want to forgive, but i dont want to hold on to those negative feelings either.

What if i just tell her that straight in her face what i think about her, what piece of shit i think she is. I feel i would feel better then.

Ok that make sense. I am suffering from OCD for maybe 12 years right now. I know what is like. The past 10 years i am constanlty having suicidal thoughts. What still keeps me is hope that i will get beyond suffering one day. And also when i think about it where would i go if you commit suicede. There is nowhere to go..

I completely cut contact with this girl, i dont want her i my life. I just beat myself up about how i would let her treat me like shit.

Hey, when i think about it, very often i find myself in my mind thinking that kind of scenarios where i put her on her place. Thanks for the comment.

That thread inspired me to start doing shamanic breathing every day

That is from the red pill and in my expiriance is not necessarily what happens all the time.

What is like to be addicted to gambling? Why are you doing that, what are the internal motives that make you gamble?

How? The boy need a coach/source to learn from?

For all the girls who are complaining about pick up. Lets imagine that you are a boy who has zero experiances with girls. You see all the cool guys who have their girl friends and have no problem attracting and sleeping with girls. Women have no interest in you and you feel completely isolated from the opposite sex, you are lonely and feel like shit. What would you do? What solution you will try to find?

Ive never came across pickup coach who is teaching you to rape women. But maybe @Preety_India is more familiar.

Idk man, the claim that looks doesnt turn women on its ridiculous. How you gonna explain that my brother get invited from hot chicks stragiht in their home just from texting in social media, what it needs its just texting couple of days. No stupid dates, no waste of time, just hookup. No crazy money, no crazy social status, no crazy game. Just looks, yeah he is not attractive as a supe model i guess but women have always been attracted to him. And the crazy part is that we are twins, ok he is better looking, and what i can get from social media are fat girls, what he could get from social media are 7s and 8s without any sweet. I know pick up coaches say that looks its not so important, that ofcourse its not true at all. Looks its very important but the bad thing is that looks can be maniged by you to a certain extend, the rest is just genetics. Ofcourse you could attract girls with other things, but for me looks or money are the easiest way or both.

Hey guys, Do you think that if i ask a certain girl for a honest opinion why she cut contact with me after the first or second date, she will be honest(i just want feedback, not to get her back, i just want to get better for my further interaction). I want to figure out why that happens because, its like a pattern. In the most of my dates i have a feeling that we are vibing pretty well, and just having fun. Friend zone its not what happens in my oppinion because on almost all of my first date i makeout with girls.

I think that i am pretty chill, but who knows. Sometimes we are very delousinal so idk.

Yeah man, but that happens every time. If its the fist or second time OK, but its not

I kissed the last girl that i was on a date, she was very reciprocative. We were in my car, chatted a little bit and i kissed her. I could fuck her, but i didnt because my car is very small and i am tall, she was also tall and it would have been very uncomfortable for both of us i guess. I took her home after the date and she said we will hang out again, i said sure. Next day i texted her and she was replying very slow and cold. So that pattern triggered me to wrote this thread, its not the first time that this happens. I havent tried invite her on a second date though, she might agree, she might not.

For me the list would look like that, but its not just about being a man but also being my best self: 1. life purpose/career/business (being passionate with what you are doing and becoming very good at it) 2. Very good Social skills (having friends and being able to make friends) 3. Being good with girls 4. Having hobbies (for me is fitness, box, reading books) 5. Spirituality (being involved in spirituality and spiritual practices) I think these are the most important things in my life and i am constantly trying to improve in them. Something like my main values, ofcourse in some of them i am very far from what i am aiming for.

First of all i know that red pill its not allowed to be discussed in this forum and i am not making this thread to hate or to offend anybody. I decided to make this thread because in my country most of the people have no idea what red pill is. There are few people who started to make youtube videos about that topic and people here are starting to think that they finally managed to find the truth, and also the people that are making this videos are feeling that they are saviors having and sharing this windsom (and here is very important to share that the people who are making these videos here are not the typical angry guys who are hating women, no they are very intellegent and educated guys who have something like a fitness mentoring business and they are relativly sucsessfull here, and also they have girlfriends). As part of actuallized.org community i am interested in all points of view, and not satisfied with self serving biases of the ego. So my question is what exactly its not true in this philosophy and where are the self serving biases that people who hold this philosophy cant see?

I think that in my case i created indentity around that OCD, i dont know myself anymore, i cannot let go. I still have hope in me.