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Stop with this stupid rules, wait 3 days to text. There are all kind of different women, some women prefer to text everyday. If she doesn't have high interest, she wont thing about you.

I have a friend who constantly criticizing and judging. We've known each other for maybe 12 years. We hang out very often and we are close friends. I don't know wheter he is doing that consciously or unconsciously. But he literally critize everything, and cant remember a time when he supported something that i am going to buy or to do. Everything that i buy is stupid, he is not saying it in a rude way but rather in a funny way, but it still can be very offensive. I am considering that the next time he does that shit to call him out.

Yeah next time when he makes a stupid comment i will set boundaries. He is already used to get away with bs.

Eban Pegan is first of all marketer. I dont believe that in this day and age course has to be so expensive. All the information is free outhere.. DISCLAIMER: I dont have any of his courses!

Ist Depersonalization part of spiritual awakening?

I litteray cannot get anything done. Whenever i try to learn something i feel extreme resistance and lack of focus. I am constantly running away towards the next moment. When i read and try to learn something i start to be in my mind and start to day dream. I have to always remind myself that i have to focus and to return to the thing that i am reading and try to learn. And also start feeling sleepy. I stopped drink coffe because with coffe the things get even worse. I start feeling high and focus is almost impossible, and become hyperactive. Self sabotaging is also part of the game. Sometimes i meditate but its hard. My mind is going crazy and have hard time staying still. So basically this condition cant allow me to perform on my 100 procent of my potential even 50 procent, because i either self sabotage or do something without almost any focus. Suggestions will be very appreciate. PS: I also suffer from OCD

Give her some space bro.

The recent days i've been in a very dark place and i find something that really help me to keep moving... What if i completely accept myself? What if i accept that i am doomed, hopeless and depressed all the time? What if i accept that i will never find the partner i want or i will never have the life i want? What if i accept the feelings that i am unworthy and ugly? What if i stop pretending to be strong when i am weak and vulnerable?

So what if you get a date? I've managed to get date with hot girls recently and they all ghosted me after the first date.

I am also in a very dark place these recent days i have even wrote a post. Just notice that this rejection triggers something in you , its not the girl that is the reason for your pain. Something deeper is going on here, so investigate that.

I am doomed to be miserable till the rest of my life. I have OCD thought that tells me that i am doomed. I will never find a partner that i like or live a happy live. Every day is the same, i try to cope with spirituality and some personal development(which is very hard because of extreme resistence i start to have as soon as i try to do something about my situation). Suicidal thought all the time, ive been dealing with that shit for 10 years. Usually my emotional state is low, expect some brief situations of highs which i have sometimes. I am good represantation of a doomer expect that i dont drink, i actually train and eat healthy. I dont believe in therapy, ive tried it couple of times but its just a BS for me. I am writing that because very strong negative emotions kicks in after rejection. "Of course you will get rejected, you are doomed till the rest of your life"

Yeah pshyhadelics are my only hope since nothing else can help me..

Its not about the rejection... It just triggers subconscious patterns and beliefs that i am unworthy and doomed.... I just want to surrender, i cant bear the pain anymore..

Ofcourse its fake..

Ive been suffering from OCD since i was a teenager, maybe 14 so far. The last 9 years were pretty intense, i have considered suicide many times. I think that doctors and medicine cant help for that condition. I think the only think that can help me are pshycadelics, its bad that in my country they are very rare and cannot be found.

I already give up the idea that i gonna find cute girl from social media, it require so much effort and waste of time. The ones that i can get a dates with are fat and unattractive (and even they act entitled as though they are more attractive than me when in fact they are far away from me in terms of physical appearance) SO FUCK THAT SHIT.

I like that one

To act like nothing has happend is stupid. He has seen his messages and didnt reply. That is disrespectful

OMG man, dont do that for yourself. I took it for free and its not worth it.

I got tension in my back for maybe 9 years. It cause me anxiety and lack of focus. Mine is byproduct of OCD, i have never take medicaiton though because i think even if its help it will be as long as i take these drugs. Its sounds crazy but that tension started when one guy touched me on my back 9 years ago...

I tend to fall into scarcity every time when i start interacting with a girl who show interest in me and i like her. I've been on a two dates with one girl, i like her, its obvious that she likes me either. The problem is that i am acting super cool and i don't show any neediness or clinginess externally, but internally i feel that scarcity and its very painful. Constantly overanalyzing when we text for example: does my text is cool? am i showing confidence? do i look beta or a nice guy with this text? does my text convey neediness? will i offend her with this text? And i am always afraid not to do something that gonna turn her of. P.S We haven't have sex yet, just kissing.

The sad thing is that society(especially in my country) look down on you if you are not married. As though you are some sort of a half human. Your parents and friends feel sorry for you and you feel sorry about yourself. And lots of people here settle for the first oppurtunity they have and i can see how misrable they are. "You are 30 and not married? Whats wrong with you?"

Yeah i try this behavior, of course not i a sense of being rude but the problem is that fake it till you make it doesnt work for me, because soon or later the insecurity, scarcity and fear of loss kicks in... And yes, i have managed to suppress it, but the emotional damage is much bigger..

Hey guys, I recently started retrospecting my behavior the last 10 years. I realized that i lost so much hours of time which i could have invested in something that could make me better and more valuable for the market. The problem is that when i got home tired from work its very tempting to go out with friend when he invite you. Instead of building something that i am passionate about like carrer/business i just hang out because its easier. So if i keep doing that i will be stuck in a career i dont like forever, and i wont develop myself to my full potential. Yes, for me is very important to develop very good social skills and become very good with girls and find a girlfriend who i really like. The problem is that if i keep doing that shit i wont be able to develop myself because the focus and time that i need its not enough if i go out. I am considering for going monk mode for couple of months and focus on learning new skills to change my career.