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@Eren Eeager it's good to know that the running away stops today. If you think your weak .. what would make you strong ? exercise ? Diet ? Mindset ? Positive thoughts ? self acceptance ? The ability to sustain an erection for 20 min ? Find out the one thing that will help you and start working on it.. All the best buddy ?

@Leo Gura is the subconscious mind training course still forseen ?

How do I deal with this ? I am so surprised actually about how a random option on one of my post on this forum has affected me so much ? I was just trying to help but got such a mean comment in return... I feel a heavy sensation in my chest whenever I see this person online and I get scared to comment on post that person has posted in.. nevertheless I still post as I want to and love to share my gifts.. is this fear or anxiety? How do I deal with it ? I feel so vunerable now .. how could one comment of a random stranger who means nothing to me affect me so much ? Does this have to do with self esteem issues ? Does this mean I have such a week esteem ? I'm normal other times in the day as I do activities I love like meditation, reading, exercise, yoga etc. .. but when im here on this forum I feel like that ... How do I help myself ? I don't want to be so sensitive to opinion of others .. Affirmation for 90 days again ?? Why can't I make this 'independent of good or bad opinion of others' a permanent part of me ?

@Galyna the best way is to read new material, which ever words you don't know look them up in the dictionary/Google and write it down in your common place journal. Most important is use these words in day to day communication for practice

@h inandout nice to know is that you have found your own support system.. but what matters is consistency.. Dropping judgements will play a huge rule in dealing with people, most of the time we project unto others what we are.. Using the approach of living your enemies would be also a good move.. read the book 5 languages of love maybe it could help you understand how to love more ..

@egoeimai @Artaemis @egoeimai I saw the vedio it's very nice... Thanks for sharing your signature.. :-)

@Artaemis @Keyhole I started this thread to ask for suggestions to act upon my own weakness, of being dependent on the opinion of others who don't matter to me. unfortunately direct confrontation with the person was what led to the whole thing after all... I don't find spiritual people like Leo or many others who I know being so rude generally, so it is quite surprising to get this point of view, but thanks for your perspective it will definitely help me in future. It doesn't matter if that person is generally pretty nice or not cause they hasn't been pretty nice with me ! Or if they were an ass, it doesn't matter anymore... Some valuable lessons I learnt Life is to short to worry about people who mean nothing to you, specially people over the internet who mean nothing to you.. Giving advice to people who didn't ask it from you could be dangerous. People project on you their own shit.

@Artaemis :-) thank you for your words ..

@egoeimai What is this vedio you keep posting about ?

@Roy as a human being I just want to be heard and loved.. someone completely ignoring me and inturn rediculing me for advising them is definitely what I don't want. But ya I understand it's a projection of their own mind.

@Red-White-Light yes I noticed this in my workplace too.. I don't why why I am so sensitive to opinion of others...

@Lyubov @nistake thank you for your advice, I will try them, I feel much better after posting my emotions and how I felt ...

@nistake okay thanks for the advice will try it out ... Just keep writtng?

@Rilles thank you rilles these words are certainly comforting to my hurt ego ❤️ thank you so much.

Yea you are right I can understand it on a logical level but on an emotional level I'm suffering.. I ignored that persons post and didn't reply to avoid any further issues. The problem is that this forum is triggering me now, everytime I'm here and see that person online I'm triggered..or even if I see that persons pic I'm triggered.. Maybe I got to do that forgiveness guided meditation on this random person from the internet now I feel we week being vunerable to a random person on the internet, such a pity..

@Rilles yea it certainly felt like that person was rude ... I was told that my advice is overly simplistic and irrelevant.. I don't understand the issue and I should go read some book. It felt very bad to try to help someone and get harsh words in return ..

@Rilles it was about how my advice was simple, irrelevant and useless. :-(

@John Iverson nice, which of the books did you find the best ? Like which is the book for you that changes your life ?

@Espaim until you can afford it read all the booka under productivity and sucess and life purpose you will build a solid foundation.. Have a vision and work on what you intitute you love doing, find your strengths and build them up... Work on things you love at least for one hour daily.

Just do it and do it and do it... Until the job gets done.

@John Iverson buy the book list lot of high quality content

@Amit your most welcome

@Monkey_in_suit personally for me 1 time a week would be enough, like 2.5 hours in that one meeting.. but my girlfriend thinks that if we don't contact each other daily then the connection is lost.. So I spend like 1 hour a day or more via. Phone ..

@lostmedstudent have you tried loosing some weight first ? Continue practice stretching over time you will succeed..

@Lyubov citting off on beer, soyabeen and meat . List of testastrome rich foods: Testosterone boosters Oatmeal Almonds and chestnuts Fish Oysters Beef liver Honey Pomogranate Cinnamon Grapes Eggs Ginger Garlic Onions Green leafy vegetables Brocolli Cabbage Dark chocolate Watermelon Spinach Blueberries ans strawberries Blackberries Sun rays for vitamin D Extra vergin olive oil Green tea Avocado Apples Arugula Beet juice 1-4-2 breathing techniques Blue light app on phone Don't eat before sex Lift weights. Sleep Intermediate fasting.