Blessed81

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    That video was just a tiny tip of the iceburg, you need to watch many more videos and you definitely need to read his book.  If you see a woman you like go up and  say hi what is your name?  If she does not ask you your name in return then she is either not into you, or she is taken (in MOST instances).  And at that point just say something like well it was nice to meet you, or give her a compliment and be on your way to the next.

     I have literally made a game out of testing this theory and it has been very accurate.  Go out there and stop being shy fellas, it is all about the numbers game.  Most of the time you will get rejected and that is totally fine, you surely cannot win them all.  It feels good to feel alive and just out having fun and trying new ways of meeting women.  Some ways work and some do not.  But i am telling you, read his book and watch many of his videos and you will become a 3% man (only 3% of the men on earth actually understand women and the dating game). 

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    I am totally amazed at how much stuff Leo, and a few other people like him know SOOOO much about SOOOO much?  I feel like he knows everything about everything.  We all only have 24 hours in each day, and i feel like i do not know 1/10 of the stuff that he knows about and i have a really active and social life.  He is so educated, and i really really do not understand at his age how he knows all of this stuff.  I know some people learn faster then others but this is just unheard of, it is something that confuses the hell out of me.  Is there some key to life that i haven't been given yet?  I feel SO far behind when i think about this, yet i am miles ahead of most people that i know.  How old is he?  I am 34. 

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    FELLAS... This guy "coach Corey Wayne" is like the Leo for dating/relationships.  You are going to want to watch this and several other of his many many videos on youtube. Then you will read his book (its $10 and you can download in seconds) it is called "how to be a 3% man, attracting the woman of your dreams".  This dude literally knows his shit to the MAX.  You do not want to sit and have a convo with a stranger, you want to chat for a moment and get her number and get out of there.  

    I am telling you guys, his book teaches you everything from pickup to maintaining relationships and teaches you how women act and think.  It has been one of the best things of my life finding him and Leo.  My game has changed totally, i have ladies delivering me stuff to work, putting christmas gifts on my porch, totally whooped on me all because of the stuff Corey has taught me.  My entire dating life is soooo much better now, i actually understand women finally.  Once you guys look into his video's and then READ THE BOOK, feel free to thank me for saving your life lol.

     Even if you want to get an ex back he teaches you everything you need to know.  Let me know how it goes guys, but trust me you do not want to miss out on this.  I feel like i know my shit pretty well so if you need any advice or questions replied to feel free to hit me up and i will help you with your issue to the best of my know how. 

     

     

  5. Posted · Edited by Blessed81

    OMG man i have THE perfect book for you.  It has literally changed my entire life in so many ways.  Its called "how to be a 3% man, how to attract the woman of your dreams". By Corey Wayne.  Check out some of his youtube video's, he is amazing and his work led me to Leo which i am actually equally as greatful for.  On youtube there have been three males that have totally saved my life and this is the order that i have found them. 

    1. Elliott Hulse

    2. Coach Corey Wayne

    3. Leo

    I highly recommend you check out their videos and they both have a book out, i have yet to read Elliott's book titled "King", however i am sure it is great.  You can download Corey's book in ten seconds its like $10.  Best investment i have ever made man i am so thankful for these three men/mentors... ???

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    Hell yes that is exactly what i feel like.  I feel like there is an anchor hooked to my feet and i need to cut that shit off.  It is kinda funny cause after each sex sesh my whole attitude changes, like damnit now i have to hang out.  My appetite for relations with her has went downhill lately so its really helping me with the move on process.  I feel like there is always drama on the horizon, and just seems like this is hopeless at this point.  

    I know its selfish but i am so use to my ex's moving on so fast and leaving me in the dust alone, they all get prego and married right after me.  Maybe that's why i am dragging this out is so i can try and find someone to love (i know this isn't the right way to do this whole thing) when i really just need to learn how to be alone and be happy with myself first.  I am clearly a mind fuck, but i really appreciate you guys/gals input.  Damn, i cannot wait to have a happy and healthy relationship one fine day.  Sometimes i think maybe these short, emotional relationships are something i like?  Perhaps i get bored after the honeymoon stage and start seeing my way out of things. 

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    When you say look into my childhood trauma, you mean like try to fix or realize my earlier childhood and maybe talk to a counselor or?  I had not been very close with my father and he passed when i was 21.  He was an addict, my mom has a different father for each of us children.  She is an amazing mother we are very close.  I have basically always had the same type of relationships, i always bicker and fight and break up often.

     I know i need to work on myself thats why i am here.  Ive been into self mastery the past couple years and it is really really helping me grow and be a better person.  I would love to have a long term healthy relationship and start a family one day soon.  She was def def always playing the victim she always says "i dont know why i always get screwed over and date shitty men".  Even when i explain to her all the wrong she's done she just kinda blows it off and turns it all back on it being my fault.  I honestly feel like something is wrong with her head.

    And also my head for staying in this for over a year now.  I feel like this is def not how love should be.  Every one of my past GF's that have been long term ALL have daddy issues, every single one.  I feel like maybe thats the main thing i need to watch for going forward, because it clearly really hurts the quality of someones life.  And creates many many problems for the future of that child.   So sad that there are so many turd dad's in the world.  We are def in diff places i agree, i should have known better then to date someone so young.  It all seemed SOOOO perfect in the beginning. Quickly went downhill after the honeymoon phase.  

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    I am near the end of this relationship with this woman who is ten years younger then me she is 24 and i am 34.  She is beautiful on the outside, i say she is a wolf in sheeps clothing.  Looks and acts so sweet but the inside is something totally different.  Let me just throw out some things ive noticed ove the past couple years.  

    She takes selfies every day, when she has social media shes always posting new ones.  She literally has sent me 5 diff selfies in a day.  She is literally into herself, she looks at herself in the mirror like a man would, she touches herself like it would be a man sexually touching her.  Shes always saying things like damn my ass looks hot.  Or i am looking so good lately. 

    She has told her family so much bad stuff about me and all of our fights she loves to tell people how bad i am.  She thinks my career is junk even though i am a successful entrepreneur that makes more then her whole family, just because i didnt get a degree and i dont have a 9-5.  Meanwhile she makes $10/hour and now wants to become a cop?..  She NEVER cries when she should and only cries about stupid things when she is drunk.  

    She has massive daddy issues, shes a type 1 diabetic and always having health issues.  Every day her stomach is bloating way bad and shes always complaining and in a bad mood and it brings me down  when i am always trying to be positive and make people smile.  Yet she wont go to the dr and find the issue.  I know its not a good idea to have children with a diabetic yet ive stayed cause i love her so much.  Whats kept me around is the AMAZING sex, we have had so much amazing sex that ive put up with soooo much BS.  

    She blames me for our failed relationship for stupid things that ive apologized for 1,000 times, yet she still rubs them in my face and every time she does something wrong she blasts my past mistakes in my face in order to justify her actions.  She literally held her dog down as they put the needle in to put him asleep and didnt shed a tear, and just watched me bawl like a baby as i put mine down and didnt shed a tear, also keep in mind i am a buff tattoed guy that you wouldnt imagine seeing cry to much.  I chalk it up to her being a vet tech and seeing dogs put down every day so its normal for her?

    ive seen her texts to her friends, she says i am not going anywher with my career and she thinks she is going to meet someone in school this spring.  She always tells me things like i cant wait to meet a guy  who respects me and would never do the things youve done to me (the worst ive done to her is danced with a girl at a country concert and had no idea she seen me do this, even though we were broke up we were still fucking so she took it as i cheated on her just cause i danced with someone at a concert wtf?)  thats the thing she keeps rubbing in my face thats the worst ive done to her, even though we were technically broke up.  I really dont even think its a big deal at all.  

    She is always broke and complaining about money, always talking shit on people and always has drama about work.  She doesnt think she ever does anything wrong.  She had her family do a background check on me and found a police report of a female that said my roomate raped her, after that her whole family accused me of being a rapist because there is a REPORT from my roomates ex girlfriend that said he raped her, i have never been convicted, never even heard of this until her family illegally researched my entire record.  

    They thought i was a drug dealer because they were jealous that i have such nice things and they dont, i think they are just jealous that they work regular jobs for regular pay.  Anyway, she moved out after a 6 month live together, we broke up like 5 times when she lived here.  Shes now living with her brother and i keep her around for sexual fun and occational companionship.  We both know its over but we still keep hanging sometimes because we really have nothing better to do.  Shes been very shady with her phone the whole relationship, always deleting her convos with the people she talks shit on me with and ive seen it happen multiple times.  

    Shes had a dude from work call her on her new phone number on a sat night asking what shes doing.  Nobody in her family or work knows we even talk, yet shes with me and my family all the time, going to funerals and all.  Everyone that knows me through her hates me and thinks i am some horrible person because she has told them all horrible things about me and made me out to look very bad. 

    I have started dating a little here and there.  I really do not have any feelings for her anymore, as soon as i meet someone worthwhile i plan to fully cut things off, even right now i am about to, the sex really isnt worth all the other negative things i have to deal with.  She doesnt have any friends at all, and i have very many and have had them all for 20 years.  What is going on here guys?  Is she a narcissist? I do not know what i am dealing with, and i am trying to figure it out.  I keep kidding myself after we hang for a couple days and things are great to think we could ever have a happy and healthy relationship one day right?  I kinda know i need to move on, but someone just give it to me straight, am i a total fucking idiot for even hanging out with her at all?  Help!!  Sorry for any mis spelling i had to type this fast and my ipad is a bitch to type on.  Thanks to all that have read this.  God bless!

     

     

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    There is a guy named Corey Wayne check out his videos on youtube.  He is a relationship and life coach.  He has many videos im sure you and your dude can learn tons from.  He put out a book called "how to be a 3% man", the book literally changed my whole life for the better, i understand women and i dont argue with them anymore.  Any man that argues with women does not undestand them.  And visa versa.  You both need to study the opposite sex's psychology so you understand eachother and why you guys do what you do.  The male and female operate totally different and its crucial that you both learn atleast the basics of how the other person works.  

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    IMO i really think life is like a pie chart for everyone.  We all get to make each slice of each part of life as big as we want it, however it does come with making other slices and parts of life smaller.  Someone who is extremely successful AND fit, has a great balance in life.  Perhaps many of the unfit people simply do not care to spent their time in the gym.  We all only have 24 hours in a day.  Some people get so focused on their career that they dont care about other areas in life.  It is very hard for me to keep things in balance, however i am a very fit fella and the gym is just so normal to me now after 13 years.  I couldnt imagine life without it, i am now getting very much into my purpose and the gym is slacking a little.  I need to keep that balance on the pie chart.  Think about it, every person has a pie chart.  Even a homeless person, they may not have anything financially but the experience and adventure and freedom on their pie chart would be a much bigger slice then mine.  

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    What goes up must come down, the crash is real.  I personally am somewhat addicted to coffee, previously i would take caffeine pills way to often.  Then i went on an energy drink binge.  Be careful this crap is addicting, i am sure my heart hates me.  I want to be caffeine free.  As far as your question, i think one cup per day is benefitial if you drink it black.  Sorry i am not exactly answering. 

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    Your body slows down when you sleep, it takes food longer to process.  If you want to gain weight then go ahead and eat as much as you want whenever you want.    Eating before bed is crucial if you want to gin weight.  Also think of this, if you are ever hungry and to the point to where your stomach is growling, you are at that point storing fat and burning lean muscle.   Your body is trying to preserve itself going into a hybernation type state.  So dont let yourself get that hungry.   Eat healthy and have a great life.