Natasha Tori Maru

Get outta here you big Fe ENFJ harmony driven feel good bastard! 😜❤️

The emotional labour the guy needs to be ready for - I couldn't. I have no idea how some men have the capacity for it. Some men are wired that way though. My ex being one. If the women can seperate emotional needs from carnal ones it is much easier. But typically for women the 2 are interlocked.

Backing up that anyone very interested in MBTI should look at the cognitive functions that the system is based on. The framework isn't I vs E, N vs S etc. it is based on the functions behind each type. INFJ vs INTJ has totally different functions, and is very difficult to get mixed up. The online tests aren't so accurate. You are better off looking at and researching each function (Ne, Ni, Ti, Fi etc) and deducing which you naturally use. One description will jump out to you. Some will sound bonkers. MBTI is a simplified version of the functions. Online tests for myself often reveal INTP, but I think the official ones (I have taken, paid) revealing INFJ and the function descriptions are more accurate.

Many of us always here to listen <3 There is a reason for your choice of username !!!

You can see there is taste, balance, rule of thirds, perspective and complimentary colour used in Leos artistic direction. Style is timeless, typical youtube click shit is just a trend. When all that shit falls by the wayside, real art remains

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I agree - we test each others boundaries all the time to learn more about each other. People need to take responsibility when they are pushed too far and speak up. Those that don't often have unhealed trauma causing boundary issues. A compassionate and empathetic individual will usually get a sense for when they have pushed things too far. But in the end, only we can advocate for ourselves. Onus is on us to say no when needed.

I think the misunderstanding here lies in understanding of what a personal boundary is, and the function is serves. I think what you touch on in the above is a challenge, as opposed to a boundary. TBH most people don't understand the difference, and I continually meet others in personal and professional environments who cannot differentiate. It is quite nuanced. Boundaries protect your core self (protects emotional, physical, emotional wellbeing, maintain autonomy/self-respect & clarify what is acceptable and what's not). Personal boundaries are the limits and rules you would set for yourself within relationships, behaviors & environments. What you are comfortable with & your expectations of others treatment of you. Challenges stretch your capacity to grow, and function as a tool to discover your boundaries. Think promoting personal development, stretch limits in a healthy way. Challenges also build confidence, competence & insight. They push you out of your comfort zone, testing skills, ideas, beliefs and resilience in pursuit of growth/achievement or deeper understanding. Boundaries would be the hard walls of your house - plaster, studs, frame, roof - you don't fuck with this part of the house. A challenge would be opening a window to let cold air in - you might not like the environmental change, but it lets you breathe, expand, grow. But you can close the window. They absolutely overlap. EG: Someone wants help during your rest time: Boundary - 'I can help tomorrow, but I need to rest this evening'. Challenge - Saying no despite guilt & fear of disappointing. Giving a speech: Boundary - 'I'm good with public speaking, but no filming'. Challenge - Confronting stage fright Big job offer: Boundary - 'I need fair pay & good hours'. Challenge - Taking on responsibility feels intimidating When its balanced and boundaries aren't being steamrolled, you will feel empowered, but not exploited. Uncomfortable, but not unsafe. Challenged, but not coerced. Someone pushing or trying to erase boundaries will feel like it disrespects autonomy & causes resentment. Destabilizes the relationship, confuses accountability & undermines self worth. Your boundaries define you & what you will tolerate. "Your needs don't matter as much as mine." is what is communicated when boundaries are disrespected. Setting boundaries, when done right, will strengthen connection. This is why it is so important to do the work of actualization. To know thyself. Insight, growth, experience. Challenges reveal boundaries. This is why it is on the individual to assert them. Just sad so many people don't know themselves.

You said it man - this is at the root of it. I think I raised this initially also, but users wanted to entertain discourse 😊

Maybe not worse. But constricted within the same issue as the previous incarnation. It is purely a personal belief. I've had some experiences that strongly lead me to believe this. DMT entities, and odd happenings. Repeated events. Entities. Happened over time definitely. I always believed I was here to learn and to love, so it seemed a natural deduction following all the strange happenings. As I have progressed through life, it has been affirmed to me that if you don't learn the lesson in the pattern, you repeat it. Many painful beliefs have been destroyed within me that were linked to these patterns. Each time one deception falls away, more truth is revealed. Just so happens my truth at this time is revealed to be reincarnation as a thing 😜

There are 2 groups of perspective being argued here, and getting mixed up. 1) Those not in a relationship and participating in the attraction phase. 2) Those within a relationship and the frame being honouring each other in wholeness. These 2 frames aren't made clear so it's all a big mess!

It's genuinely no loss to me to admit I was wrong 🙏 Thank you for not denigrating me !

I respect this answer. There are grey areas IE terminal health cases. And more. I just don't want anyone to take things like 'go die and find out' the wrong way 💜🙏💜 I went into protecc mode without thinking there

I read it as snarky sarcasm that wasn't constructive tbh, but tone is fucked through text.

Hard disagree with this and your post above. Suicide is never the answer. 1) there is always a solution, it's you're frame and perspective that is limited 2) pain and suffering are just part of this existence I've had a hard enough life to seriously entertain suicide. Things changed. You just don't know what life has coming.

Fillers, Botox, chemical peels I mean I had trouble reading the bodylanguage & facial expressions of the trio in the initial podcast. The women have frozen faces. The work done on them is excellent. You can see it when their eye expressions are super wide and open - that's when unaltered humans typically are raising their eyebrows. But their eyebrows barely move.... 💀💀💀 It's like the sequence of human expression is broken when people are altered. No judgement here - they can insert prosthetic horns for all I care

I've had enough experience to know most people need to learn lessons through doing. I don't think words will deter from this path. It is for Majed to learn the hollowness of pleasure for pleasures sake. Haven't we all been through this process before, or are currently going through it, in some way? My only wish would be for pleasure to never be taken at the expense of others, you don't want to be up at night renumerating on your actions.

Deadass but I kinda like it Just like fucken, brutal-honesty-stream-of-consciousness shit comes flying out of people Gotta enjoy the based shit cos most of the internet is a cesspool

How are you defining intuition, as applied here or in general? If there indeed is a difference for you, when reduced for this application

Well... it is just some artistic flair to disguise the smut ay? At the end of the day, peepee in the vijayjay

I think your initial perspective was very, very interesting, as it challenged what I thought. I can be quite arrogant in my deductions, so you forced me to consider the alternative. I walked away so irritated initially, but the frame was good to learn through

Interesting - I gather from her perspective she suspects Aubrey is a narcissist. I think we all deduced this somewhat She also mentioned her boundaries being pushed. Narcissists will do this. I think this could be the pattern with his current wife. I've dated one narcissist, and they will test you and your perceptions of reality. This is a good case study for the importance of knowing yourself - which consciousness work and deep insight really help us with. If you know who you are, what you want & what you need, it's very difficult to get caught up in relationships like this. What a shame actualization isn't a priority in school, life & beyond. The importance of The Work.

Very personal question. Prefacing this with the obvious that what follows below is pure belief. Additionally, I have been tainted due to being an experiencer, which altered my beliefs fundamentally. I believe the brain 'channels' consciousness. When the brain expires, the consciousness still remains - sort of like a broken radio. This radio is gone, dead, never to return. But the radio waves, broadcasts and channels, remain. So if the brain is harmed, consciousness is altered. I believe the consciousness that inhabited my particular form will return to harvest more experience in another body at a later time. The knowledge the consciousness accumulated in the previous form is then built on in the next one. This facilitates growth & experience. To know thyself. Every part of this illusion of reality is a lesson and there is something to be learned. If I do not learn from the experience, the event is repeated over and over until I can see the frequency, the cause & effect, then isolate and learn from it. Master it to alter it. This ties into my other belief that we are here to learn to use, control, influence & manipulate energy. Whether that is in the form of matter or energy is no matter. Emotions, feelings, light, sound, concrete, sex, food. All just energy in different forms. Suicide is no way out. I view it as a short circuit. You didn't achieve what you needed to in the current form, so you will return again in a lower state to learn the lesson again. I view suicide as anti-God. Most souls do not want to actually kill themselves - they just want to end their current circumstances. And circumstances are ever changing. This life, this experience, this body - it is a gift. And although there is suffering embedded into this reality, there is also joy, as it is an ever changing, flowing pattern. So, I guess I believe in reincarnation.

The chap who said psychedelics feel more like a 'technology' What a BOOM moment of reframe. Thats how they have always felt to me

I consistently return to intuition regarding the limits of AI.