mandyjw

This summer I found a little girl's apron lying on the side of the road. It was in perfect condition, handmade red with white circus elephants, standing on a ball. It was near the abandoned house with the porch I sat on and the bright yellow creeping forsythia bush that covered it. In that driveway I found the lost rental VHS tape "Legacy of Love". A couple days ago one of my kid's "lite brite" patterns was on the floor and I shoved in the trash. Intuition told me to look at it. I couldn't figure out what it was and gave up. When I transferred the trash into the bigger trash can I saw the pattern and the intuition came up again. This time I made it out. It was an elephant standing on a ball. I just looked over to my right shortly after finishing Leo's latest video and sitting on the dog crate is the bright pink elephant I bought my dog and his ball toys.

dogma/amgod NO!!!!! metaphor meta for

@DrewNows @dimitri So much love and appreciation for you both. https://frithluton.com/articles/anima/ HAha! Dr. Appleking's plan came to fruition. Oh God, you're so punny! "To sit or to walk, without absolutely any movement of identification. No movement of imagination, no movement of time as the i who is separate from THE HAPPENING. One holistic movement/non-movement of beauty and joy which is timelessness. One dynamic-stillness which is empty, yet immense. But how does this come about? A partial explanation of how this mysterious happening comes about... As the mind tries to capture the immensity of this phenomenon, it soon finds that any movement of mind to recall the event reduces the actual essence the occurrence itself. The minds capacity being finite can never express the actuality of the actuality. Nor can it really remember as there was not an entity recording in the first place. What I know after some some time investigating this movement of (dynamic stillness), which seems to be both movement and non-movement simultaneously, as strange as that may seem. " OH SHIT. That's why you create goldfinches. And lions. Symbols as pointers. I er... was not aware of this dynamic. And the timing it occurred over. What the fuck is happening? God works in mysterious ways. What's WRONG with you, do you want to keep him like a pet? Lightning in a bottle = fireflies in a jar. Fireflies by Owl City To ten million fireflies I'm weird cause I hate goodbyes I got misty eyes as they said farewell (said farewell) But I'll know where several are If my dreams get real bizarre 'Cause I saved a few and I keep them in a jar (jar, jar) I'd like to make myself believe that planet earth turns slowly It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep 'Cause everything is never as it seems (when I fall asleep) I'd like to make myself believe that planet earth turns slowly It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep 'Cause everything is never as it seems (when I fall asleep) .

@Leo Gura Are you implying that there's something beyond the conscious and unconscious?

It inevitably bubbles up if you go far enough. Jung had some amazing insights. Well worth going into unless you'd prefer to be blindsided. Both options have their own charms. In my experience meditation and consciousness work eventually opened me up to experiencing bliss states, and becoming susceptible to becoming fascinated with certain things. I had an experience in a cemetery that was too strange for my mind to make sense of. I followed it through as if I was connecting the dots or uncovering clues on a scavenger hunt and what it lead to completely "broke" my reality. Following both inexplicable impulses or impulses that feel good leads to synchronicity which ties into symbols and archetypes which digs up shadow work and purifies the mind (clears karma, etc). It all flows into one. Jung explained and uncovered all these things. Becoming conscious of the law of attraction is what actually allowed this to be brought to fruition in my experience, I only learned about Jung to further understand it intellectually after the fact.

Intuition is always better than following a map. Diet choices are a great way to develop your intuition because well, it's easy to go with your "gut feeling" when it comes to choosing foods. Ramana Maharshi recommends the sattvic diet if you want some basic guidelines. As for seeing dragons in the carpet, didn't everyone do that kind of thing when they were 4 years old? I still see friendly monsters in the flower patterns at my parent's house. Just start to *look* at things with curiosity and childlike wonder again. Do you see images in the clouds because it's your imagination of because it's really there? Why do you have to ruin the magic by asking that question? Just go lay in a field and look at the clouds like you were a little kid. Nature's equal access psychedelic.

Self love is bravery, holding yourself back in social interactions to avoid possible conflict is withholding love from yourself and others, even if to your mind it seems like your putting others ahead of yourself. There is no such split. The key is to observe how your thoughts about self and others are contributing to this suffering, and being brave enough to let go of those thoughts. It's not about adopting a new "ideal" to hold yourself to.

Wasting time on youtube and found that "Lightning in a Bottle" is an expression. http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-lig1.htm I had no idea. Still remember the morning in May that I listened to this song, was thinking about the line "lightning in a bottle" and the excavator I had fixing a plumbing issue dug up this antique lightning jar. "The saying "nice guys finish last" is a condensation by journalists of a quotation by Durocher[11]—he did not originally say this, himself, though it has often been attributed to him, and he did appropriate it as his own. The original quotation was "The nice guys are all over there, in seventh place" (July 6, 1946)[12][13] about the 1946 New York Giants—seventh place was next to last place in the National League. This was shortly afterwards rendered as "'Nice Guys' Wind Up in Last Place, Scoffs Lippy",[14] thence its present form.[13] Durocher is also credited with popularizing the metaphorical use of the phrase "capture lightning in a bottle" in a baseball context—it had previously been used to literally refer to Benjamin Franklin's kite experiment." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_Durocher

As the goldfinch on my dream board, the thing, the "symbol" I picked out of the bliss experience, out of the field of vision of the literal expansive field of buttercups I ran by, focus is creation and God focuses. "So when you are alert and contemplate a flower, crystal, or bird without naming it mentally, it becomes a window for you into the formless. There is an inner opening, however slight, into the realm of spirit. This is why these three "en-lightened" life-forms have played such an important part in the evolution of human consciousness since ancient times; why, for example, the jewel in the lotus flower is a central symbol of Buddhism and a white bird, the dove, signifies the Holy Spirit in Christianity. "- Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth OR another person. The Image of God. If you love, you'll see the current perfection of them.

When I was 15 I made a huge effort to go out into the realm of relationships and deep interest in other people, (an attempt to develop and explore my extroverted side). Because of my lack of understanding I internalized and misunderstood the situations I was attracting and so I switched my focus back to become quiet, introverted and very hardworking. I also accepted these as values, because they to me, prevented pain and confusion and were therefore good in my mind. They were safe. I remember a couple strange instances, outside of the heartbreaking moments. There was this girl on the bus, I can't remember her well, but she was new and rode the same bus I did for a short time. She sat near me. She was so interesting to me, that she burned herself into my mind for that time. There's no external reason or story behind it to explain this interest whatsoever. The only characterstic out of the ordinary i remember is that her hair was a reddish color. I never spoke to her. I didn't want anything from her, wasn't attracted to her, wasn't inspired and didn't want to be like her, (the usual reason behind my deep interest and fascination in other women), wasn't jealous of her, it was just the character she exuded that simply and deeply fascinated me. This happened frequently with boys but my mind usually came up with some sort of reason, (attraction, desire, fantasy) to explain it. There was one boy who I had this sort of fascination with that I never felt those things with. Again he burned himself into my mind. At the time I was reading Hatchet by Gary Paulsen and this boy became Brian. I guess thinking back now that this happened on more occasions than these. This deep interest and feeling of fascination with no reason behind it and no egoic motives just arose. If I questioned it, I thought I was crazy and not interesting enough to be interested in my own life. This was a common theme. "Stay on your own page" is incredible wisdom when it comes to managing the ego, but higher states don't have their own page to stay on. Before I knew what meditation was, I shamed myself for meditative and egoless states often wondering if I were crazy. After meditation and presence became a goal I shamed myself for the opposite. Enlightenment is no shame.

Can't stop thinking about the last thing he says in this video. Also noticing how he misspeaks. No mistakes.

https://www.scoopwhoop.com/Life-Lessons-Calvin-And-Hobbes/

Yes, you'll want to get all the pain and suffering you want to experience in your life out of your system now.

I will think of everything bad that anyone can possibly think about me BEFORE THEY CAN THINK IT. I will also make myself feel bad about it, so that when they voice the same thoughts I can be in good practice to feel bad about myself, only this time with a proper excuse to feel that way. It struck me last night, how much from a really young age I always loved the cartoon strip Calvin and Hobbes and how my writing reflects that. The strip can't be funny or profound without either character, in fact someone already made a joke about that, Calvin minus Hobbes or Garfield minus Garfield illustrates this. "Calvin minus Hobbes portrays a child's possible madness" https://comicsalliance.com/calvin-minus-hobbes/ "Perhaps the most unsolvable mystery, however, pertains to Bill Watterson's "Calvin & Hobbes" and whether its protagonists were living in a world of magical mystery or simply pure imagination." Well then, isn't that a conundrum? I'm sure it's either or. Hobbes is drawn in two ways. When around adults he is just a tiger doll with a slightly floppy head, but to Calvin he's real. Bill Waterson never allowed copyrights to be sold for merchandise and so you cannot buy a Hobbes doll. I sewed my son one when he was really young. I made him to look like the doll, not the real Hobbes. What would the strip be without Calvin? Who is the wise man without an ego to subdue? A lifeless doll? An I doll? I've always known there's no me and that I have always been playing characters in reaction to other people. Around the crazy irresponsible friend I'm wise and responsible. Around the humorless focused intellectual I devolve (whew, look at the self-judgement in word choice there!) into crazy antics and hilarity. Sometimes I meet them where they are. In addition, to make myself crazy, I had a very strong belief that one must be true to themselves, which was partly wise and partly based on having to stick to a self concept of "myself." All the judgmental thoughts made interaction with others so painful I avoided other people. Alone, there's much less need for self concepts, and yet in a way, the self concept also strengthens. I'm meeting someone today and watching the projections and fragmentation around it. It presents as a general dis ease which I attribute to nerves and usually accept and tolerate. Acceptance is not what I want, curiosity is. Unhappy with myself for how I wasn't settling into a deeper state during meditation this morning I told myself "die!" and immediately saw the complete hilarity in it and laughed and laughed and laughed. The Eckhart Tolle insight keeps coming to mind, "Are there two of me?" Laughter has always been profound to me, and I've always loved how having others join in with you just magnifies it so much. I remember the time this happened in the most dramatic way, years ago. My sister was telling a story of a classmate who sponsored a child in another country and unexpectedly got a letter that the child had run away. It's truly sad and tragic, but the way this came about and was presented just escalated into complete hilarity, made even stronger by the fact that we weren't supposed to be laughing about it at all. The feeling in the stomach, the way tears just flow from your eyes... it is only a concern of the judging mind whether the experiencer is profoundly sad or happy. By the end of a good laugh, you won't know yourself.

You know what one of my greatest fears is? That people in my real life will discover my youtube channel. That they'll know how deep I've gone down this rabbit hole. What do I want most of all? The very same thing.

I want to heal and integrate myself so I split myself into personalities and talk to myself? What am I now, a connoisseur of various mental illnesses? Grasping at the bottom of the barrel for a self concept now are we? HA! You think you know ME? By the way when do I get proper credit for my sheer brilliance? Go stare into the sun all day for a week. Maybe then. Very funny. Well, what am I supposed to do, you took away my ability to blame other people in the previous conversation. Who is left to blame? For what?

Thanks tarot cards. I'll try to stop being SO FUCKING DRAMATIC all the time. I know you're really telling me to love myself more, and fragment myself less but goddamn it. Who are you to say that melodrama is a bad thing? Never said that. Who felt that? Well, it's really fucking sexist you know, playing into the "emotions are weak" card, and implying that you're supposed to put your nose the grindstone and only care about your own fucking life, and not get absorbed with other people and men do this so much better so therefore they are better. Is there male and female? This is real mind-fuck, you know it? It's not a bug but a feature. Fuckery. Fuckery. Everywhere. What is love and attraction? Why do you think the law of attraction was such a breakthrough for you? If it's one but two it has to come together. Somehow. It appears that way within the story, it's already whole and you already are that. It's DONE. What do you keep digging up, the lesson that keeps repeating itself, what did you realize this morning? That the things I shame and embarrass myself for the most are all out of my desire to integrate myself. Out of love. Stop the shame and you'll Love. It's all fear. What song did I play for you twice on Valentine's Day? You know that song lyrics are written to be OPEN to interpretation, (like tarot cards and astrology) and to be EMOTIONAL PORNOGRAPHY, DON'T YOU? Especially like, Drake. And stuff they play on the radio for the mindless masses. It's really fucking embarrassing. Fuckery. Melodrama. *Giant Face palm* Do you see? Who is it that has a problem with disowning emotions and open-mindedness? What's the difference between emotions and intelligence? REALLY FUCKING INCONVENIENT, doncha think? It's so convenient, it's already done. By the way, I wrote that song just for You.

Awakening means letting go of the judgement of sane/crazy and the concepts of self and other that making that judgement automatically implies. Concern about going down an "obscure" path implies that you have expectations of what awakening will look like. The "path" means embracing the unknown, becoming the unknown. You know that your choices are right because of how it feels. When you're really on track you'll be too satisfied and fulfilled to care what anyone thinks, and that includes your own judgement of yourself and how you're "doing". Great love is great courage.

OMG, there's a TYPO in the lyrics! No mistakes. Dreams to Dream Linda Ronstadt I lose my way No one cares The words I say No one hears My life it seems is a world of dreams Deep in the night You'll find me Dream and you're right behind me Stay...if you will stay We'll dream the night away Dreams to dream In the dark of the night When the world goes 'round I can still make it right I can see so far in my dreams I'll follow my dreams until they come true There is a star Waiting to guide us Shining inside us When we close our eyes Come with me You will see what I mean There's a world insight No one else ever sees You will go so far in my dreams Somewhere in my dreams Your dreams will come true Don't let go If you stay close to me In my dreams tonight You will see what I see Dreams to dream As near as can be Inside you and me Will always come true Inside you and me That always come true

Revelations also talks about seven secret seals. See, see, see? What are the secret seven seals? The seven chakras. What's the 6th chakra? The third eye. The sixth sense. That's why there are three sixes, 6 6 6 see? The first few years of my life when my parents went to church and were closely involved with the pastor. They had a son my age and we always had a wildly fun time together. His last name was Leon. One day in church, I had had all the boredom could take and convinced him to come up to the pulpit with me, mid sermon. This side of me has come up time and time again, and I have shamed myself for it. Religion and attraction have always in my heart been my deepest passion and desire, and they have always been intermixed. The shame was because I thought there should be strong separation between them. But it's all allegory. I was trying to enforce the wrong separation. Like there is shame and stigma with a psychedelic, because of its potential to be misused without proper Understanding or intentions this "path" is shamed and my shame. Misunderstood. I'm only understanding it now. Fuckery = "God works in mysterious ways." Care killed the cat. What happens when self judgment is removed? When one becomes a child again?

As we got to the river my daughter started saying "Echo, echo! I love you!" Then "Come here boy!". She pretended that my son was a dog. "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." "Close, but no cigar." I knocked huge chunks of ice off and floated them down the river. One got stuck on a rock and I watched it stay there a while, until another large piece scraped into it knocking if off the rock and they both floated freely. May the wine go straight to my beloved, flowing gently over lips and teeth. 10 I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. 11 Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages.[c] 12 Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. 13 The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. If only you were to me like a brother, who was nursed at my mother’s breasts! Then, if I found you outside, I would kiss you, and no one would despise me. 2 I would lead you and bring you to my mother’s house— she who has taught me. I would give you spiced wine to drink, the nectar of my pomegranates. 3 His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. 4 Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. "Because mandrakes contain deliriant hallucinogenic tropane alkaloids and the shape of their roots often resembles human figures, they have been associated with a variety of superstitious practices throughout history. They have long been used in magic rituals, today also in contemporary pagan traditions such as Wicca and Odinism.[2]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mandrake Under the apple tree I roused you; there your mother conceived you, there she who was in labor gave you birth. 6 Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy[a] unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. 7 Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If one were to give all the wealth of one’s house for love, it[c] would be utterly scorned.

In 1936 C. S. Lewis wrote The Allegory of Love further solidifying courtly love as a "love of a highly specialized sort, whose characteristics may be enumerated as Humility, Courtesy, Adultery, and the Religion of Love". "Allegory is common in the romantic literature of the Middle Ages, and it was often used to interpret what was already written. There is a strong connection between religious imagery and human sexual love in medieval writings. The tradition of medieval allegory began in part with the interpretation of the Song of Songs in the Bible. Some medieval writers thought that the book should be taken literally as an erotic text; others believed that the Song of Songs was a metaphor for the relationship between Christ and the church and that the book could not even exist without that as its metaphorical meaning. Still others claimed that the book was written literally about sex but that this meaning must be "superseded by meanings related to Christ, to the church and to the individual Christian soul".[27] Marie de France's lai "Eliduc" toys with the idea that human romantic love is a symbol for God's love when two people love each other so fully and completely that they leave each other for God, separating and moving to different religious environments.[28] Furthermore, the main character's first wife leaves her husband and becomes a nun so that he can marry his new lover.[29] Allegorical treatment of courtly love is also found in the Roman de la Rose by Guillaume de Lorris and Jean de Meun.[30] In it, a man becomes enamored with an individual rose on a rosebush, attempting to pick it and finally succeeding. The rose represents the female body, but the romance also contains lengthy digressive "discussions on free will versus determinism as well as on optics and the influence of heavenly bodies on human behavior".[30]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Courtly_love I FORGOT about SONG OF SONGS.

JOINED February 14, 2016 https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/2261-mandyjw/ I joined on Valentine's Day? That's funny. Especially considering my current avatar which came to me in a vision. And the thing I did on Valentine's Day. "Saint Valentine (Italian: San Valentino, Latin: Valentinus) was a widely recognized 3rd-century Roman saint, commemorated in Christianity on February 14. From the High Middle Ages his Saints' Day has been associated with a tradition of courtly love." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Courtly_love "Courtly love was a medieval European literary conception of love that emphasized nobility and chivalry. Medieval literature is filled with examples of knights setting out on adventures and performing various deeds or services for ladies because of their "courtly love". This kind of love is originally a literary fiction created for the entertainment of the nobility, but as time passed, these ideas about love changed and attracted a larger audience. In the high Middle Ages, a "game of love" developed around these ideas as a set of social practices. "Loving nobly" was considered to be an enriching and improving practice.[1][2] Courtly love began in the ducal and princely courts of Aquitaine, Provence, Champagne, ducal Burgundy and the Norman Kingdom of Sicily[3] at the end of the eleventh century. In essence, courtly love was an experience between erotic desire and spiritual attainment, "a love at once illicit and morally elevating, passionate and disciplined, humiliating and exalting, human and transcendent".[4] The term "courtly love" was first popularized by Gaston Paris and has since come under a wide variety of definitions and uses. Its interpretation, origins and influences continue to be a matter of critical debate." WHEW. When I got up this morning, I didn't want to journal about my brother in law. Couldn't see how it connected. How funny that seems now. I'm off to the river. Surely to the see.

Last night I listed to the Owl City "Fire Flies" song above. My daughter always picks out her book that I read her before bed. She picked "The Bug Book" which I love. I noticed for the first time that it's by Sue Fliess and wondered if that was a pen name or real. I was looking inside the cover because i thought I might find an answer there and the dedication struck me and brought tears to my eyes. "To Dad, for teaching me to love even the tiniest of creatures --SF" Teaching love? There's one thing I said to my brother in law that I've always regretted and felt awful about. I said it as a put down to my husband. "You know what they say, those who can, do and those who can't teach." You don't know how many times I've thought about saying that now that I've uncovered my desire to teach. So can you teach love? Can you do? Can you love? Can you teach?