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    1 minute ago, NoSelfSelf said:

    @no_name Nah they are too bigheaded for that, thats why they didnt ever hire a dating coach to learn from the masters of the game...

    Then there wouldn’t be any dating coaches left for you ?.

    While you’re at it, you can also hire a coach to teach you how to cross the road and tie your shoes - I know people like you probably need clear cut instructions for these things as well ?. Also, I hear wiping your ass can be a challenge to figure out on your own..

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    Don’t over think it, remember Leo was exceptionally socially inapt, and fat, and unattractive.

    You don’t need 5000 approaches to get good with women, that’s retarded. His whole audience consists of men who are working minimum wage, never went to college, have absolutely nothing going for them, so to motivate them, he needs to make those ridiculous claims to get them off their ass and do something with their life that’s not just living in moms basement and playing video games.

    Women are not some magical creatures, every woman is also a human, and has many similarities to men. 

  5. Posted · Edited by no_name

    31 minutes ago, KH2 said:

    @no_name Lack of success PERHAPS. Looks absolutely not.

    There's next to zero consensus on what women find physically attractive. It's all just feeling based. In men's case, the consensus is very clear, and objective. That's why woman telling me I look ugly, or good looking, means absolutely nothing to me. Because some other chick who looks the same as her, can find me the opposite. It's all subjective BS

    I’ve been an early 20s girl and I think I can speak from experience - looks matter a lot to young girls. Girls at that age care about their friends opinion a lot and their social status. I was severely embarrassed by my then 30 year old boyfriend because he was a bit overweight. 

    Again, all what I am saying is that very young women care about men’s looks more than older women.

    Also many men when they hit their 30s tend to look very old and unkept. Many of them don’t wear sun protection all their life so they really wrinkle up fast. I’ve even seen my 24 year old male coworker having a huge wrinkle across his forehead. They get huge pores and blackheads, etc.

    Attractive man is an attractive man, it’s pretty objective.

    Although there are some other scenarios why a young girl would consider an ugly/objectively unattractive older man for dating:

    • He is rich/famous (again that status with friends thing)
    • She comes from abusive family and wants support/doesn’t have any support circle/friends 
    • She wants attention (again due to lack of attention in childhood) and she feels “special” when an older man approaches her, especially when he throws in a few “you’re so smart for your age” or “you’re different from other women your age”. Her ego gets stroked when an older and, how she thinks, “wiser” man picks her for dating - in her head “she must truly be special ?” (since she is a kid and doesn’t have experience to understand men would fuck anything)
    • She comes from a third world/underdeveloped country or her family has that mentality where she’s constantly being told “young men are very immature in their 20s”, “men never grow up”, “women are always more mature then men”, etc. This kind of mentality is also hurting young men a lot btw. Women also are idiots in their 20s.

  6. Posted

    5 minutes ago, John Paul said:

    They want that rock-hard, progressive dick 

    They want someone who is not a looser and creep. Especially if they come from healthy families.

    There are always young women from orphanages, or who were raped in childhood, experienced severe physical abuse, or come from alcoholic/drug addict families who would probably have a bit of a bad judgment of character and therefore still fall for a charm of a deadbeat 30 year old misogynistic  looser. 

  7. Posted

    Just now, Hero in progress said:

    Nice little dig no name, This is the internet so you can say things like that, I think If that was in person though it would be a different  story, trust me. 

    For context It was when she would come home from a night out before she bathed.  Probably shouldn't of brought that into the conversation in the first place with hindsight, but hay ho 

     

    You’re right, I don’t talk to losers in real life. Just not my circles.

  11. Posted · Edited by no_name

    41 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

    I do think lots of sex does loosen a vagina yes.

    I suggest before you post, you go back to high school and take grade 9 biology class. 
     

    If that was the case, any woman who’s ever given birth to a baby would never be able to have sex again.

    And we are talking about 50-70 cm baby here, not a 12 cm dick ??? 

  12. Posted · Edited by no_name

    3 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    Like 30-40 While I’m interested in 20-25. What does this say about me? I want the most fertile and sexy women I can get while I’m semi young. I don’t want women that age.

    Older women come to me like bees come to honey. And unfortunately younger women don’t . I have to chase younger girls which is normal. Young girls have options so they don’t have to chase but still most of the time I approach and it doesn’t work out. I don’t really get what the problem is. It is getting on my nerves since I’m around 30 myself. 

    To me women above 30 are not attractive at all. It is just a matter of taste and there are some exceptions but most of the time sorry but no sorry. Cougars are not my thing  

    I guess younger women have more choice and are pickier? Or my vibe is too reaching? Or my game sucks. It is really hard to say.  

    I think you just look really old and that’s why women who are 40-50 think you are their age.

    Younger women probably think you could be their father and don’t find you attractive.

    You can share your pic here and I’ll honestly tell you if you’re just too ugly.

    Also, where do you work? What is your education level? If you’re working minimum wage and don’t have at least a masters degree young women probably wouldn’t bother dating you - they can date a lot hotter guy who still has a whole future ahead of him (or at least still some hope for a good future) not a deadbeat loser who is already written out of any chances of success. 

    3 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    To me women above 30 are not attractive at all. It is just a matter of taste and there are some exceptions but most of the time sorry but no sorry. Cougars are not my thing  

    Also, OF COURSE women your own age are not attractive to you, they have STANDARDS and they can eventually see what a sick piece of shit you are, sorry but not sorry. 

    You're attracted to someone whom you can abuse, treat like an object and who won't complain about it. 

     

     

  15. Posted · Edited by no_name

    3 minutes ago, Raze said:

    YES. Because like I already SAID, women and men are different and value different things. This is why on average in couples men are older and women are younger. 

    You don’t even have an argument, you just accuse everyone who disagrees with you of being low value or immature. You are just wrong, I already showed you the data. You can have whatever preference you want, but that doesn’t change the reality of what makes someone more or less valuable on the sexual marketplace. 

    Looks like I struck a nerve. Sorry but flipping out at me will not change reality. Also this is not very emotionally mature of you.

    You’ve said 3 times already that I only value people who agree with me ?. Why do you care so much to lecture me? ? You think sitting on a couch and lecturing strangers will make you high value? ?

    Also, I can see clearly that complexity is not something you understand, but I was taking in particular about a gap where a man is mature and a woman is in her early 20s. The age difference is not that bad when two people are mature, like a 30 year old dating a 40 year old. But a 30 year old dating a college student is messed up.

  16. Posted · Edited by no_name

    8 minutes ago, Raze said:

    Its painfully clear you are insecure at the thought that men are attracted to younger women and have a bizarre warped belief that “value” now means anyone who dates older women. It doesn’t, any man dating an older woman even if he likes her for her personality would prefer she be younger. The data is clear.

    Do you really think I will take criticism of some random kid on the internet who is most likely broke/unemployed, looks like the bottom of my shoe, never even been with a woman, and has no experience seriously? Isn’t that really delusional of you to think that your opinion matters? 

  17. Posted · Edited by no_name

    4 minutes ago, Raze said:

    Like I already said, you seem to think “high value” means anyone who agrees with you, “low value” means anyone who disagrees with you.

    It doesn’t. You do not understand the terms.

    Andrew Tate has fame, wealth, and a good physique, these make him high value because these are highly valuable traits.

    This is why he has a public dating history of many attractive women.

    I know, those women are “low value” because they like someone you don’t like lol. 

    There are plenty of men who are more emotionally mature than Tate, yet they do not date as many attractive women. Why is this? Because it’s not a “high value trait”. 
     

    Its painfully clear you are insecure at the thought that men are attracted to younger women and have a bizarre warped belief that “value” now means anyone who dates older women. It doesn’t, any man dating an older woman even if he likes her for her personality would prefer she be younger. The data is clear.

    I find many young men more attractive physically than older men, but yet I don’t want a relationship with them. Because they are not relationship material.

    I wouldn’t mind going on a date with Andrew Tate, and getting stuff from him and getting paid a lot of money for it, BUT I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with him. Because his money is all he is good for, there is nothing else good about him.
     
    Also, how old are you? Sorry but I am not wasting my time on immature kids who are getting so triggered and butthurt by what I am saying. You’ll learn, hopefully, with experience how stupid what you’re saying is.

  19. Posted · Edited by no_name

    3 minutes ago, Raze said:

    You seem to think “high value” means anyone who agrees with you, and “low value” means anyone who doesn’t agree with you.

    Nope. These are terms about the sexual marketplace. I don’t like Andrew Tate, but he would be a “high value” male because he has rare but valued traits such as wealth. This is why he has a public dating history of seeing many attractive women.

    You flipping out on any man who is attracted to women younger than you reeks of insecurity. You are clearly way too emotionally involved to judge this topic rationally.

    No I think high value as someone who is emotionally mature.

    Beautiful but dumb women are high value for rich but immature men. Men who are mature do not consider those women high value, because they need more than just the looks in their partner, looks is not even the main feature for them. They can have any woman they want, so they will pick the one that enhances their life, makes them feel good on many levels. They don’t need an accessory, someone to show off to their friends, they are secure, they don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of them.
     

    You just call me emotionally charged because you can’t grasp what I am saying. Maybe in a few years IF you mature, you will understand it.

  21. Posted · Edited by no_name

    52 minutes ago, Raze said:

    This simply isn’t true. To all ages of men, women in their 20’s look best on average, it isn’t the same for women on average, see this data

    https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10

    “High value” men on average go for women even younger than the average man, because they go for what they are most attracted to and have the resources to win them over.

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/homo-consumericus/201306/very-wealthy-men-marry-much-younger-women

    To say a older man who goes for a younger woman must be “low value” makes no sense and I’m sorry is complete cope. Unless somehow the wealthier a man is the more low value he is?

    Men primarily care about looks in women, so a woman in her 30’s would be less “value” than in her 20’s. Women when judging men care about looks, but they also care more about other things besides looks, such as resources, social proof, charisma, etc. , which is why on average they go for older men, because older men have acquired more of those features on average.

    That is pure BS. You are no high value men and have never met high value men, so you’re just theorizing.

    Also, just because a man is rich, doesn’t make him high value. Andrew Tate is rich, but he’s a mysoginist, no high value woman would date him, only women with emotional issues and immature.

    Men who are high value emotionally AND have achieved success in life, would not want to deal with the drama/immaturity of a 20 year old. Again, I am 30, I can’t even talk to a 20 year old person for long, I can’t be friends with them, they are at a completely different stage of life and don’t have any experience.

    It’s not hard to “win over” a 20 year old. A 20 year old doesn’t know shit about life and what it is that really matters.

  23. Posted · Edited by no_name

    1 hour ago, eos_nyxia said:

    It's straight-up cope in many cases, lol.

    Not just about the physical appearance. But the supposed value of things they have to offer offset such. IMO, "achievements" don't really make up at all for someone who is likely a less vital version of themselves, and who is more cynical/ judgemental, and especially more rigid.

     

    But anyway, reality sorts itself out.

     

    Yea that’s true, I didn’t want to touch upon character. But using the language of the OP they’ve been “run through” by life at this point ???. I do think one category of these men are the bitter and cynical ones, very boring to talk to, the other category is the forever child ones who never grow up so it’s kinda obvious why they are still single.

    Yea, even the serious achievements don’t make up for having bad character. Men who don’t even have any real achievements by that age.. well.. good luck.

  24. Posted · Edited by no_name

    8 hours ago, Hero in progress said:

    @Roy

    Very common that men will find they become more attractive to females as they age, and have a much harder time when younger.  Honestly females sexual market value diminishes each time they sleep with another man. That wont feel very good to hear that for a women, but I think most men would agree.  

    Men mature at a later stage of life and usually have there shit together around 35- 40.  

    Bless up Roy 

    I am 30 and I am open to dating men 40-45, the problem is, I am NOT attracted to them physically.

    This bs that people say here that men’s value increases with age, is for sure bs, or the age is definitely capped at less than 35.

    I am seeing lots of men in this age range on dating apps, and they are not attractive to me whatsoever. They are balding, or some of them fully bald already, they have lots of wrinkles, their skin is weird and thick, they have grey hair (the ones that still have some of it), hairy bodies (the hair is grey on their bodies too), many of them also get fat. And the cherry on top - they look even worse in life, many of them post pics from years ago on their dating app, it’s a big shocker once you meet them..

    Of course there are a few that still look ok, like celebrities, for example, but most of them… omg.. I can’t date a grandpa like this, I don’t care what he has or who he is..

    I am not here to slam on old men, I am just saying be realistic and stop spreading bs. Just like you wouldn’t be attracted physically to a grandma, women are not attracted to grandfathers either, unless they are of the same age.

  25. Posted · Edited by no_name

    12 hours ago, jivvie said:

    Most men of value do not want a woman that’s had 5-9 men inside her. I surely did not. Which is why I married a 20 year old at 30. (Happily married. And when I say happy, I mean walking on clouds daily. It gets rough, but man is it nice having someone that listens intently and grows with you). She is 23 now and I am 33

    I am 30, and I can’t even speak to 20 year olds here because they are complete idiots.

    Humans brains don’t fully develop until the age of 25. A 30 year old who finds something in common with a 20 year old must be on the same level of underdevelopment.

    Many men who date younger women like that cannot date women of their own age because those women wouldn’t consider them “high value”. Only a 20 year old idiot who did not have any experience and does not know what “high value” looks like can be bullshitted and manipulated by those men to think they are “high value”. These men are also extremely insecure, so they do need the praise and admiration they get from those immature women.

    20 year old has no clue about what is good in a man and what is bad in a man. She will fall for anything that gives her attention. 
     

    Also, seeing your picture and how bitterly you interact here, as someone with experience, you by no means are “high value”. But truly thanks for the laugh.