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@fopylo I am not saying you shouldn't meditate. Meditation is amazing and 100% foundational, but that doesn´t mean that you should neglect the material world and your basic needs. I mean, how are you going to have the time and passion to meditate when you´re stuck cleaning dishes at Starbucks 8 hours a day for 10 bucks an hour? How are you going to get enlightened when all you deeply want is a hot witch sucking your pe,pe? Focus on both, for sure, do some meditation and shit but be strategic about it, have a plan, and don´t dismiss your lower needs. Discover what you want and how you would want to impact the world and exhaust those needs so that you can transcend them later. Meditation and spirituality won´t go anywhere, save it for later when you have a better foundation to reach the higher dimensions of life.

1: Contemplate why you compare yourself so much with other people. 2: You don't know how they feel or how their life is. You're just assuming shit. 3: I understand that it is super frustrating to feel like you're not getting the thing you seek ( self acceptance/ self love). It must feel very discouraging and disappointing. Relize that the journey is long and that it entails going thorough a lot of shit and pain. Sometimes you will feel 100 times worse than your friends a couple of days/ months because you're on this exact journey. Shredding your ego TAKES.FUCKING.TIME. Lastly Focus on the material stuff more. Don't meditate 4 hours a day. Do that later. Make some goals, discover what you want, take Leo's LP course, do shadow work, seek out a therapist and get your basics rolling. Gl man, I am rooting for you. I know it's though, but hang in there.

Bruh, let people use whatever terms they like.

Yeah but it becomes strange loopy. How you perceive it to be is your ACTUAL experience in a limited consciousness RELATIVE perspective which makes it relatively true and able to explain how you feel when you´re in that exact situation and state of consciousness. This means that the feelings exist and are true with a small t on truth and that they are a part of our perceived experience of reality, just like my glass right in front of me is percived even though it doesn´t look like that from an absolute truth perspective.

Of course

It all depends on how we look at it. Everything is relative (; What is true in this relative perspective is those feelings. What is absolutely true is another question which basically is how the world is without us projecting anything to it.

@wwhy For sure but that doesn´t mean that my feelings of being misunderstood or hurt are invalid. They are there. I understand why it happens, and I am sorry that they have to experience that but the guys who express anti-woman ideas can´t help it, just as little, as they can´t help themselves to not react against it. They have the right to feel that way and express whatever they feel. It´s okay. They are allowed to feel misunderstood, angry, sad, hurt, and frustrated + expressing that fully, just like I have to right to express how that, in turn, makes me feel. This whole sex war dynamic is in reality just a basic negative feedback loop that puts hurt on hurt, and I believe the first step to go meta on it ( and seek out a solution) is to acknowledge how it makes us feel so that we can learn that we basicialy experience the same type of distress and negative emotions from both judging the other sex and being judged by the other sex. Both sides feel misunderstood - so I think it´s time we try to understand each other.

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as a guy feel terrible misunderstood from this discussion regarding that men are this and woman are this way. It's a very black and white, biased way of looking at a complex situation. "Men here are underdeveloped, they are this and that way and normal guys are not this way and woman here are for higher values while men are here just because they are less developed ext" I mean come on, that's super judgemental and dividing and puts men on one side and woman on another side + put men and woman down. Many men and women are interested in higher ideals and conciousness and truth yet at the same time have low self esteem and what not. The one doesn't have to exclude the other one. I agree with a lot on here. A lot of men here, myself too, have low self esteem issues and struggle in the daiting compartment and should work on integrating the anima, and shadow, and conciousness, and learn how to relate to woman better and the world and find his masculinety and yadi yadi yadi yadi, but that doesn't mean that we are here and you girls are up there or that we should be judged as " less developed'. A lot of girls here have similar structure problems in their psychie, while maybe not a guy's equivalent for that structure problem and I suggest that that's why the gender wars happen and why this is a sensitive topic for a lot of girls here too. A lot of men and woman on here are very very insecure. Not just men, not just woman and that makes it so that the two see something in the other sex which is not accepted which than creates this whole dynamic of judging and hatred. This is a very sensitive spot for myself, I can tell. I am biased, I am triggered, I am hurt and I take responsibility for that, but I also take responsibility to express my emotions and thoughts regarding this. I can't see this clearly, but this is how I see it, and therefor in a sense - this is my justified truth.

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Amazing reply. Thanks

I am super right-brained and intuitive by nature and because of that my left-brained thinking is really poor ( Probably because I rarely use it). That said, I am currently in a face in my life where I am actively studying math and left-brained thinking almost every single day which of course got my systems thinking brain wondering." Huh; I wonder if this will aid my self-actualization work in any way?". Maybe I will gain something more from a larger perspective than just becoming not extremely terrible at math". There exists honestly a lot of doubts in my mind that developing my left-brained thinking more will be that useful, yet, it still feels reasonable that there could be some awesome benefits that I haven´t even considered that could emerge from becoming more logical and left brain oriented. So what do you guys say? How does left-brain thinking aid on the self-actualization/self-transcendence journey? Are there even any benefits at all? If there are, what are the benefits of left-brained thinking? @Leo Gura

Numbers are imaginary

Because Yellow starts to realize that forcing others to change is not loving, nor solving the individual and global problems ( It only creates more problems) and that one instead should search for real systemic, core solutions. Yellow still cares, but see through a lot of greens delusion. That's my answer. Note that I am probably around 40 percent yellow 25 percent green and 35 percent orange and I still have a lot of integration of green left, so take that into account. Also, yellow cares about the injustices, it´s just that yellow don´t try to solve it activist style.

And reason without reason is called being crazzy

@Moksha What about being able to work hard and smart though? Will right-brain thinking training enhance my ability to do that you think?

Do you though?

I mean If you are forced to talk to one. You could just say hi and smile and than just go on your way but that depends really on what sort of relationship you have with the girl you would " meet" on the street. I mean if you have a super close connection to that girl, than she even might be the one wanting to small talk with you. It's very context sensitive.

Seeing multiple girls at the same time while not being in a committed relationship is great because it shows girls that you're abundant and have options. Don't shy away from being honest about that to the girls you date if they happen to ask. If you meet one girl with another, introduce them to eachoter, play it cool and own it. It's not awkward, it's good and attractive.

Broo, I love this. Amazing journal - thanks for sharing.

I can't concentrate if I hear even the slightest of sound. It's facinating how people can be so different!

I'm in a similar situation as you. My holistic/ systemsthinking/ creativety thinking is really strong but I am less capable when it comes to logic. I belive this boils down to me not being able to " think inside" logic as good as someone who is more logical because that's not how people who are intuition oriented see the world. Take empathy for example. Why can a mother who have lost her child " think inside" and identify better with another mother who have lost her child than you and me? It obviously is due to her experience where something similar happend to her. This than makes her more capable of thinking and relating to her accurately because she have experienced it. That said, who do you than think is able to identify and think inside logic the best? The one who uses logic to see the world all the time and is identified with being a logical person or the person who don't use logic to understand the world? The " problem" is in other words that you can't relate to logic as well as other people can ecuase you can't " put yourself in logics shoes" aswell as someone who uses logics way of thinking to operate the world ( the structure of logic) So to the question: How can I rekindle my interests in the right brain? By thinking more logically and therefor learning to identify more with logic. My strategy to become more right brain oriented is to let my drive to understand the world to push me towards trying to understand math and logic ( becuase that's a part of the world). When I'm studying math, I am in other words not settleing on trying to solve something. I am aiming towards understanding, identifying and thinking inside logic. For this shift to occur, it of course goes without saying that consistency and the right intensity is key to be able to become more right brained. Hope that helpes (: @tatsumaru