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Refreshing to see someone who gets it. @Something Funny If you wanna go the dating app route and don't have any photos or friends who take good photos: Joby GripTight One + phone + some practise is all you need.

Real talk though: the easiest hack is to have something in your life more compelling than trying to get a girlfriend. But yeah, it sucks because you can’t control when it works.

@Something Funny Because someone has to balance out the fairytales.

Absolutely! If you close your eyes real tight and believe, she will eventually knock on the door and jump on your lap.

You want a quick fix but even the quick fix needs effort. No way around it.

@Kalki Avatar No bro, you don't understand. It feels better to blame the universe than to admit you froze or were unprepared. You're romanticizing these encounters because they let you indulge in fantasies of "what ifs" without having to risk anything. How do you know you came across the perfect woman for you just because she walked her dog and said hi? Because you didn't have to do anything. And it sounds like that's the pattern you get lost in.

Now go full circle by getting yourself cleaned, ultimate meta level.

@Never_give_up I don’t have the answer. But you’re not the only one thinking this way. It’s brutal when the stuff you used to care about stops feeling like it matters and you’re just trying to survive instead of thrive. I can only give you this advice: keep moving your body, even if it’s just a walk around the block. It doesn’t make life magically worth living, but it sets you up to have a bit more peace. Be careful with that idea. Even if there is another life after this you’ll most likely end up facing the same challenges again and again until you learn how to move through them. Only chance to do so is in the here and now.

@Kalki Avatar It's not rocket science: - You were at an embassy, no phones allowed, your mom was jealous, couldn't figure out how to approach --> You were just awkward. - You had a love awakening and were "processing the immensity of that dimension" --> You were in your head having a meltdown. - You couldn't think of anything cause it was so unpredictable and your mind was flying --> That's called life. These are just everyday, mundane interactions you're putting a lot of extra meaning into and they leave you wondering what you could have done differently.

@eTorro This sounds like the least risky path of life imaginable. What makes you sure this isn’t just avoiding intimacy?

So perfect he got himself full pinned spread eagle mid-game and still didn't safeword.

The ones who’ve been there don’t need explanations, the tone gives it away every time. Leo’s still walking in baby shoes on that front, nothing advanced about it. And it doesn't look like he's planning to grow out of them anytime soon.

It's a ritual kill shot. People need closure when they shift identity. They leave the part of themselves that needed this place. That said, it always makes me a bit uncomfortable...culty vibes in the air. Especially the way some mods reply. Feels like little minions circling the altar.

Still better than no food and dying.

@Emerald ?

@Judy2 Wanting to be seen at your most raw doesn’t make you toxic, it makes you human. Those pictures hold a story your body survived. You were seen. And I gotta say, respect.

You did. That's what counts.

Yes, but you won't like it: get a motorcycle. Even Sadhguru couldn’t sit still forever. ✌️

Men never stop chasing pussy. They just evolve the camouflage...now it's depth and philosophy. Also, the denial of the chase makes it look cooler.

Can't decide if this is an illusion or actually true in all cases. In my experience it's true.

Balance has been achieved. Welcome to the fellowship. Now kneel, baptism by existential tears awaits. @Keryo Koffa You had an ESTJ awakening? Cute. I don't awaken, I disintegrate and then crawl back laughing.

@Puer Aeternus I'm getting hardcore INFP vibes from you. You can join the club if you want, we have snacks.

@eTorro

Yeah, but what kind of women? Think about it.

Ok mommy, noted. 😏 I gotta admit, that trait....jumping to quick conclusions and discarding what doesn’t fit is exactly what makes me think twice about keeping a girl around. But real sharp self-awareness though. Respect. You do sound jokey. Most people live as jokes and don't even know it!