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Except - without feeling bad - you can shit your pants now. I'm speaking for a friend.

@NoSelfSelf His post was refreshing to read in this section among all the game talk.

That's just the best I can describe my emotional block with when in love, something's holding me back to fully show her my emotions. But I've learnt that girls appreciate it. Rather than pickup I think a more conscious tool to "get laid" would be IFS. Of course one needs infinite patience with themselves here but getting laid will be an inevitable symptom of growing yourself. Great to hear. It took me ages to let go more and learn to simply enjoy my time with women, without the need to pick them up or worry about game. You can't manipulate anyone into getting attracted to you - it's going to happen naturally, and I found the best position for me to be in is when I have fun with whomever's around

Nice man, I'm with you here. After my last relationship I was under the illusion I needed to do pickup in order to grow myself, as if it was the highest way. Glad I never got into it, it would have taken me ages to untangle my mind from all the brainwashing, it's already hard work freeing myself from general manosphere ideology. I've actually noticed this too. Being in love hurts me physically, but it feels more like an imminent implosion.

Nothing that's being perceived is conscious, not even your body is conscious. YOU are conscious of your body's appearance, your thoughts, emotions, senses, other people.

I want Sadhguru to be more like Leo.

Sounds more like teasing. Don't take it too seriously and tease her back. This is normal drunk girl behaviour.

If this is true, then I'm disappointed. Leo said aliens look sexy.

Good luck changing our mind about it.

Once you can communicate properly yourself she will appear. You still wanna find out why people swear at you. After all, it bothered you enough to post here.

Chances are very high you have parts to heal first before your authentic self shines through. Personally, I had a skewed image of what my authentic self is for the biggest part of my life. @Rafael Thundercat Beautiful.

I'd recommend IFS therapy. I had lots of shame inside me especially around my sexuality and thanks to therapy I'm a different person today.

@NightHawkBuzz Same here with soccer. It's a simple game with lots of drama, guess why most of society is into it...

@lostingenosmaze Damn, you really must have been dying for some Pop Tarts.

Reminds me of how I once took a toast out the toaster with a knife. The look on my friend's faces was disturbing.

Sounds like someone has been on some liberating shit...

I see, it's about the little things 😆

Yes sir, figure out how to get there without being needy. Or that you're an alien.

My signal is when she spreads her legs.

I think you're confusing something here. This sounds more like a simp, which is creepy.

In that case you can still focus on what makes people feel comfortable. I personally don't think it's easy navigating the thin line between being your authentic self vs. not scaring people. I don't believe your intentions are bad and it sounds like you want to get this handled since it causes you suffering. But you need to open your mind a bit more and leave women out of this debate, it has absolutely nothing to do with them. You have a sneaky mind. Why do you want all this? So you can get laid, I don't really believe it's for the men Let the simps simp, you wanna play at their level?

Most of society is unaware of why they feel the way they feel, they can't steer their emotions, empathy is the key. You're only shooting yourself in the foot here. If you let them know your intentions and they don't match your nonverbal communication then people are going to be wise enough not to risk anything. It's not a crime as as far as I know, but it definitely puts you in the spotlight.

Being creepy is being attached to an outcome. Your neediness is evident in that you want women and authorities to have a different image than the one you give off. People can sense you're hiding your real intentions, whether their guesses are true or not doesn't matter. What matters is how people (not just women) feel around you. Someone is creeped out by you if you inspire in them feelings of awkwardness, fear, guilt...basically if you give them an overall unpleasant interaction without being authentic. Going on a crusade against what society deems safe won't help your case, you'll just go further down the spiral.

- she shows signs of attraction - you notice but don't approach because you want to teach her a lesson