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Hey, to give your support. I was on my third date with a really hot, clever feminine 23 yo girl. I still didn't kiss her. Why? I didn't feel like it. Otherwise I was keeping it light and fun, she was initiating touch. We were laughing the whole date with a genuine connection. After the date she texted me, she was glad to meet me. Why not kissing works on really hot women? I guess it gets to their head, everyone wants to try to kiss them and see if she likes them. I just know she's wet because the way I act. I show that I have balls in a lot of different ways but kissing her. This is advanced "tactics", you can only pull it off if you truly don't give a fck what she thinks. For me it wasn't really tactics, I'm after a breakup so I don't feel like kissing other girls yet too much. Other reason I didn't go for a kiss is that I just finished uni, moved back to my parents house temporarily and there is no place to fck her. I only kiss a girl if she comes up to me after a date, not on the streets where it cannot lead to sex. Again, this might be bad advice for you, going for the kiss has cetainly its advantages. I just wanted to show you that it might not be over, it's all about how you frame and handle things.

Dude, wtf is earth angel and starseed hybrid

I'll have to check out Mantaks, but I was like this since the beginning of my masturbation journey, now I'm only 22.

While I agree that semen should not be conserved religously, however, I cannot nor lust to ejaculate more than once in a row (it hurts) and 70% of the time I become tired too. I observed myself for years, it's just how it is. I guess our bodies are just simply differernt

That explains a lot. This is just misunderstanding of spirituality. The mind played him, lost in concepts. Sorry for your loss.

I can second this, it's the exact same advice I always give to my male friends

I'm sorry, you did absolutely the worst thing. The same way you get better at videogames, the same way you have to learn and get better at attracting girls. Go to Youtube and learn female nature: Todd V, RSD, Alexander Grace I learned a lot from them, now I can easily attract 20-25 yr old beatiful smart women who are at least stage green. Good luck buddy, you'll get there one day too. Just keep learning and practicing

is this thread for real? Who the fuck cares? As long as he is being authentic and by teaching millions of people he is changing the world for the better, I don't give a damn. He is being one of the most valuable people on Earth by providing all those incredible deep videos on YouTube. And all you can criticize is his manners? Give me a fucking break. I thought this forum is full of higher consciousness people, not some pussies... Fake growth at its finest I advise you to stop using the forum and get to work on yourselves, forget enlightenment and pursue common sense first

Yep, be strong mentally, emotionally and preferably physically while being masculine. Only after that comes your and her inner values which can enhance your relationship into something deeper. Think like a women, act like a man. Studying female nature is all you need if you wanna attract them.

Is this some kind of trolling thread? Your skill with girls is like 1/10 based on what you wrote. Forget actualized.org for now, you need to get your shit together first. To not leave you without helping, start here: Then type in: "Alexander Grace" to Youtube. Subscribe to both channels with bell on and binge watch all their videos. But don't you dare become a sad, depressed, egoistic "red pill" guy Learn female nature, that's the key You'll be suprised how logical actually women are Then you'll get high quality women from left and right... Good luck buddy

1. You ain't hot 2. You ain't above all men. A valuable relationship is still possible where mutual growth can benefit you, it's a matter of finding the right partner. 3. Watch out for being closed minded to possibilites that you have not yet experienced. Sorry for stabbing your ego directly.

It is easy, you are just doing it wrong. Like really wrong. Why would you compliment any stranger women? Your first message shouldn't really be about her. Instead, come up with a line in your bio which states a challenge towards her. It has to be absurd and not serious. Mine is: "Minimum requirement: you have to be able to do backflips while cooking pancakes" My opening: "Are you sure you'll be able to do the backflips while cooking backflips?" So, I don't have to think about opening texts, I just copy paste it to every new match unless I have found something interesting on her profile which worth an other kind of opening. 80% of the time I just copy paste. Guess what I get 100% response rate, not just for the first message. It communicates you have standards, humour, puts you in a frame above her, like you are the job interviewer. This is how you increase volume without sacrafising too much time and brain power about "omg what to text first" However, this is just the one step, you have to have your photos be professional and polarizing so they even get to reading your bio. Now, my advice to you: A) Delete Tinder Install Tinder, create a fake hot girl's profile (use pics from instagram models' page, not from google). Try to be a girl for a week or two, see which openings you get you like the most. And also you will get a sense of the competition while scrolling through dudes' profiles B) Go to YouTube: Type in Todd V Dating and check his last 5 videos about Tinder. He is the only dating coach you need. I wish you good luck and commit to learn about attraction and female nature, women will love you for it

It's just a childish egoic motivation wanting to become a pimp You should be worrying about making true connections, not "manipulating" women into liking you. You will die soon, no one will care about your accomplishments

You misunderstood my message, and I haven't said that I only dated her in my whole life, in fact I only date girls 8-10 in terms of looks, looking for that 9-10 personality but it's really hard to find. I just wanted to highlight that being a 10 in a lot of ways is quite subjective. @Leo Gura Totally agree with you. Atm it is harder for me to date 25+ yr old women as I just turned 22. I had some dates with older women than me and made much deeper connections. I still have 1 of them as one of my best friends, she is 30. Getting 18-23 is no problem most of the time but coffee tables ain't my type. I guess I'll have to wait 3 more years for that to be easier.

wishful sinking become a celebrity, be healthy, develop charisma, take care of yourself. Be mature, learn game and develop emotional strength. You're a 10. But why waste your precious time on Earth just to get a better looking women? I had a super hot 19 year old gf who I got not because I'm famous but I was in her proximity and she fell in love with me. I am tall, good-looking but she is way waaay out of my league when it comes to looks. Guess what? I got quickly used to all the attention we get whereever we go, all the "respect" I get from other men for conquering that women's heart. This is all just bullshit survival stuff, do we need their validation for happiness? No, this is all just an illusion. She was not a great match, she was still very immature, not so bright on the inside, so I ended up breaking up with her as it was just bad and boring being in a relationship with her. There goes your 10/10 dream girl. Turns out she was a 10 on society's scale but not on mine. Being hot is just 1 aspect, finding women with valueable inner world is not what game can directly get you. You being a 10/10 can only get you so far.

or actually the question goes to everyone, please share your experience. So first of all, I'm not denying that I'm stupid myself but there are levels to this shit. I'm not talking about being good at Math for example. I talk about common sense. From the absolute sense we are all equal and I should be like: "oh yeah that's life, there are less and more conscious humans" However, since I have some Goodness in me, I'd like to make the world a better place, do God's work. I can't be just observing everything, I have to take part in "life" and do practical stuff. So in life we get to experience the stupidity of other human beings or collective's. They are super wrong about lot of stuff in life. I just mean any practical example in your everyday life with all the falsehood, ignorance, lack of self-awareness. All the news from the world, youtube and other social media comments etc. It just hurts me on the inside, I lose hope in humanity, it frustrates me, makes me feel helpless and responsible (me being the adult, them being the child. But they barely improve anymore in life like a real child does), I feel alone, I wish I was just as stupid, it weighs down on my heart, makes me depressed, but I also feel empathy towards them because of their genetics and upbringing. I can't change them. And yeah of course I'm evil myself in a lot of ways and I have still a lot to learn about myself and life. And I'm certainly not as conscious as my mind thinks as I have this "problem". I'm quite optimistic that we are going up on the spiral as human species on a macro level but on micro level in everyday life I don't get to see that improvement in people, I just have to deal with the cards I'm dealt with. I still have to interact with them for the rest of my life so I would like to deal with this. I see that even wise people like Leo have a hard time with this. I'm sure you also get this emotion, so how do you deal with it? Looking forward to your answers!

Thanks, this is the kind of advice I was looking for. Also the way Leo deals here with "stupidity" is the question. (Context: guy asked why was his thread locked) He called him out and controlled the situation with "force" by locking the thread.

I think a lot of you misunderstood my question, you told me what I already know and do. I was looking for a non-spiritual, practical answer if there is any besides "you cannot really do anything about it, accept it".