Breakingthewall

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forget about cumming, cumming is the worst part of fucking: that's when it ends. the good thing is the while, not the end. If you can spend hours fucking keeping the intensity to the maximum, I don't think anyone cares if you cum or not, least of all you. advice: completely forget about any evaluation of your performance. This is very difficult at first, so it's not very useful advice, but go with the flow and enjoy the moment. congratulations for that first half hour in your life

reality really is limitless. It seems limited, but it's a kind of special effect. there are no limits. you are unlimited. if you think about it, something unlimited is not something. if you expand into a space of a billion universes, you become very tenuous. but if you expand into infinity, there is nothing left of you. nothing at all, because infinity has no limits, it is unfathomable, and that is what we are. the person who is now reading believes that it is limited and definite, but that is an illusion. the reality is that it has no definition, no substance. so it can be said that it is nothing, although it exists, it is

the question would not be if they have consciousness, since they are consciousness, like a stone, but if they are alive. a virus is alive and is simpler than a computer. reaching the level of complexity of a cockroach, for example, is not possible today for any computer. they are not alive because they cannot reproduce spontaneously, but with artificial intelligence and quantum computing, who knows where it will lead. probably to something unimaginable today

Is a plant conscious? Is a fish? More or less than a computer? Where is the difference?

what is consciousness? first we should define that. according to the non-dualistic definition there is only consciousness, everything is within consciousness...whatever that is. So the computer is consciousness If you mean the ability to perceive, I'd say this is the self. It's very confusing because the self looks real, and looks that it's the only real thing that exists, but it isn't

when you say conscious it seems like you mean having a self. a center that perceives, that is aware of itself as a being and that desires things, such as not disappearing for example. The thing is that this center, you, is more like a computer than it seems. a software that if is deactivated, you disappear. what happens is that you cannot see it, because you are the software. you can't see yourself, you think you're real, and you're the same as a computer

that things are as they are, and it is me, a mental construction, who superimposes on everything a should be, that imprints anxiety on the whole experience. reality is perfect because there is nothing that is not perfection. software "should be" is perfect too, but "I" can turn it off at will and turn off suffering

I have used the word narc lightly. I was referring to a person who seeks the admiration of others to feed their self-esteem

I'm not saying this because she's pretty or because she has a meter of blonde hair, it's because saying: you are love, you are pure beauty of being, look for love within you, etc., staring, it is absolutely useless, sounds like : I have found love within me, and you? (looser) since it supposes that whoever listens to het has not done so. To do it, you have to break down the barriers of the ego, and love will flow. If this has happened, telling someone who hasn't (and you know it's very difficult to do), that it's love, etx, is like telling the beggar at the supermarket door: start a business, you can. It is easy! you just have to want. if he punches me in the face, I'll reply: thank you, i deserve

Yah was written by purple tree, a mistake of the site. I feel that vibes , but maybe im wrong I feel as if all the time she says: look at me, I feel great, I am love. you could be too (ahem)

absolutely. comes to your bed smiling saying that you are love, with a large kitchen knife My feeling is that she's a narc, only focused in herself

Is there nothing you can do to make things more pleasant while you wait?

I just opened the site knowing that you were going to say exactly this ?. what you say is true, the individual who is searching is not real and the search does not lead to an end, everything is maya. if you remove maya, there is nothing left, absolutely nothing. and yet you are. and yet maya returns, and you are the apparent experience that does not happen to anyone. is a deeper mystery than the certainty that the individual is unreal. . although on the other hand, the individual is unreal, as you say, and it does not matter at all what he discovers or not, what he seeks or not. the reality is that infinity is impersonal and the perceiving individual is a fiction, like everything else, that is formed in the infinity, which is still infinite and formless but it seems the opposite. you really are infinity, and that's like saying you're nothing, but not exactly the same. you are nothing defined, but you are.

that is a great awakening, the beginning of spirituality. you know what you are not. Now the real deal is knowing what you are. something more subtle, since you are nothing, and yet you are.

If you've been grow up with narcissists, they'll notice that you're vulnerable. They will engulf you in their game, which is basically sucking your self-esteem to feed on it. Since this is not something you want to happen, you have to prevent it. the first thing is to identify that dynamic, the second, to put firm barriers against it. For me what worked the most is the attack. I know it sounds bad, but when you're in that dynamic you doubt. Kind: it's my paranoia, I'm sure there's nothing like that. and perpetuate the dynamic. On the other hand, if you sin by excess, you may have to apologize, but you are sending messages to your subconscious that will make that dynamic disappear from your life. After that, it will be easier to forgive those offenses of the past. maybe you realize that they were not so serious they are just poor scared idiots trying to run away from the harsh reality: their certainty that they are not enough, their inferiority

those kinds of situations are a key to liberation. living with that resentment is very unpleasant, so you look for a way to make it go away, but you can't, since everything was really so unfair, things should have happened differently, you have been scammed! that certainty of how they should have behaved, of how unfair everything was, is more painful than the damage itself. It seems impossible to get rid of it. what are you going to be? a lamb that allows itself to be used? the only way to rise above all that and completely lose its poison is to realize that things are exactly as they are, and cannot and should not be otherwise. You're not going to get to this with logic or with anything they tell you here. it is an awakening to the perfection of reality and to seeing the ego for what it is: it should be imaginary. This does not mean that you should allow the abuse, just that you see it as one more manifestation of reality, like the flu. So deepening understanding and emptying your mind with meditation are the paths that will lead you to free yourself from that pain

There is no self, it is an illusion. reality is a limitless void pretending to be something. apparent reality and infinite nothingness are the same. yes yes, all this is the starting point of spirituality. being able to see every moment the illusion of reality is a big step. everything is illusion. but obviously there is more. It is not that the ego wants to find something and all that, it is that it is evident. you are, and you are in unlimited depth, void source of love, sacred plenitude. say: there is nothing, I am already enlightened. stop fooling yourself, there's nothing. all of this sounds like you are stuck, that there is a part of you unable to open up.

because a guy from the tribe had sex with a girl who was the wife of another guy from the tribe, and it all ended with many deaths. because a guy wanted his land to be inherited by someone with his genes... in short, ego, patriarchy, possession, separation

@WelcometoReality @Gesundheit2 true, you can become a monk for example. stop wishing, stop being an ego, stop influencing reality. others will help you survive. We suffer because we have desires, it is true. We want things to be different than they are, and that dissonance between what should be and what is ,is pure anxiety, suffering. what is and what should be must be equalized. but you can still wish. align your desire with what is. a complicated step, for me the true art is here, and not in stopping wishing and being a monk true happiness is what you are once freed from the constant anxiety of what should be. Of the learned desires that are swimming against the current. once you start swimming with the current, everything begins to become simple, fluid. but you still swim

because the girls got pregnant, and they had to feed the child, and without a father who took responsibility, things got ugly

Is it possible to survive without desire? In some cases I guess so, but material survival requires struggle. can you fight without desire? as humans we do not have an instinct that makes us be adapted to the environment, we have to learn, and that requires desire.

abandoning the need to understand everything with the logical mind is essential. It's difficult because everyone is used to analyzing everything logically, everything must make sense, fit together. this is an obstacle, you have to let go of the need to analyze logically, otherwise it is impossible to meditate. it is something that happens little by little, it is like getting rid of a drug. psychedelics help a lot, since they erase the logical mind for a while. but the important thing is the intention to let go of control

Most of the suffering from trauma is not from the trauma itself but from the belief that it should not have happened. that you have been treated unfairly by ... life? things must have been one way and they scammed you, they went another way. this disappears when you become aware of the perfection of what is. nothing that can be arrived at with logic. trauma loses its poison in a second. It's like when neo starts to stops Smith's blows with one hand while looking away. you realize that it was you who was giving existence to that ghost, and then you let it go easily

right, the problem is that if you don't have desires you sink into shit... which doesn't matter if you don't have desires, obviously. if you have no desires, if you do not distinguish between good and bad, you are in paradise. but you die, they enslave you, you get cold and the rats eat you. I think that a balance is possible: desire with passion, and at will, when it is not necessary, cut off the desire and enter the kingdom of heaven. but never wishing and being a saint in a cave seems to me to lose something valuable, the human gift of doing, of changing reality. which is a source of suffering, sure, but it is also satisfying. If you know that suffering is imaginary it's bearable Edit: but who knows, maybe the world is a stupidity and pure source of suffering and would be much better be a saint in a cave, as the xingxing ming poem says: make the slightest distinction between good and bad and heaven and earth are infinitely separated