Breakingthewall

I would meditate as deeply as possible to reach that moment with the maximum possible awareness. But I would really think: I am not prepared, my perception is too superficial, I need more time to achieve greater openness, to dissolve the barriers. my work is not done, now is not the time, its not going to happen

Yes, you have to connect directly with the source and let yourself be carried away by it. It is pure creation, and it is creating this moment. If you align yourself with it, your energetic vibration changes, becomes fluid.

You have to destroy the gates of heaven and rape God. He will say : you can't get in. And you will answer: I'm getting in.

It could be extremely useful. Many times in one day is a good idea.

Yes, more and more work is being done on human well-being and people are increasingly depressed and anxious. the rate of depressed children increases exponentially. It is an extremely serious matter. A child from the Congo is much happier than from Sweden, by several orders of magnitude. where aim this point? well, at the end of the species, simply. There is only one solution to the dead end that is modern life: enlightenment. real, complete. This is something very difficult, an extreme, radical change. We will see how reality regulates itself, very interesting.

Everyone looks pretty happy from outside, but they really live in avoidance and permanent anxiety. what is called suffering, uninterrupted, permanent. but humans are tough and endure that without a problem. can endure being enslaved and working making the pyramids of Egypt with whips, so living in permanent depression and anxiety is not a problem, there are a lot of tricks to don't realize it.

The difference between a primitive guy and us is that his natural impulses are perfectly aligned with his reality since they have evolved in parallel. At the moment in which the collective ego separates itself from its context and begins to be the one who shapes the context, the human becomes a perpetually maladaptive and therefore unhappy being. lost, without understanding anything, it is a simple support of the collective ego and its imbalance is the cause of movement and evolution. Humans build a psyche and adapt reality to this psyche, they do not flow with reality, they live in a strange farce that is only bearable if you are anesthetized by the constant flow of stimuli that you receive. Then, as the op said, human is a depressed being, even without realizing it. Every human is separated, living in suffering.

For hundreds of thousands of years no generation took any step forward, human reality was static, like that of animals, conditioned by genetics. Look at a bird in a park, they have been doing exactly the same thing for several million years, with hardly any variations. At a given moment, the human freed himself from the chains of the gene and began the evolution of the immaterial entity called the collective ego. The collective ego grows exponentially. It took a Paleolithic tribe 80 thousand years to invent a new type of tool, this invention was recorded in the collective ego. At one point, agriculture and civilization, and everything accelerates, and now the pace is brutal. The evolution of the collective human ego in one year is equivalent to hundreds of millions of years of genetic evolution. Adapting to this is obviously a challenge.

Reality is not relative, it is absolute, and it traces a narrow path that you must follow. If you deviate, it will hit you with the whip of suffering. The problem is that you are deviated as standard.

no, because our life line is absolutely out of that way from the beginning. The problem is that it follows a very narrow arbitrary path in which until very recently the only thing that mattered was deforming the individual to make him a social cog. Finding a way to channel your energy is very difficult, since there is no beaten path for it, your ancestors from hundreds or thousands of generations of civilization shout at you: neurosis. so you have to trace the path for yourself and for those who come. Nobody said human life was easy.

simple, because when you were a child you followed the natural cycle of being a child, but when you became an adult you were prohibited from doing the things that a human adult should do, which are killing and torturing enemies, stealing women, hunting animals and slaves, and fighting for leadership. and try to exterminate rival tribes. That's how our society is, it represses us and prevents us from doing the funny things.

I have, in a pendulum way, not constant and not full, the opening to the true nature of reality, to what we are: the unlimited breadth, the bottomless abyss. The nature of this breadth cannot be thought, it has to happen in real time and when it happens, you are home, it is enlightenment. If your psyche closes, it becomes dense again, you no longer have it. Your psyche can elaborate anything, but you are separated, isolated, in suffering to a greater or lesser extent. I think this is inevitable being human at certain moments, you know, when your cousin Genghis approaches you smiling, explaining the sophisticated plans he has for your immediate future. But what is the nature of the cosmos? the structure of reality. How and why infinite potential is infinitely coordinated in the unimaginable dance that is manifest reality? interesting question. I would say that it is something inevitable, cyclical and the most strange and incomprehensible, as you said that Wilber said: infinite on its scale. This cannot be understood, it is impossible. infinite multiverses, infinite scales of complexity. infinite minds intertwining infinitely, without ever reaching a limit, because that is not possible. Then, Leo, your alien seems the boss in the high school of his village, but out he is so small than anything else

A kangaroo is a dimension of the reality, you are another, both are infinite depth. The difference is in the breadth of the form, its content. There may be another dimension of infinity that is a mind that encompasses a quadrillion parallel universes for which any alien is less than a bacteria, and even so, that dimension will be exactly the same as the donkey in its essence, infinite depth. only the elaboration of the form changes. If the infinite cosmos collapses into an empty singularity and restarts into infinite primordial particles, each of them will be exactly the same in essence as the most complex construction: infinite. nothing can be anything other than infinite, only the manifestation changes. So, what else can be enlightenment than being your essence, that is, infinite, the total depth? And how to be aware of it if it is not transcending the form completely? seems pretty obvious Why a donkey can't trascend it's form? Because it's totally prisoner of it, the form is so dense than allow being aware of anything except the form, same of most of humans, but being aware or more complexity don't make the essence more obvious. Can make the mind more flexible but not necessarily more transparent. If the infinity manifest, it's totally obvious that anything that seems more is form. Form is great btw, I want to be aware of the alien conciousness, the galaxy conciousness and all that's possible, just because it's beauty. But infinity is infinity, the absolute depth, and that is what we are independent of the form. Being open to your unlimited nature implies happiness, freedom and vision. Aperture is inversely proportional to density. It is not something definitive but rather it occurs in a gradual and pendulum way, but you need to see the way, if not, you are lost in the form . That is what I realized until now.

The question would be: can you be happy in hell? If it were yes, then it wouldn't be hell anymore. So what makes hell hell? simply the ego, which is the creator of hell. and what is the ego? the distortion between what is and what should be. A crocodile has little ego, it is hungry and it should not be. that's all his ego. the rest is perfection. a human....well, an absolutely horrible mess in which absolutely everything should be a little different. everything, absolutely, this is human nature, imbalance. What is the imbalance for? to produce movement. A crocodile does what crocodiles do for 200 million years and everything is perfect like that. chill and do the crocodile. a human is a crazy machine of evolution. a real pain, but it seems necessary, it is what reality wants, and there is no discussion. So the only happiness of humans is to enjoy their unhappiness. The end of suffering is to enjoy suffering. To deny suffering is to deny your humanity. Would you like to be a crocodile? Sure it's relaxing, but you're not and you can't force yourself to be. suffering, human frustration, will always exist. accepting it fully is liberation

A reflection on this. reality can only be infinite. Understanding how what we call God is dreaming this concrete reality is a possibility within infinite possibilities. It is a real understanding of one of infinite possibilities. "Understanding" in the sense of deciphering how and why it is finite, is the understanding of a possibility. There is only something absolute, let's say the essence of reality, its substance. This substance has no form or limit, it could say that it's absolute depth, absence of limits or infinity. therefore it cannot be understood with the mind, you can only open yourself to it and be it, then it is clear how irrelevant the understanding of anything else is. not useless but not essential. Enlightenment is not imaginary because it is not something you "know", it is the opening you make to your infinite nature, allowing that limitless nature to shine through you without the obstacle of structure. How can it be imaginary if it is out of form? It is not "something", it is the lack of limits

Maybe now is not your moment to get deep in meditation.

Why do you need that other people have the same understanding that you have about life to stablish true relationship with them? Is not enough if they are essentially true? Imagine that you have a dog and you love it and it loves you. Maybe you could do big sacrifices to help that dog, maybe the dog could give it's life to protect you. Maybe it's a deep understanding between you and the dog, because you share the same essential nature. No more is needed, no talk or share opinions

This question has a problem, and that is that it interprets (as is inevitable) infinity as a straight temporal line. In the absence of limits, endless reincarnation has already occurred infinitely many times, which is equivalent to saying that it will occur infinitely many times, or that it is occurring now infinitely many times, or that it has never occurred. once your current pattern of existence disappears, you will never have existed. Does the 10-year-old boy that you were exist now? Only your essential nature exists and it will always be that way, the forms will always be the current form, and another will never have existed or will exist, or will have existed and will exist infinitely. It is the same, the mind cannot grasp it because it works in 3d, not in infinite d.

The problem is that suffering has a design that doesn't allow "enjoying" it. Maybe you can enjoy climbing an ice wall in the Himalayas in winter, but you can't enjoy compulsively thinking about how your best friend raped your 12-year-old daughter and caused her suicide. They are extreme examples but human life has them in abundance. When we talk about mental suffering, which causes hatred, war, human horror, we talk about that kind of thing. A primitive human saw it clearly: an affront had to be balanced with revenge to restore balance. From this dynamic arises civilization, law, and human order that gives rise to evolution using violence as a catalyst. No one has ever cared that humans were happy, but rather that they fulfilled their role in the function. That's an option, quite uncomfortable, but what to do?. The other is that mysterious and rare state called enlightenment , where the human condition is transcended. But talk about enlightenment as it were something simple is a joke. If we even want to understand what it implies, we must understand the human condition and not simplify it in a naive way as if it were something silly that we fall into by mistake.

Maybe it isn't but act like it were. Imagine that your wife falsely denounces you for raping your 2-year-old son to steal your money and tomorrow you are going to be sentenced to life in prison for it and all your family and friends will not talk to you because you are a monster. would you suffer? Why? Does something hurt you? An animal would not suffer, in its dimension those kind of things do not exist. Imagine that at that moment a self-help guru comes to you and tells you: you are creating your own suffering, life is now, and it is wonderful, all of that is fantasies. Would it be of any use to you? Denying the existence of a real entity that is the individual and collective ego does not work. It exists, it is real, it lives, it has enormous force. Going back, to the animal state without ego, does not work. It's like trying to eliminate the sexual drive from you, you can't, it exists. There is only one path that is forward, what we call (without knowing very well what it is) enlightenment. For me the definition would be the human metamorphosis in which the psyche disintegrates, loosing it's strength and remaining just an a structure, like the old, allowing the opening through which the truth of the being is totally manifested, like the new. This requires a process of forging a new structure, which they say entails many lives and much suffering.

I would say that things are not like that at all. Negative thoughts and emotions are manifestations of real energy structures. They are not left behind deciding it, that is self-help and it does not work. A deep work is needed, and the end of that work is what we call enlightenment, be open to the pure truth without obstacles . If it's your case , great, but it's not something easy. Maybe seems simple when you are totally open to the reality and the psyche moves apart, but in my case, it comes back

Well, ok, you are unique in the world, one between 20 millions. Usually the people think compulsively all time and feels moments of satisfaction and moments of dissatisfaction, and they move to seek more satisfaction, although many times negative thoughts and feelings such as loneliness, fear, sadness, neurotic ideas, arise and generate what is called suffering.

You can't do that, it could be a consequence of a real opening of the truth in you, not something that you do or don't do. Compulsive thought are consequence of incompleteness, if happen, happen, as all of us know. Compulsive thought can cease when the structure of the person changes to a point when the true substance flows without obstacle

You talk about stop neurotic desires I guess. you can't stop wishing. You desire because you do not perceive yourself as complete, and desire is your need to complete yourself. the absence of neurotic desire comes with the truth, not the truth with the cessation of desire