Breakingthewall

You are right, it's just a personal and general perception, not everyone is the same. If your energy is open and deep, similar people can appear. What I wanted to express is that girls aren't "lucky" enough to receive social attention. Almost always, everything offered and exchanged is pure ego, completely unreal relationships. But this is normal, since most people are like that, unreal. It's what it is; society creates very superficial individuals. Deep down, people are deeply unsatisfied, and they don't know why; they can't see beyond it. It's very difficult.

Then say something interesting. For now you seem just a smartass

A baby knows that is alive because being is knowing. Knows it very deeply, but in an abstract way. Don't you remember when you were 2 years old? You felt the life totally, that is knowing, it's much closer than enlightenment that knowing that you are a person in a planet with a body.

Saying things like: reality is imaginary. If it's "reality", should be "real". Saying reality is imaginary is saying that the circle is square. Confusion. Or maybe I don't get it

I guess that being always in an absolute perspective then pain is the same than pleasure, but who can be in an absolute perspective more than some moments? Then the relative perspective returns and pain is just pain. You could see bit better, things become less hostile, you stop rejecting the bad thing so much I guess, but I don't know until what level.

The self for me is the perception, and any perception has to happen with some structure. Without structure perception is impossible, and in reality there is always a structure. If there were none, no matter how tenuous, there would be nothing. It would be exactly the same now as before and after, therefore reality would not occur. At some point, there would be some structure, since the potential for it to exist, as we see, and then reality would occur. This necessarily means that there are always infinite structures. The current structure is totally perfect, infinite synchronicity in action, like absolutely all other structures. It's quite shocking. It is infinite and perfect, and its depth is total. It moves, it evolves. The intelligence that designs this moment is absolute. It is not someone, not a god ,it is just the consequence of infinity. Everything is interconnected to infinite power, which makes it infinitely alive. It is totally impossible for it not to be so. So, what is thought? The absolute in a perfect form, infinitely interconnected. If at some point you realize that, it is because the turn of infinity was exactly in that direction. What is this experience, this form? Just an expression of infinity, like anything else. Then, anyone that appears in this experience is another expression of infinity, then it's "another". Just my perspective, maybe you could say: it's me, but I don't see it in that way , me is this form, you is your form. Are absolutely separate, even the substance is the same and it's movement is syncronized in the same whole. From an absolute perspective, both are the same, but from a relative perspective are different, are separate perceptions. Both perspectives are real.

I'm not nihilistic, but I understand the social dynamics of dating well. It's 99% narcissism. Most people are deeply dissatisfied; relationships are empty, superficial, and ego-focused. Sex is hedonistic, people measure themselves by category, and no one touches the other's soul. It's absolutely boring. But what to do? That's human life

Just a mental barrier , something that closes.

Non duality is simply a lie. If there is something that you can't control, there is duality, then there is infinite duality. If duality means that ultimately everything is the same substance, what with that? It's a separate form, then it's another. All non dualistics are people who tries to make scuare the circle

I was not talking about the impact of Christianity but about its essence.

Why don't you become millionaire if it's so easy? Rockefeller

Anyway, Christianity is the religion that aims for true openness, but it must be interpreted correctly. Christ is a metaphor, as is original sin. Christ's bleeding heart is the door to the whole. Buddha's still mind is limited; it lacks the blood of Christ. The Trinity is the formless whole, the form and totality of synchronistic forms. Christianity is true mysticism.

If God were all-powerful, it could choose to be limited, but since it can't, it's completely powerless. It's the inevitable consequence of the absence of limits. And Jesus was a man with profound vision who was crucified. The same thing could happen to you.

Putin is authoritarian with the tacit consent of the oligarchies and the majority of the people. It's a different kind of authoritarianism than, for example, Saddam Hussein, who was a kind of Mesopotamian satrap, a king. Both are authoritarian, but one is centered on the homeland and the other on himself, as evidenced by statues, giant paintings, etc. Regarding tribal leaders, a leader like Sitting Bull is very different from one like Genghis Khan. Both were leaders of a small, warrior tribe. One was, let's say, democratic, while the other drifted toward conquer and authoritarianism, becoming an institution. Each case is different. I guess that it depends of many factors

The shallow and empty attention girls enjoy is a total curse; it binds them to eternal stupidity and adolescence. It's better to be a virgin forever than that shit. Even better is to be in a Stalinist gulag. At least you die with dignity and authenticity. Living as a narcissist is worse than death. They look brilliant on the outside, but they're absolutely rotten on the inside

Why do you think that they aren't as dumb as the average? The problem isn't IQ, it's emotional maturity. Most people are teenagers until they're 80, and that's dramatic. All of their social interaction is ego-boosting, and it's absolutely frustrating and exhausting. retarded like Elon Musk and Donald Trump. When they're having sex, they're thinking about how sexy they are and all that. You have to imagine you're dealing with a slightly dorky 15-year-old boy, never play into his game, never feel attacked by his projectiveness, and be on top of it. Dealing with teenagers is exhausting; everyone knows that.

It's easy. Being rejected by idiots is better because their company is empty, superficial, insubstantial, adolescent, egotistical, toxic, and sterile. There are intelligent people, and people smarter than you; the problem is that there are few of them. The next problem is that you may be very intelligent but emotionally traumatized or immature (maybe not). Cleanse your trauma, develop your true personality, and when someone intelligent and compatible comes along, cultivate that friendship. Having two true friends is infinitely better than being very popular in an environment of idiots.

If you're at home in silence, in the dark, your mind is completely empty of thought, without barriers, open to the unlimited, There's no separate self in that moment, but there is a self that's aware of the experience, that reality is happening, flowing. It's a self-aware self. If you then start thinking things about yourself and other people, or about your future or whatever, a relative self appears. They're both the same, aren't they? And they're both real.

You could say that reality is interconnected, but saying that reality is not dual...well, there is me and there is you, if they cutt my leg is a big shit, if they cut your leg it's a big shit too, but let's see...it's not the same.

Always it's a self since there is experience happening. We call absence of self the absence of thoughts about ourselves, but this is just an expression of the self. Ultimately the self is the perception, no self is impossible, you could say no separate self maybe, or no conceptual self made of thought, but self is always in my opinion

5 meo is useful to breaking structures, but it's always confusing. You can get the same expansion being sober, then it's clear.

The truth is the total absence of limits, that's the ultimate nature of reality, and who realizes it is the limited structure of reality that is taking place now, the psyche. The limited form realizes the absence of limitations, because the absence of limitations implies that always there is a limited form, because the absence of a limited form is "never". It's the space between two forms, and that space is out of time, then it doesn't happen, because "happen" is the form. Seem paradoxical but it's simple

Try to open your focus more, purify my emotional structure more at every moment, polish the karma, and move toward greater openness. The whole problem is the structures that close you off, but they're extremely persistent and quite difficult to see. Having a moment of awakening, or whatever you call it, is nothing; it's just the beginning of a long process that requires great insight and willpower to avoid getting stuck on dead ends and self deceptions

I mean duality as self referencial thought, ego, but maybe it's not just that .

American democracy has deep roots. If Trump truly tries to be a dictator, I'd say he'd be eliminated. I'd say the real powers that be are waiting for Trump to fall due to his incompetence, which is quite likely. When the economy is in ruin and his popularity is at its lowest, it will be better for him to go out on time