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Getting bullied? This is not normal. A women will never bully a men that approaches her, from an evolutionary point of view this kind of behavior could get her killed.

@Karmadhi Generally I don't recommend cold approach to people that are extroverted and meet new people naturally all the time. Sure, you can try online game but it is true that only a select percentage of the male population will have success with it and let alone getting genuinely hot girls. Realistically cold approach is a solution for seriously introverted guys. The percentage of young men that can get laid or have girlfriends is shockingly low. If you're introverted and online game doesn't work for you, cold approach is basically your best option then. If I would do social circle game and be social a lot I would be very miserable in life and with cold approach, I don't have to fundamentally change my lifestyle into one that does not authentically fit me.

@hugoalfven Day game is actually relatively low energy so perfect for calm guys (especially if you're cool and mysterious) though you still need to present yourself to the girl, be light and do some talking. Most girls are definitely not into macho over masculine guys, he only attracts a specific type of woman. I think everybody has a certain type of the opposite sex he or she consistently attracts.

I would say don't be afraid to "slightly inconvenience", if you're making women feel uncomfortable you're doing something fundamentally wrong. Always be in tune with her state/general vibe and be graciously polite. The foundation of day game is, don't be a creep. This means: Don't startle her, be aware, be in intune, have decent clothes, no robotic lines, no aggressiveness/anger in your energy, don't be a needy hobo, no (excessive) pushing. Don't spam approach, don't approach girls that are clearly not your type and you don't find genuinely attractive, be subtle, Don't walk around as some kind of "hunter" of hot girls, and don't draw (excessive) attention. In this framework, you can be an audacious wolf and not the town's crazy person. And when the girl is into you she will still love being stared at with your creepy unblinking crazy eyes and sly smile(;

@Chives99 If it was easy everybody would be doing it. You can only make it easy by massive experience. If a woman is not impressed by your presence, don't bother with her. If you truly click with a girl she will literally be attracted to you when you approach. Before even stating intent she will come closer to you and light up. If you negatively "bother" the girl, she will let you know by not investing and looking bored/unimpressed. The general energy will be off and too much pushing will feel needy. She either clicks within the first 10 seconds or not. But of course, it is also possible to just have pleasant conversations with girls who are not interested. If you feel you are selling yourself or proving yourself to a girl, this means you have a subtle neediness. I had this lately where I approached the girl, and it immediately clicked. She actually closed me but also told me she is extremely busy in her life, this subtly pushed me out of my relaxed state and I started pushing more for a set date. I became a seller and I could see this turned her off a little.

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@Kid A Even though Northern European girls are globally idealized as the most beautiful on earth and in a sense they are: tall, blonde, blue eyes, perfect facial features. But that is to overlook that they are generally more masculine, level-headed and in my opinion, often lacking that girly cuteness and magical feminity of for example Slavic girls. Or the openness, spontaneity and sexual embrace of Latina and southern European girls.

Northern European girls suck for approaching. Obviously, if you click it will still work. But when it doesn't they have the most shitty reactions. I think it's the deep-seated Calvinist mentality that makes street approaching so not-done in their eyes. There is a cultural emphasis on plainness and social norms over sexual polarity and social freedom. Though southern European, Latina and Slavic girls absolutely love and really appreciate being approached even if it doesn't necessarily click.

@Hardkill Cool thing with western societies is that are they multicultural, if you don't click with the main group find some nationality or culture you click most with. I can see a clear pattern in all the girls I dated, they are most often Eastern European, follow a high level of education and two of them were gothic girls. Funny thing is that on dates I often talk about Dante and I have never had a girl not knowing him or his work. I seem to click with the most intelligent and feminine girls, so in this sense I am lucky. I am exceptionally unlucky though when it comes to landing a girlfriend. I have to do some improvements on this front, maybe this year will be my year. Like seriously at some point me not getting a girlfriend would be a statistical impossibility.

It definitely works, I have proven this to myself and got hooked. It's actually a good way to get the highest quality girls with whom you click the most. Just learning this stuff can be brutal and will involve some cringy ass fuck ups. Although I have heard this legend of a guy who approached 30 000 women and never got laid. That's crazy! If that's true that means that not all men are suitable for day game. Maybe if you're overly masculine or have a severe lack of masculinity, have some kind of cursed vibe, or are mentally ill, day game will just never work for you.

A long time ago I had a bad trip on psilocybin. I emailed my 'study coordinator' a desperate text in which I just have an absolute breakdown and explain that I can't handle the big project I was working on at the time. Luckily she just ignored the mail, and it was as if nothing ever happened. I almost never saw her in real life so things were never awkward and I finished the project just fine.

@Hardkill It's strange that it happens so often. A buddy of mine also said he got kicked out of a mall once. I guess when you're starting out and you're not that calibrated you should stay away from malls and begin with long walks in a big city environment where you are very anonymous and have more room to fuck up. Also, don't approach in front of mall cops or do it very calibrated because mall cops are extremely bored throughout the day and will find any excuse to be "useful". Approaching in front of regular cops should be absolutely fine. You really must be a shady creep if you get a warning then.

I am obsessed with medieval art and architecture. For example the creepy yet awesome aura of a medieval statue I find so fascinating. I can stare at it for hours. I just want to own one. The cost varies a lot but generally, for a respectable art piece, the cost is similar to that of a secondhand small car. With all the inflation going on, Is it a good long-term investment to buy it, keep it and sell it when the time is ripe? (or even pass on to the next generation).

@Majed This should be the number one lesson of game. Don't make it a (clown) show. Always be aware of the people and situation and then approach. 5-7 approaches are enough and don't circle too much around. Make it look like you're approaching an old friend or asking for directions. The most cringiest form of game is when a dude just stands still on a busy street/square and stops every woman that passes. I call that river-tax game. It's bad for your reputation, mental health, is creepy and gives daygame a bad reputation.

Medieval art is something like a creepy old statue you find in your grandpa's attic except it's 600 years old and has a mystical aura. I am really attracted to that creepiness and mystiek. Tip: go to a museum while micro-dosed on LSD, you'll understand what I am talking about.

@FourCrossedWands It's the "art" in the statues that really fascinate me but I also appreciate other art forms like manuscripts. @ZGROPIUS It's a long-term investment, so keeping it and even passing it on after death is part of it.

@Leo Gura Can you send the old "..?" if she is not replying or is that too demanding?

Just to give you an idea. This is a relatively affordable piece.

I understand why you would say that, but on almost every date I make out with the girl. I stimulate her (in respectful ways) and play cute games where we hold eye contact for as long as possible. The last girl I dated told me I had soft lips and when I finished making out she almost fell over forward because she wanted more. I guess I am just a little bit wounded at the moment.

@Leo Gura Unfortunately, that's not my experience. I had that very rarely where there were two dates back to back within a reasonable time span. I find those are the girls who are most unwounded, secure and freaky(; . But for the most part, I could have had a date with an absolute soulmate. But if there was no sex I will be treated with zero respect via text. I mean ignoring, leading me on, and flaking. Sure she might even go on a date again, but when, next year?

@UDT @Leo Gura Oh, it's easy being a leader when you're one-on-one with the girl. Good luck texting her after the date though (if there was no sex). All the leadership of the world won't help you then. The truth is that all girls will happily have sex on the first if they get stimulated. A girl can justify anything. I literally had a (bad) date with a girl where she lectured me about how she doesn't kiss on the first date because of principles but also told me that when she first met her ex "they had such great energy" and were boyfriend and girlfriend on the first day they met.

That's the thing: Girls just don't seem to commit to consistently dating. They will punish you by being flaky and playing games for not having had sex on the first date. In my experience, it's the other way around. My chances go down dramatically after every date. Even if the dates are very good and romantic.

I had the most honest and wholesome dates with women while at the same time being very emotionally stimulating. Yet if we don't have sex on the first date my chances of getting the girl goes down dramatically. How girls fall for guys is all ass-backward. My advice is not to have sex on the first date but nonetheless commit to dating the guy. That way you'll know him better how he consistently is.

I am all in for authenticity and integrating feminity but at the same time, there is also something to be appreciated about the contrast between true men and true women. It's something I admire in Eastern European societies. When it comes to gender dynamics I want the baseness of an Eastern European society minus the toxic masculinity/macho stuff and more tolerance towards outlying sexualities.

Macho no, but masculine yes. Just to explore that part of myself to be a more balanced guy. Masculinity is to a large degree developed (at least for me it is). So I need to get that out of the way as a young man. Then I will become God(; Sure my body manipulations are not strictly necessary but they help a lot, it's just a practical thing.