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@StarStruck I sometimes used to hear spaceship sounds when I am half asleep

Here lies your great opportunity! Stand up for yourself and demarcate boundaries. That's how you demand respect. Basically, if you cross my border: I will fuck you up. Let people know that you're not playing games. You need to have strong energy for this.

@Princess Arabia I think he meant communicating sexual intent with presence.

@Butters You seem very mature and principled, looking for depth. Yes, go for older women, they are awesome! so sweet and motherly. I also switched up my approaching to include more older women. And communicate honestly when you don't feel ready to go quickly. There is this expectation on men that they always need to be ready to fuck but this is not the case. If you communicate this sincerely and with vulnerability this can be a great connection point. By doing game for a few years I found out that only a very small portion of women genuinely excite me. Many girls are just kinda lame, just like most guys are lame too.

@Lila9 Snakes are very symbolic archetypal creatures and represent deep desires and feelings from our subconscious. I often see snakes in dreams.

@Leo Gura Why can't you accept that people have different passions and find beauty and depth in different things?

@Leo Gura Isn't that some simple common sense though? Everybody would strike if sufficiently threatened. The problem with Putin is that he is overly aggressive and cruel.

The fact that the generations-after separate themself from French culture and society makes it even worse. A big part of the problem is that they cling to Islam and the worldview of their home country which is anti-western (values). Islam is a big corrupting force when it comes to immigrants. Non-Islamic immigrants don't get so bitter and violent.

I keep hearing "they put them in Ghetto's". But It's actually perfectly comfortable social accommodation. It's actually decently well-kept most of the time. The countries they originate, over there they have some real fucking ghettos. Have you ever been to an African city? Some basic gratitude, loyalty, appreciation and respect for your host country is an order, without it, you really are a "dumb ungrateful immigrant running a rampage". I have generally a very positive view on migration but what I see here is a total lack of basic human decency.

Countries like Canada, Australia and to a large degree USA get immigration right. Europe kinda dropped the ball on it. Most notably France and Sweden. But I guess it's also a byproduct of creating very pleasant liberal societies and in the case of France also colonialism.

Kinda fucked up though, I am really disgusted by that kind of mentality. I am now dating an older Ukrainian woman, I made it clear to her that I feel a connection to Russia (Though I support Ukraine fully in the war). She is very sweet and courteous but even using the Russian language gets a bit awkward. She doesn't want to speak it when other people are around so they won't mistake her for Russian. Our last date was very long, I really made her glow but she nonetheless has put me on hold because of her depression which got worse when the counter-offensive started. When the Wagner insurrection started I texted her enthusiastically that this might be a huge turning point. Of course, I just wanted the Russian army to fatally weaken. But later I thought about the horror if the Wagner would fight it out in Moscow and even take power. Which kinda made me feel ashamed of my text. I genuinely was excited when I heard the news but I am still not sure I acted within my integrity. I just really hate how much she hates Russia even though she is totally justified. I much prefer dating Russian girls, less baggage though I always make clear that I support Ukraine and usually they do too in their own way. I also respect and love how intelligent Eastern European girls are compared to Western ones. In all their backwardness their education system and culture are way superior to the Western one.

@StarStruck While I see your point and of course you don't want to be a meek nice guy or overly serious. I would say that mature game as done by a mature man is done respectfully and calmly. You don't have to act like some hyperactive teenage bad boy to get girls. Your strong presence should be enough of a base to get the girl into a hypersensitive state. Then you can interact "normally" and the slightest of things will hugely stimulate her. But I am speaking from my experience, I myself am authentically very calm and I almost exclusively date highly feminine Eastern European women, maybe for more masculine girls you need to be more of a "loud obnoxious" guy.

@Caoimhin Great insight! Guess you're doomed to only approach girls that are hot and genuinely excite you(; Explore your masculinity and libido, and have that stuff in check and under control. That is what makes the man. Also, don't be obsessed with the libido part, it's not everything but if you really want libido just masturbate a bit and don't cum.

@Leo Gura How did you find out? Did you "time travel" of sorts and witnessed ancient Egypt and you being a rat there?

Yep, that's all you need! Don't underestimate though how deep this goes. 1. Girls don't care about your money! (hopefully, you do have enough just for some basic stuff. it's more a matter of practicality than attraction). 2. 7+ women are not harder than girls that are 6's! In fact, it will be harder for you to build trust and connection with a six because your attraction might falter (or not be there at all) and the odds are she'll be much more defensive, skeptical and act out of insecurity. 3. The only other common misconception you didn't mention is looks. Yeah, women don't care about your looks. This goes deep! (Just maintain common hygiene and nice clothes so you yourself can feel confident.)

@StarStruck I grew up in a very stage green school and higher education system. I always was cringed out by all of the gay propaganda because that is exactly what it is: propaganda. Though it's obviously not the same as some nazi or communist propaganda so at least I am grateful for that. And I did not turn out homophobic so it worked on me haha. I definitely can see the advantages of all of that gay propaganda because it does stand for acceptance and in a bigger picture a more free and compassionate society. Though the danger lies in a complete overthrow of healthy good old down-to-earth conservative values, and that was missing a lot I was feeling. I see a lot of young people in society very confused and just not ready for the real world because they were always treated like a special snowflake, things like 'work', 'masculinity' and 'ambition' get too demonized nowadays.

That's literally the only thing they're giving in abundance and in prime quality(;

@charlie cho Oh I am well aware of the massive bullshit of religious folk. Of course, all of that bullshit will backfire at some point. Religion is a massive source of backwardness and retardation in society, think Iran and Saudi Arabia. Though you're not appreciating how completely different the worldview is of religious people, like truly orthodox religious. They just don't care or value the same shit as you. The more I understand religious people the more in shock I get about their medieval backwardness and barbarity. Even though on a personal level they are the most friendly and always ready to help, it's their political organizing that can get very dangerous.

Agree, though I would change 'looks' for 'energy'. Energy determines everything. You basically have the common societal view, yeah day game is socially unacceptable. And there are genuinely good reasons why it should stay that way. It's inherently unscalable and more girls for me(; But in all seriousness, different personality types go best with different approaches of meeting women. If you have a decent social life, sure thats a great way to meet women. For me personly I would absolutely hate the idea of being part of a friend group or having to maintain a social circle. (yeah I am extreme in that sense). The supreme advantage of day game is that you basically choose the hottest girl you desire most, the supply is endless on a good location. Being good at day game is like having a cheat code to reality(;

As much as I dislike religion. From my experience religious people are genuinely the happiest in society because they have a close-knit community, always help out and support each other, and possess a sense of purpose. They don't have the same attitude as standard Westerners. They don't care that much about material success, technological advancement or explaining themselves to secular people. They just have a script and they follow it, it's not an easy life per see but it is a simple one. I am talking from my experience, maybe its different in America

Haha, yeah I mean that state when you can't find any hot girls and so you are really seeking them out as some sort of hunter. This can put you in a weak "low-status" state. But yeah, the majority of day game is just walking. That's a big plus if you ask me, like if you had a bad day you still can go home knowing you had some healthy exercise.

Definitely not "just sitting there like a crouching tiger". You need to walk and blend into the scene. This is a core principle of day game, especially for beginners. You need to ensure maximum anonymity so as not to feel like -or come across as the crazy guy. There is a reason day game doesn't work in villages or your own neighborhood, it heavily relies on the anonymity offered by big busy cities. Also, the company I had my boot camp with asked us to never approach on their street/in front of their building, why? because of reputation and it's totally understandable. And even though in a sense "you're hunting" you should not have the composure of a hunter/crouching tiger, that's creepy. The most cringy form of day game is when a guy just stands around, even more cringe when a guy just stands on a busy walkway and stops every hot girl that passes by, I call that river tax game, never do that. The best form of day game that makes you feel like a badass is when you walk around as part of the scene and approach girls and that approach has the same mannerism as someone asking for directions. This combined with knowing your type is the most advanced and purest form of daygame that will make you feel like a movie hero.

@Ramanujan The important thing is to be consistent, starting out it is going to be scary, messy and cringy at times but if you stick to it you'll make some hardcore improvement.

@Hardkill He seems to be an open person, corresponding with a lot of people. He basically got a particular worldview and wants to spread it as best he can, that is his whole stick. My grandfather used to have correspondence with Chompsky from Russia. He peddled his views but was also genuinely puzzled about communism not working. At some point, my grandfather cut off correspondence with him because he perceived him as increasingly respectless and insulting. He made his blood boil with his extremely uncompromising leftwing view.

@Lincisman You will have your hopes crushed and your heart broken a few times and then you will harden up a bit and not commit to women so soon. But sounds like you're making great progress cold approaching! being genuinely good at cold approach is a superpower more valuable than any sex. It's a smart strategy to really hone that skill down before committing to a girl. Also, a good tip would be to always capitalize on good energy and momentum while doing cold-approach. Like for weeks I was really struggling to get into the game but yesterday I had two instant dates in a row. If you have good energy, don't go home, approach some more! Also only approach the girls you are genuinely attracted to.