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Everything posted by gettoefl
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incomparable masterpieces whose arrival the universe has eagerly awaited since the dawn of time comparison is the ugliest and perhaps the only sin go ahead and express yourself
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better yet watch the latest episode and sit in a room for an hour by yourself
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this is the new paradigm, out with the in your face creepy lecherous harassing obnoxious thirstiness and in with the considerate no pressure take my info if you're free later drop me a line dinosaurs are extinct for good reason
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hot and beautiful are opposite contemplate this; appreciate the distinction and i am talking the physical form here to confuse them is sloppy
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gettoefl replied to trenton's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
don't criticize them pity them for how hopelessly deluded they are that not one word you could utter could penetrate them the word compassion means to suffer with ...why not try to sit down and break bread with such people -
we need a bill of rights for children since too many parents are abusive bullying callous dictators who think a child's opinion hasn't validity and weight that barbaric era of parenting is from the dim and distance past and it is clear that muzzling children only makes them more steadfast in their opinions
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hatred is but lack of understanding beauty can be seen as the worse curse imaginable through the correct lens its burden is that people refuse to see the real you only the you to serve their base ends
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it's a simple method of putting yourself out there while respecting another's sovereignty boundaries and busy schedule... rather than trying to prove how cool you are while flexing your macho credentials on random victims personally i have only been on the receiving end of this and i was hugely impressed with the courage and the ingenuity of the person who handed me their bio ... i know for a fact they got tons of dates from it
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point is, people do not want to be accosted by strangers in public ... do you understand this? it is being selfishly presumptuous that you are more important than the task the person is setting about doing on the other hand to hand someone a blurb is a minimally invasive and more respectful way of ingratiating yourself without imposing your unwelcome agenda on some poor unsuspecting defenceless soul to give someone a bio is a well meaning kindness to set about to pick someone up is crude cringe worthy crass imposition see the distinctions and learn how it feels to not want your slobbering attention
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what do you think the lines above are for, to be machine read? you are boiling down the essence of showing interest and receiving interest into a 2 minute conversation easy to be cynical but you need to see that this is a superior method to the way so called pick up artists treats their prospects
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you are taking charge of the process as i mentioned in the pro's list i gave corporations like tinder do not have your dating interests at heart, they are basically scam operators to extract the maximum cost for the minimum dates you are proactively giving out the information you want and choosing the person you want in real time trust that your elegance will be rewarded, leave the dumb algorithms to the herd
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the world is your oyster you choose the perfect person based on your own eye your own effort your own elegance tinder is for simpletons who haven't initiative to do things for themselves
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potential dating bio name location/neighbourhood occupation (if student say which major) do you live alone / with family / with friends are you single are you relationship minded / marriage minded / casual minded are you introvert or extrovert name one hobby you do every week do you prefer reading / movies / vid games do you prefer autumn or spring are you politically minded and if so for which party or not interested in it are you religious or are you spiritual or not interested your favourite musical decade: 80s 90s 00s 10s email address or phone number other questions that would be best omitted or best included please suggest below
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potential script for handing out one's dating bio:
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art is ten a penny, artists are one in a million art is valued because of the one who made it we like artists because of their story their humanity their relatability their ingenuity their brand art is about putting your personal slant on something so that it reflects represents brings to mind ... the unique you that you are
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all kinks reveal the trauma pain wounds you are carrying and refusing to acknowledge and heal, not that there is anything wrong with that who would you be and what fun would you have without them
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here's a dozen pros of this method: taking control of your dating destiny, i choose based on energy vibe and their similarity to me not letting love and life pass you by living for the now resisting high pressure techniques to close but letting the prospect decide in their own time cultivating sincerity humility integrity living from complete desperation: if i die tonight i gave this my best shot (this is a positive attribute) my presentation is in my hands alone, both my bio, how i approach and my appearance pure intentions, full honesty will likely beget the same from others it's free one of a kind creative wholesome innocent, all qualities one would like in a prospective partner you don't get a second chance to make a good first impression doing what i fear is the best way to conquer fear trusting the universe to send simply the best
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gettoefl replied to gettoefl's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Tyler Robinson a most luminous landscape, bless you -
if mind is on the go, it is happy if you sit quietly however, there is a chance you may awaken don't ever do that, mind tells you mind will make it an insufferable experience but if you actually sit there, good things are not far off
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it is the new opium of the masses, it is what keeps you fast asleep, never having to think, worst possible thing for body and soul on your death bed entertainment will be the last thing on your mind yet it is what kept you most enslaved while your breathed sweet air unconscious entertainment is outsourcing your relaxation energy to the most nefarious sources take back control
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don't forget to answer the poll question don't be shy then in your reply give your reasons / say why or why not
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i see what you mean ... for me fellow humans are the most astonishing if most inscrutable creation, the only reason worth walking the earth
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guilt is feeling bad for not following rules forcibly imposed on you first wake up and you will understand this then write the rules that work for you
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@Loba you may enjoy this thoughtful if long article showing that even the seemingly irredeemable may be capable of reformation https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/2022/aug/31/cover-life-calipatria/
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your superiority complex is your inability to communicate with those different to you notice i don't say those dumber than you everyone has a ton to say and much to contribute to those with sensitivity curiosity intelligence learn from everyone you encounter is the flex, those deemed unintelligent are often most eager to share and for me the ones from whom i learn most the smarter you are the more you can extract nuggets from the commonplace and the everyman this is the superior human