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shame is useful for anyone unconscious (ie controlled by mind) since it holds one in check from running amok on the other hand if you wake up you can go beyond it and be comfortable sharing your totality warts wounds and all

shame is because (almost) everyone leads a double life and doesn't want another to see our hypocrisy and call us out on it we feel shame since we are hiding our lived reality we fear shame when our lived reality is made public in any way we don't live in wholeness and authenticity and integrity and so shame is a constant companion standing ready to pull down our house of cards what is the antidote? drip with confidence about every aspect of yourself and be articulate in selling that version of yourself to the world delight in being an outlier in a world of people pleasers and approval seekers

seriousness is when you stop letting life push you around, the frivolous person meanwhile goes with the flow and wants to fit in and be accepted wake tf up and start living like it you have fewer breaths than you could possibly imagine to get this shit right

conviction is to figure what's right for me bravery is doing it know me, do me everyday my agenda is to plan me and execute me opposite is to adopt another's vision of course every day we have to follow an agenda and schedule set by others, this is the price of living in society to be brave is to be that one in a million who gives priority and energy and commitment to your path to ignore it provided it is pointed out is cowardice bravery is, what have i done that goes against the grain for my own benefit today? a day without bravery, is a waste of a day

use comparison as a tool for healthy pride in your own unique outstanding journey rather than envy as to where another happens to be ... where they are is actually none of your business except as a source of ideas and perhaps entertainment the only question to ask is, what have i done today to benefit my own evolution ... friends are a yard-stick for what i could be working on today

do it with unremitting totality until you see its utter stupidity the sickening shallowness the unquenchable superficiality ... no human in their right mind wants your saggy pathetic member doing vigorous push ups on their poor sweating trapped vessel just be done with it already here is imo osho's best book on sex: https://oshosearch.net/Convert/Articles_Osho/From_Sex_to_Superconsciousness/Osho-From-Sex-to-Superconsciousness-index.html

let me share my insight, mindfulness equals PM, AM present moment, absent memory dump the memory is key to waking up

came to say the same, ego is enslavement and destiny and god is freedom and reality ego has no choice, it just repeats the past god has every possibility, it is creating the future

investigate what is bad for you through direct experience take the attitude that everything is good for you then exclude those few bad things eg food, i like anything and everything so i eat a variety of foods and this is good for me ... a few currys don't agree with my tummy so i steer clear be open minded flexible adventurous

you value staying alive (needs) and you value a good life (wants)

have 10 books on the go, when you reach point where you need to implement, leave it and go to the other 9 dont come back til you have implemented it ... i have some books i have not touched for a year because of this but will get there at some point

religion is good in as much as people want to connect and hang out; it is about making spirituality practical and down to earth i think the salvation army and the unity church movement are good examples of this in action

sex is necessary for both to know any future potential ... sooner is better but this presupposes both are seeking long term there is casual and there is serious i would say 2-3 dates/meetings to decide whether casual potential or serious potential prior to sex, both should state which they are in it for good wisdom here too: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/125h4e1/do_men_lose_feelings_if_you_both_have_s3x_too/

ai curates the past, i creates the future end of it's seed, i'm fruit ai is my co-pilot in this, what it gives me is its end and that end is my beginning

so sorry to hear all this, that you were manipulated and deceived so blatantly and that your dream life ended in tears you are a beautiful transparent inspiring person and i send you so much love and affection and encouragement to keep forging your best future i hope you know that your light is seen and understood and appreciated @Pure Imagination

suffering is misidentification ... i realize if you suffer i suffer since you are just as much i as me is the absolute is fine with suffering taking place but pursues through me a program of suffering minimization as far as practicable the absolute is at work to reduce my and your suffering i wakes up, me and you should suffer less but it might take time

i call this, not letting myself get in life's way. i drop my agenda and pick up life's agenda namely all i see right now is me, i act in its interests not mine; i maximise the happiness of all not mine when i write on social media, it is not for my growth or benefit rather the infinite is using me as a conduit to love the whole

chat-gpt: As an individual, name 5 things i can do to end such toxicity and encourage healthy gender norms give me 5 slogans that express support of healthy gender norms

seems you got a long way then the wheels fell off i would say go back to the basics of knowing nothing and self love there is no failure there is only feedback, no triggers only teachers truth is, you are all

external happiness is ever more realised to be sham; do we replace it with internal happiness or just keep chasing the dragon

friend of mine just wrote a book you might enjoy, take a look https://lovingawakening.net/ she will answer your questions too if you have some

self love is the extent to which one does the inner work, and even being here can be in practice of self love if done in the right way self love will be recognised in another to the degree they are self-aware, non-judgemental, compassionate, sincere, and humble

as you get more evolved you note that what you are exposed to is overwhelmingly BS ... can't be helped key is, have a finely tuned BS detector, and don't allow yourself to get triggered and or side-tracked remember everyone you meet is operating according to their level of consciousness find a good crowd you can learn from, have pity on the ones who are stuck in the mire no need to confront people or try to change them, you just work more on you and in this way you will create a new planet

you are a good man leo gura though your legendary meltdowns are a bot OTT a lot of the time respect and love

for me it is about calming down and no longer being a main player in the movie ... i am the whole not the part