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path is bad me good me no me all me ... unitive is good me namely there is no bad no duality any longer, one is living one's true self with ego in check for no me all me google bernadette roberts all her books free online

the you in the mirror that you speak of here has nothing to do with the real you ... spirituality is getting to the real you and then getting to the beyond you of course it feels like a trap, god is not done with this dream or perhaps it is

good find thanks!

yes most never change their mind their whole life, indeed they never entertain the prospect that they may be wrong and others right since awakening, i dropped holding opinions i still disagree with people but i don't argue ... disagree means i will explain the flip side of what they believe, like a devil's advocate if they dig in their heels and try to argue, i leave them be

well done and well articulated, you are lovable and loved exactly as you are, no particular primping and preening is necessary, you might change your mind at some point and that is fine too, we need not be a slave to a certain look that in any case is no business of anyone except perhaps a partner and even then we ourselves always have power of veto over their opinion

what i did was i pushed it back an hour every 3 months so i made the change gradually over a year ... i am planning to push it back another hout to 7pm maybe in arpril ... feel like i am using the best hours of the day for what is important to me feel completely fresh and raring to go in the morning, have had my quota of quality sleep and now i hit the ground running nightime is when i feel tired and i use that as a cue to go a bit easier the next day

yes at first it is tricky ... on the other hand i measure the success of my day by how tired i am ... if not tired, i didn't put in the work 8pm-4am is now second nature, asleep within 15 mins of going to bed and awake 15 mins before alarm goes 1st minute of day is lil painful (no lights or heating) but every minute of the day improves ... do hard things first save fun stuff til last another good habit for my sedentary lifestyle: every 2 hours do 5-minute stretch break of 100 push up 100 toes touches 100 sit ups

be you to full beautiful if my cup overfloweth how can i not but unload my fragrance to my environs ... and all is therein beautiful

bernadette roberts:

all those things are part of exercise - i do this 7 days a week, it's the lifestyle i enjoy - there is flexibility as i wish since i am accountable only to me - i may take 2 or 3 days a month where i am wholly social and live per another's schedule - am not a slave to it, it is just what works for me

game changer for me was to get to bed at 8pm every night ... from there i divide the day into 12 6 3 2 1 hour blocks 12 is sleep meditation yoga 6 is work 3 is exercise 2 is entertainment 1 is review / plan also doing the 16:8 intermittent fasting helps to use energy effectively

useless to leo* there are as many paths as there are people i will not be deterred by anything another says, i am glad of any pointer but i determine what works for me there is no truth outside only inside

ok if you need the outside to assist you in your search for self love, i am not the person to ask

meditation is the only self love since it fixes one in one's true nature the world and the mind will tell you that meditation is wasteful and unproductive, they say this because they want you to stay unbalanced and ungrounded, they have a vested interest to keep you fast asleep you have an astonishing treasure within, it is your birthright to discover it and with it you gain all the mysteries of the outside world you incarnated to earth for you to discover you to the max no other reason this is what self love means and until you love you, you are wholly incapable of loving another

they're the healthy ones i'm the sick one existence made everything perfect in fact what's out there stems from what's in here my vision somehow got tainted i got work to do when i am no longer triggered the medication (meditation) is working

good litmus test is will i date a transsexual

live day to day, die every night, if you wake up enjoy the day and do the same again is there any problem preventing a perfect day today

am straight but love dudes more and more as i get awake, i like the word bisensual for me, and i have overcome all the homophobia i used to have

reflect on this perspective: there isn't lies there is only the extent to which one affords access to one's inner world people merit access or are denied access many deserve to and will be given undistorted access i assert that no one by virtue of being human is accorded rights to another's inner world should you demand truth one denies your right to such and will not be responsible for any account you receive one's truth is dangerous to many so one refuses to divulge and many are not ready for or not suitable for one's truth and many will use one's truth for bad purposes perhaps to even hurt abuse or destroy one of course if someone asks one is obliged to explain their views on this do not pour out your depths to every tom dick and harry who wants it truth is earned over time

happiness is duality truth is non-duality sat chit ananda is truth consciousness happiness namely consciousness is halfway to destroying duality and getting truth

spirituality is me religion is we namely always have dm's on

does god have capacity for both or not?

same way you can click your fingers on your left hand and right hand at the same time or one after the other, or when i speak you hear

fear is f-eel e-verything a r-isk on my deathbed it is the only thing asked of me, what risks have i taken

mind IS change god is chill which one are you