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Thank you! That is just the kind of answer I wanted. Point made, you are free to go now.

Are you trying to use some NLP confusion mind tricks on me? If thoughts are also isness, it leaves as back to square one: What is an isness?

How did you reach that conclusion? I haven't noticed the difference, please elaborate... What is the difference between happening as an isness and happening as a thought?

How?

Your honor, I did not steal the chicken! I can prove it. My proof is because I say it is so.

Lol! You haven't answered or directly responded to anything I've said about solipsism, proof and disproof. What is this wild detour you are taking now? Can you prove that you exist?

That is not what I am saying. You are taking a very specific thing I am saying, which is axioms cannot be proved or dis-proven and blowing it all up as "nothing can be said about anything" !! Not sure what you're smoking, but I'd like to try a puff or two.

Define Isness.

@Javfly33 I don't have any problem with your beliefs, if that's what you present them as. Proof on the other hand... is a tricky concept. I'd say it is only applicable in our "3D time-space material" world. A scientific term. @Someone here how to disprove Solipsism ? how to disprove Islam ? how to disprove Hinduism ? how to disprove Christianity ? how to disprove Buddhism ? how to disprove Atheism ? how to disprove Judaism ? Just get over it already, there is nothing special about your choice of religion, insofar as proof is concerned.

Watch out for the aliens after the breakthrough. They've been known to administer some further probing.

So now there is a You and a universe? Why is the "You" conspiring against the "universe"? And where is the love in all this?

Here's another you cannot prove or even disprove: that you are existing at home when the rock is by the river. That word: prove Its a funny word, once you start really thinking about it. It points to a logical/mental process, that requires something else to begin. An axiom, which is an unprovable, "self evident truth". When solipsism says the only person whose existence you can prove is your own, the axiom is that you can somehow prove your own existence. Can you really? So how can you disprove something you cannot prove in the first place? Its like asking "how do I unfuck the sky?" How do you even fuck the sky?

Just curious - how do you prove or disprove your own sentience to yourself?

You are overthinking this. Your choice is between a little pain now or much more emotional and possibly physical pain later. Yes, the rush is addictive, and he is such a bad boy, and you can fix him if only you... Just run away already.

How do you do this... by setting your intentions?

Its a deduction, not an assumption. If more relevant information ever becomes available, then I'll change it. We all assume stuff. Like for example: assuming a flirty "friend" knows about your boyfriend assuming a "friend" sees all your social media posts assuming a "friend" came to a conclusion assuming a "friend" maybe had different story in his head assuming a "friend" had "hidden motives" assuming there is only one side to a story I'm assuming you meant "he knew everything", the phrasing kind of implies he just recently got the memo after the fallout with your "friend". All these assumptions! Assuming you're not just here to bash your ex "friend", atleast take this

Option 1: continue consciousness work Option 2: go back into the matrix and do anything to deceive myself again (with help of drinking alcohol, junk food ) ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Option 3: Realize you are facing a false dilemma. Someone who can afford to spend 5 years full-time exclusively practicing spiritual growth has hundreds of other options that 99% of humanity can only dream of. Use your imagination.

@Mirko Ask yourself what is the difference between being God and being human. Then ask yourself which are you now. I believe your current pain and suffering stems from your answer to those questions. May you keep growing in love, and learn to accept and love yourself just as you are, and learn to find peace and happiness in the usual "egoistic", "stupid", "useless shit" human being get upto. Don't go chasing waterfalls Please stick to the rivers and the lakes that you're used to I know that you're gonna have it your way or nothing at all But I think you're moving too fast Don't go chasing waterfalls Please stick to the human lifetime you were born into I know that you want to be God and transcend all this shit right now But I think you're moving too fast

Great perspective.

Neediness does not get fixed by seeking validation from others. Not everyone who is married is confident or even worked for it. Needy people will find their matching needy partners to settle down with, just like confident people will match with those on their level.

Don't be. There is no rule that says you have to understand everything.

Yes. They were both not being honest about their intentions. For me all I need is "had a boyfriend for 8 months, never once mentioned him to my other flirty friend". If you need more information and facts about the situation, that's just you. Ask her for those, instead of trying to play her lawyer. She does not need one. small. smaller. smallest. big, bigger. biggest. important. more important. overrated. kapish?

Sex is important. Sex is overrated. That's not a contradiction, think about it. Especially when it is used as some kind of goalpost on when to start acting with integrity. Just treat people like you'd like to be treated, regardless of the sex. She said she has a boyfriend. She thought her male friend already knew about her boyfriend. Do you really need any more information than that? If you think the only man a woman should be honest with is her husband and/or someone she is having sex with, I think sooner or later, that husbands going to be a very disappointed, betrayed man.

So sleazy means to soon? Got it.

Do you consider sleeping with someone the relationship equivalent of signing your signature on a contract? I don't. The sexual act is overrated in my opinion. If two people decide to be in a committed relationship, it is always problematic if a third other is secretly in the picture, regardless of whether they are having sex or not. You should always be honest with the people you care about, whether you're having sex with them or not.