Jacob Morres

@Federico del pueblo confidence and a career i think (I'm in between careers rn)

@Vision I found it on Facebook

anyone got visual examples of good banter by any chance i never banter (at least i think i dont). i dont understand the point of it lol is it just to show you like each other?

I posted this once in a fb group for life coaches and had a few dozen ppl comment on the thread

@trenton regarding your sister - one tip i would say is to watch for her projections my sister does say similar things about me which i find very interesting. i wonder if it's some social conditioning for woman or something regarding her calling you ungrateful - i find those statements very weird. when those said to me - i find that really not the right perspective - because i was actually grateful for certain things. it's really a misrepresentation of your situation - she is lack understanding and compassion for your position and actually unknowing of your perspective. which further makes me think it's a projection. to me all judgements are solved by holistic thinking. when you have deeper understanding, it dissolves the judgement and replaces it with accurate understanding. irregardless you dont deserve to be attacked by your sister and im sorry for that. maybe you can practice some non violent communication with her, or set some boundaries if you find it too bad.

i think you're using the word integral wrong. integrous might be better

@aurum i think you can do it simultaneously while integrating your shadow. like you dont see the lack of integrous acts as evil, but as human You can bring compassion and understanding to the parts of you that haven't been integrous

@hyruga I think I'd keep that under mindset habits. Visualization + affirmations when done well include desire and alignment @Preety_India to integrate that insight you'd need to do this work. success principles + integrating insight are correlated

I think these are the two biggest buckets that differentiate between success and the lack of it I think there's not much that seperates people inherently from success/the lack of it. there's a lot of tangible things in our control that drastically increases our chances of success So to elaborate by habits I mean: Your health habits, your mindset habits, and your action habits Health habits = nutrition/exercise/sleep/relationship/meditation/nature Mindset habits = inner belief system, things you think and visualize Actions = field related actions that make you successful (so a basketball player will have a good shooting form habit, mixing up moves habit etc. good fundamentals) Then by your environment I think: people you hang around = the people you hang around, their habits, thoughts, mindset, actions will rub off onto you information = so the books/courses/podcasts consumed will also rub off into you as well yeah i think that's a great overview of success in a nutshell. just my pov

@IAmReallyImportant regarding your environment i gotta agree and disagree. i think that visualizations + affirmations are incredibly critical but you when combine that with a good environment, that can really be a massive catalyst + key. also i have to refine this document, it's a bit sloppy

not striking when the iron was hot for my business. i was very early to a market and the market ended up getting very saturated and competitive. missed out on a ton of potential and time. lesson learned

damn that's a great nutshell formula i definitetely dont think it's either/or so it's good that this includes nuance

@Leo Gura homeless?? what am I doing with my life ??? But wait, also what game did u run to make her think u were homeless??

the advice trap by michael stainer

I noticed these models were getting a ton of attention in the past years

???????????? @Ash55 same lmaoooo

@Ulax xDDD you know it

I have the same thing but with life coaching

https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/SeeHearFeelIntroduction_ver1.8.pdf Comprehensive and practical

you were pretty clear haha. but its all good happy youve grown ?

What happened? Didn't you used to insult guys like that

You can definietely find therapists that fit these needs Just a thought but maybe a therapist that has training in life coaching. Especially since your goal you said to self actualize I'd suggest to read people's bios and get a sense of people's style and see if it's a fit (through reading bios, speaking with them (consultation), or doing a session)

Also I just realized that mindfulness is a great tool you can use. When you are mindful and in the moment, such thoughts just get observed in the present moment rather than identified with (therefore reducing the suffering that it causes from them) https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/SeeHearFeelIntroduction_ver1.8.pdf I'm using shinzen young's technique for the time being

?? something something correlation =/= causation

@Raze results r skewed bcuz of the uneven #s lol. If it was even # of ppl both sides the results I'd wager be equivalent