Princess Arabia

Being easy on your own without a substance is different than being easy because of a substance. Saying drunk women are easy is attacking the women, saying it's easier to get a drunk woman in bed is attacking the substance. There is no blame either way it's just the perspective is being looked at from different angles.

This is the point right here that men don't understand. For a man and a woman, attention is different.

I was making a point. The point was that women want to sleep with who they want to sleep with. A man may want to sleep with a woman who doesn't want to sleep with him and if he's a "date raper", he might resort to that to get to sleep with her. Women who are drinking or even drunk may sleep with guys they wouldn't normally sleep with if they were sober. I never said drunk women were easy but it's easier to sleep with a drunk woman - there's a difference.

I didn't say that.

@Hojo

Lot of interpretations there. I never said MEN invented date rape. I said date rape was invented. Women are less inhibited when they are drinking, yes and some women are easier to get in the bed if drunk. Everyone knows that and it's no secret.

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There was a misunderstanding there. You assume I meant that that was his personality and that nothing created that and that's who he is and for no reason. No. There are circumstances that created that, but the message I was trying to put across wasn't about why date rapers are born or what makes up their psyche. Your suggestion was that men date rape because women don't give up sex easily and that's the issue we are commenting on.

Yes, thank you for being open about that and not denying it. It was quite obvious to me before you even said it. There's a certain energy to things and can even be felt via computer through words and implications. You say "through God" and that's very uplifting for you and inspiring and sometimes the best bet. However, to me, it's still important to try and understand what we're dealing with here in life so bitterness doesn't creep in because it only poisons us, not the other person. Aligning ourselves with what's real and true will surpass any worldly endeavors and will allow for better understanding of what is. For me, it's also important, but also to try and understand why things are the way they are. Not for existential matters but for worldly matters. As a woman, I could have easily went down the bitterness trail for men because it was too much about sex and physicality with them and not enough of who I am as a person. Now, I don't even care about that because I understand it and what we don't understand, we judge and call the enemy. Men aren't the enemy, ignorance is, and that goes for both genders. I'm still trying to understand men but just for understanding sake and it's just my nature. God alone, won't solve this challenge, love will. Hate turns to love when applied properly and is used to go within to understand where the root is. Bitterness stems from giving up and not willing to transform the hate into a positive. We need to understand that people are at different stages, survival strategies are in play, delusion is at the root and ignorance of our own constructs and other's plays a big role. What has helped me is the recognition that there are programs at play and what goes in is what comes out and that different programs are running for different people. Not everyone is at the same level and we all have different experiences, thoughts and beliefs running the show. Recognizing this helps with empathy and compassion but still keeping a firm grip on our own sense of individuality but realizing what the truth of it all is. This helps with feelings of contentment and pushes all the hatred and bitterness aside. Men and women are different in their make up both biologically and psychologically and are treated differently as children, so the program runs deep. It is up to us to understand this and take the time to understand this if we're feeling any ounce of bitterness and hatred creeping in and nit to let it be a part of the programming and embed itself into our psyche.

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It's simply the Absolute appearing as all that. No one is really self-deceived because there's no one. This is already liberation and freedom. So let's just get back to the apparent self-deception of it all where we're all thinking we're a separate human being that can be deceived by the concept of non-duality. There is no magnificent place to get to and no exotic awakening Bangs with blue lights and magic wands. Awakening and enlightenment is right here right now and this is all there is. Any story of an experience is just that - a story and an experience. Any deeper awakenings is just that deeper awakenings. You will still end up on earth going to sleep and waking up to go to work and parties and having sex and breaking up with your girlfriend and taking a dump and going to college and trying to ground yourself in the groundless ground because you think you're a somebody that can get somewhere and you don't want to fly there but take your time and awaken in 3months to tell about your story. There's no existential difference between you and the bumb on the street who knows nothing about this shit; in fact there is, he's less neurotic and just needs a piece of bread and a cold beer to get him through the next day while he sits on the street corner and watch sexy girls go by and go jerk off later under the bridge with his blanket and wake up to another cold beer he begged $2 for. He's not searching for happiness and enlightenment and suffering his awakenings that he can't unsee to now want more awakenings by taking drugs to piss himself. He just wants a sandwich and a beer to be alright until he ends up in the same place we'll all end up - in the grave. How many bumbs you see out there crying how they're suffering and can't get girls or hate their lives or worried about concepts, experiences, thoughts and desires. They just are and are apparently living from moment to moment and not suffering their existence but maybe only of hunger. A drunk is always drunk. A neurotic is always neurotic.

There are healthy versions of pizza. Maybe made with cauliflower instead of white flour, all veggies, homemade healthy marinara sauce etc. No cheese or even nut cheese. So that question is vague. Eating traditional pizza everyday isn't a good idea to maintaining one's health, no.

Only if you're trying to lose weight or if you're eating a lot of junk food. Not all fats are equal and some are beneficial. It's best to just watch the types of food you're eating; and if it's a balanced diet with mostly whole foods, calorie counting would not be necessary then.

I just saw this comment. Everytime there's a discussion with you about how I feel about what we're discussing and my pov's every time you use the word gaslight. Also I'm not enraged. I'm sitting on my couch typing with a smile on my face enjoying my evening. It will take a lot and I mean a lot more than a discussion of this nature to outrage me. Your hatred for women shows every time we speak on these issues. It's obvious. I should just stick to spiritual conversations with you or everything else other than relationships and sex. It always ends badly and usually from no animosity on my part towards you. The end.

I said subconsciously. I may want to eat but I can still hate food. People eat and throw up. It's a sickness called bulimia I believe. Just because the body craves sex, doesn't mean the mind loves women.

Doesn't dispute what I've said. Infact, the phrase CONSIDER THEMSELVES confirms it's a self fulfilling sabotage whatever that is. Nothing is as it seems. One has to look at the underlying factors to really see what's going on. Many incels are handsome and attractive and can attract women, they're just involuntarily repelling them without realizing it and then blame themselves and women for their voluntary sexless nature. If they really wanted to, loved women, liked being around them, they wouldn't find it so hard. The hate and dislike came before the sexless reality. Some guys will not like to hear this, but it's the same reason how they're able to get other things accomplished in their lives - because they wanted it badly enough. I can tell you have a problem with women, the way you speak about them and your narrative all the time. You dislike women, I fact, you've said to me before they're only good for one thing. That will repel women and that's probably the same kind of attitude these incels have and that's why they subconsciously don't really want to have sex with women. That's enough from me on the topic. Don't need to awaken any haters.

Not necessarily. It's physiological and subconscious. They don't want to have sex with women and are acting put their anger towards women by making sure they self-sabotage themselves into not getting the sex. They are rebelling.

@HojoDon't be fooled. A lot of incels really aren't looking to have sex with women, they're looking not to because they were already angry with women and that's why they're no having it.

Lol. I'm done.

Yes but I could have went into reasons why he might have been a date raper. Wasn't the focus of the discussion that's why I didn't. I didn't mean it spawned from nowhere, but that it wasn't be cause women didn't give it up easily. Lots of men have hard time with sex from women and they don't become date rapers,

I never said it just spawned out of nowhere but you're implying that it's because women don't give up sex easily and it's not. STOP BLAMING WOMEN FOR MEN'S SEXUAL CRIMES or insinuating such.

It's OK. I don't need to reverse anything. They're not that complicated as I'm the one dealing with them, have dealt with them and will deal with them on a sexual level both personally and professionally. I'm not saying I know men what I'm saying is I'm the one dealing with them on an intimate level, unless you're gay, you're not. You can tell me about men but I can tell you what it's like to interract with them. It's like direct experience VS intellectually knowing.

Not all women that want casual sex is looking for serious relationship. Those are two different things for a woman. She can have casual sex too. The player might touch those emotions easier than the more serious type guy for casual sex. That's why they usually get laid more easily. Players are having sex with women who don't care for serious relationships most of the time.

That's when she's looking for marriage or long-term. For interest in casual sex, women aren't thinking that far; all that's needed is for a particular emotion to be felt. Just as music can do that for some, it's the same way. Men's misunderstanding is thinking all women need to feel love or have some logical explanation as to why she should sleep with him. No. It's simpler than that, it's most men don't touch that emotional spot "on the spot" like women do for men with their looks. A man's best bet at getting laid is not to chase women but to attract them.

Men put it as "getting sex"; for women, it's "having sex". Figure out why that difference is there and that'll answer (somewhat) how the sexes view sex.