Princess Arabia

Yes, this is just you and your experiences. Your feelings and reactions. Lots of men out there can't get rid of some women fast enough and are having women begging to be with them. This is you and yours, not all men go through this, not even the majority. Women go through these things too, you know.

Do you see how quickly I was able to bring up your past post. All I had to do was type in certain key words and walla. Trauma works the same way. All I had to do was say some key words to you to bring up the memory. They also hit worse because I'm a female. Your memory bank is infested with these images. I suggest you start to try and see things differently instead of seeing them how you're used to. That's a start, but depending on how deep the wounds are, it might take more than that.

"Some women do like us and will like us in the future", screams of hurt and resentment. No one says these things out of nowhere. These kinds of statements are borne out of a hurt and traumatized person. Trauma doesn't just express itself in aggressive obvious way, it can be subtle and unsuspecting. Life has traumatized me too, so don't think I'm pointing a finger and singling you out. It's just in different ways and I've internalized it, but I know it's there. Certain fears arise as an effect.

Every post is different, but it's still insinuating hurt, hurt from women. You haven't healed and i suggest you not give men advice on the topic until you do because it will be coming from a hurt place. Your post screams of being hurt not giving healthy advice.

Here's one, and that's just the beginning. Don't make me, Rishabh.

Yes, about women.

@Rishabh RYou've had traumatic experiences with women in the past. Your posts have said so yourself. Don't make me go dig them up. I can.

They aren't female. They don't represent to you what your trauma is about.

I'll be a bit more sensitive and try not to stir up any unwanted feelings. It's just I'm just responding to you and you're taking my responses personally and they are bringing up past images in you. You're very hurt and i need to understand that from what I know of you and your past posts. I'll be more sensitive from now on to this.

Trauma

I was responding to the ALL MEN part. Now, you're telling me off about how I don't know you and what limited worksheet you concocted up. Drawing conclusions about life leads to closed-mindedness and not much room for growth or for other perspectives.

You're worried if women like you. Does that particular female like you. Do you like yourself. Why be so general about the whole thing. All it shows is trauma just like another comment suggested. This post reminds me of a phobia - an irrational fear.

Shows you how no one exists but you in your world. The clues are everywhere. I won't argue with you.

Slapping happened. Feelings happened. Now let's get back to the dream.

There is only seeing happening. There is no moment. Moment implies another moment, then another, then another. No such thing as one moment. The you is a dream. There is no you. So, therefore, the moment is you is incorrect. There is no time, so there can't be a moment.

You didn't say in your post other struggling males. You said ALL MALES. DIDN'T YOU!!!

This post appeared on my screen. Those words appeared on my screen in question format. A notification appeared on my screen that someone quoted me in another thread. That car appeared in my driveway. That bird appeared in my view.

No, the idea would be what the I says about what's appearing. All there is, is appearances. There's nothing but appearances. Show me something that didn't appear. That's not an idea.

What is. There's no I so what is left is whatever appears. Without the rhetoric, stories, ideas, interpretations from the I.

Exactly. Like I've stated before, most posts like these are trauma based. Not only like these, either, but this one is an example of one.

No, that you need to face. At least say "some" to tone it down a bit. All men is a bit delusional, don't ya think.

Your title alone says it all. Get over yourself. You can't because your life is only about you. That's the dilemma. All the other millions of men getting married, fell in love or living with loving partners in relationships and having a family doesn't exist in your world. Totally invisible to you. Life's all about me, me, me. What's up with this "us". Surely not speaking to the men with wives or sexing down the town and having women flock to them like birds or in relationships.

The only illusion is you thinking there's a you that's an illusion. The only illusion is the I.

Why do you think we have senses. To try and make sense of the non-sense. How can life or reality or whatever make sense on it's own to us. Think about it. All these billions of different perceptions, all these subject matters, all the different beliefs, dreams, thoughts, ideas, opinions, different survival strategies, biases, desires....all that...how could you fit that into something that makes sense all on it's own. It needs help and that's where you come in. Make it make sense for you and your dreamt up made-up world. Take away all your stories and your life/world is utter chaos and insanity, but only for you and not life itself. Life is fine on it's own. It doesn't need to make sense for itself - so to speak. It needs to make sense for you. That's where the brain's abstractions and senses and all that comes in. Welcome to your world of sense making. Without it you'd be nothing. Ever seen a brain-dead person. Ever heard the term "sense-making". Note: This is just me trying to make sense of the non-sense. These aren't facts or truths. Nothing is.

So, your post is an illusion and your words is an illusion since the poster is an illusion anyway. Is that it.