Princess Arabia

Cokehead, pothead, winohead, sexhead, shopping head, cigarette head, workaholichead, crackhead, ecstasypillhead, actualizedforumhead, all the same distractraction head from going withinhead.

I believe.it does. Sexual attraction just happens, as with everything else depending on our state of consciousness I think. My attractor factor changed the older I got.

Thanks for sharing

Try hitting on every girl you see is desensitizing also. I can always tell when a guy hits on me that he does it to every girl or a lot. Never appealed to me. Females can sense this. Desensitizing yourself from negative emotions will only hurt you in the end. Unprocessed emotions gets stored in the body and can be expressed as outward anger or illness or other negative expressions. Learning to feel them fully and letting go of them will allow for easier and better ways to deal with them in the future while allowing more baggage to flow through and removing blockages from the nervous system. IOW, the Universe will find it easier to live life through you without resistance.

And then if she dumps him, he's back to square one. Going outside yourself for fulfillment is not the answer. (were all guilty of this, or most of us, even myself) just saying. Working on himself on the inside while trying to find a gf is a better solution.

Why are we limiting ourselves with labels. These are just labels. Just be.

We're always making assumptions about ourselves and others. Nothing is set in concrete in the 3D and our assumptions are building blocks to help shape the reality we want to experience. We are doing this consciously or not. So why not assume things you want to see, but you have to rest firmly in that assumption. We are creating our lives based on our beliefs and assumptions. Everything is imaginary. We are imagining our lives away. Things will formulate around you to fit into your bubble and you will attract or repel circumstances that are similar o the frequency you're vibrating on. Where you put your attention is where you put your energy so if you're focused on negativity, you are attracting more things in your life that will match that frequency. Try to study the Universal law of Assumption and you will understand this in more depth. It's a work in progress so take it easy on yourself.

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No one can tell you what you are assuming about yourself, only you can know that. The fact you are asking should tell you something. Your self-concept and assumptions you have about yourself can determine how people act towards you. Try developing that. Try seeing yourself how you would like others to see you. Try giving yourself the love you'd like to receive. Understand that people who bully you are just projecting their own insecurities unto you. You are living more in the past and future and you are just re-traumatizing yourself over and over again by thinking about the bad experiences you had with girls. There is only one moment and each time an event is remembered, it is being re-created. When one event is being remembered the other is not. Time is only the now. An event only exists when you remember it. Start to imagine wonderful times with girls, imagine you having lots of success with women and see yourself as worthy of love. Don't see it as a rejection but as an opportunity for another door to open. You have to give to yourself what you feel you are lacking because giving is receiving.

My monkey mind is thinking hard on this one

Cause you know you'll be hurting yourself.

Why? Hurt me

We are all God including you. So, you as God, can answer.

You are already dead

Ever smelt a metaphysical fart

I guess for something to exist it has to appear out of something; and since God is everything, it has nothing to appear out of because if it was to appear out of something it would also be that something. Is that right

Which one

I can't stop laughing. You gave the term "monkey mind" a whole new meaning. Lmao

You will be infinitely trying to understand the infinite.

Aww, that's so sweet of you to acknowledge this. It shows bravery and compassion. I agree that all three have relevant insights and display wisdom in their own unique ways. Don't look at it as anyone's fault, but maybe differences of opinions and/or perspectives. As long as we agree to disagree in a respectful manner, no need to find fault or blame because that's the reason we have forums like these...to share our perspectives and opinions with like-minded people. Kudos to you. Now, lets start a fight so we can make up and apologize. Lol

Athletics smoke. Smokers after leaving the gym can grab a cigarette. How does that explain this theory.

Sensations and a feeling of lack are different. Feeling thirsty is a sensation of the body. The body isn't saying it is lacking water it is feeling the sensation of thirst.

These are the kinds of questions that will lead you to enlightenment. Keep asking. The answers will reveal themselves to you. Evidence of God is all around you. Miracles happening are all around you. Gods will is not your egoic will so God does not see working the ass off to accomplish material things a goal. God is just experiencing itself as Infinity and every part of Reality is also God. When you realize that nothing in life will ever permanently satisfy you, you will start to go within and return home to Source where you truly reside and where fulfillment is your natural state of being. No one would ever awaken if life was always comfortable with no challenges. Most people are comfortable in their misery and pain and have come to accept it as LIFE. Thats why this awakening thing is so rare. Few existential questions are being asked. I asked questions, the right kind of questions, and they are slowly being answered. By me. Letting go of the self is a start. Surrendering to life and realizing there's something big at play here is also essential for your realization. Move your hand up and down. Thats evidence of God. God's energy flowing through you. Leave the vacuum on the floor and it does nothing. Plug it in and now its potential begins to actualize then you move it and it does its job. Your body the same thing. Its plugged into God's energy. You are pure potential waiting to ripen into your full being as God. The problem stems from our beliefs and attachments to the thoughts that come in and our assumptions about ourselves and life. We believe our thoughts to be ours and we sometimes act upon them . Thoughts=beliefs=actions=experience. We label things as being dumb, crazy and mentally ill, but its just energy. Like the circuit breaker breaking or malfunctioning due to whatever the source of that. Thats what a stroke is. Its like a malfunction in the circuit. God is living life through you and why it can seem so tortuous and cruel to you is because, since you are God and God is energy the energy that's flowing through you has been "disturbed" or has malfunctioned in some way and you need to get it back in alignment using tools such as thoughts and beliefs. Thats how powerful you are. To me, tho, enlightenment is not something you become or gain, its the recognition of realizing what you are not. All of it. Recognition that you are no-thing and everything simultaneously. Like a wave recognizing it cannot stand on its own without the ocean and that it is the entire ocean.

From what I understand, our thoughts are not our own and we receive them from the etheric based on our vibration and the state of consciousness we're in. Doing psychedelics (don't know, never done them) might put you in a state where those thoughts match that particular frequency you're vibrating at. There are forces at play and they get energized and feed on these thought patterns; and being in an altered state may induce suicidal thoughts in someone in a particular mental state upon doing psychedelics. I also understand that we can receive thoughts based on ancestral background. Someone in the ancestral family probably committed suicide and you are receiving these thoughts through that invisible chain. They might not be your own but from the superconscious mind floating around in the etheric space and they come to you because of the state you're in. I don't know, its just something to think about and ponder upon and I would love to hear from anyone who is knowledgeable about thoughts and their origin to hear another perspective.

You're probably one of the few guys here getting anywhere with females with your type of mindset. You pretty much understand the dynamic.