Princess Arabia

Can you please quote me where I was being dismissive of the initial video posted. And not where Startruck made the comment about if you consume porn you're contributing to sex-trafficking where I said were all one and everything and everybody is contributing to something or another. I need to see where I was being dismissive of the young lady in the video and her story. Please do. Maybe I'm missing something, so I can apologize for it.

That's exactly what I did earlier and you opposed to it saying I wasn't making any sense. It seems as if you're not seeing your own biases and contradictions.

How can I make a relevant point without including my own direct experience if I'm trying to make a point about my own experience in the matter. I made no such claim about being triggered. I might have said I get tired of the same old misconceptions, which is a far cry from being triggered. It is also OK to veer a little bit off the purpose of the video if it's still related to the subject. It beats talking about coffee.

I see I have to explain everything to you. You state that people should understand the consequences that come with porn watching in respect to the participants being willing or not, and how, before engaging into such practices, one should think twice before doing so because of the sex-trafficking that's involved. That's a whole lotta deep thinking one has to do if they get horny in the moment and have to think about before making the decision to get off on porn.

You seem to be more personally involved with your rhetoric than I am. I'm just simply clarifying some misconceptions about the industry. There are no lions and tigers in my space at the moment I'm just typing on a computer screen. I save my flight or fights for things that are immediately relevant to my survival, other than when someone scares the shit outta me.

I was giving you a courtesy lesson, then you apologized for not being a deep thinker that's why you are being rude and I said courtesy doesn't require deep thinking and since the topic is about thinking twice before watching porn I said porn watching requires deep thinking. Understand now.

Lol..it went from sex-trafficking to drinking coffee

Thank you for delving deep into this issue. Too many people have given up their authority to the slave owners.

Courtesy doesn't require deep thinking only your decision to view porn.

Are you aware you can make your point without attacking someone's character or coming across so defensive and crude. Everyone is entitled to their opinions and so do you but attacking someone because you feel attacked doesn't make you any better, infact, you're just perpetrating the same cause you're so adamantly defending.

You don't even know that for sure. Leo doesn't give a shit (excuse the pun) and neither should we.

I don't want to get into the details here (I don't mind, because I'm open-minded and everyone in my personal life already knows what I do) but for the sake of it not being the place for that kind of talk) Ill try to answer in the order it was asked. I don't combine high consciousness with anything as it's who I am now. I consider a job a job. I don't let my job define me. It is not who I am. I don't know what you mean by honest with yourself. It's like you want me to lie that I'm being sex-trafficked or have been traumatized. I'm not saying it doesn't come with a price but it's not that way with me. The industry is very broad based. There are different ways to make money in the industry and your clientele can vary from scumbags to highly respectable people. Just so you understand the adult industry doesn't just cater to guys who can't get girls, most guys who come to the industry already have wives/gfs and are exploring. I find a lot of single guys will go to stripclubs and the ones who are already hooked go to the ones that are more private like massage parlors, or escorts or working girls. There are lots of lawyers, doctors, judges, business owners, politicians, police officers, firemen, wealthy people and also on the other end of the scale that patronize this field, not just stnky-asses who can't get girls. That's another stigma and misunderstanding. There are plenty of misunderstandings in this field. I'm not saying it's all peachy deachy, but what is in life. It's what you make it. Women and couples also patronize this field. I have not had intercourse yet this year, yet I'm a sex worker. That's a little bit of too much information but I don't care, I'm trying to make a point and I'm not ashamed of what I do. At least it's out there for the world to see, so if I decide to start a YT channel on something Spiritual or cooking no one can call me out in the comment section because it's already old news. Every worker is different and every situation is different. I'm neither proud nor ashamed of what I do, it just is.

Lmao

Sometimes I don't even bother, because I'm aware I'm a deep thinker and some people have problems seeing the bigger picture, and also I could be wrong, so rather than debate certain things I just let it be.

You just wanna know too.? but being on this forum for so long, he should have known the answer to atleast the kids part. Anyway I'm leaving this subject alone. Let Leo deal with it.

Because I'm not partial and this is why I CAN comment on the topic. I don't know what comment i made why you're saying this other than not every porn star has been trafficked and that porn watchers should not be guilted because they watch porn. There's a difference between being aware of something and doing something to deliberately contributing to something. I'm not really in the porn industry, meaning on-screen but I used to be a stripper for 5yrs and I'm an escort at the moment and I have not been trafficked or forced to do anything. I'm just tired of the stigma related to girls in this field and how we're so traumatized and/or have been trafficked.

You're right.

Well this thread is about the video, which I took the time to watch before commenting and not just throwing some random comment out there bashing people without knowing the circumstances first.

Did you watch the whole interview?

Are you serious. Do you have a gf? Children? Where do you live? Why is this necessary on a Spiritual Forum. If you want to tell us your personal business, do so, if not then others' don't have to. Especially making a separate, individual thread about it.

You're right that's why I'm not in that field someone more capable is. Everything is not for everyone.

Trying not to step on ants will drive you insane. lol. But more to my point. If I want to address sex-trafficking, I wouldn't make people who consume porn feel guilty about it. Porn is a very wide topic and doesn't necessarily involve sex-trafficking. Be direct, address it from the root cause. Let's work our way up. Maybe start with parenting, relationships, schooling, I don't know. Sex trafficking is a major problem, but why is that, it's not because people are watching porn, its much bigger than that. There are ways to solve societal problems other than guilting people. Start with the root and work your way up.

No, I was responding to the statement, "if you consume porn, you contribute to this culture". Just being here makes you a contribution to everything because we are all one. So let's address the issue without saying we are contributing to something separate because there is no separation. The statement is implying if you don't consume porn, you are immune, My above statement was a bit of an exaggeration, but the point is more important.

There's a difference between being fearful and being cautious.

I will watch then give my take after.