Princess Arabia

I wouldn't take it as far as mental illness. A lot of people are this way, maybe in a different context. It's just not that obvious or realized because some people don't receive genuine love from their partners, just conditional, so it's rewarding in that way because both needs are being met. If most were experiencing your situation they would probably withdraw too, like we do with God.

If you're born then you must die. You only transform.

I don't think it's as extreme as that. Dogs hump all the time, doesn't mean they want to have sex with you. I didnt really jerk her off, I just rubbed her there and she was loving it till I felt something wet, I was like eww, then she started cleaning herself. She loves to be slapped too but only on certain parts of her body like the rear side and only if I'm talking to her in a high pitched sweet voice. My other cat that died liked the slapping too, not hurtful, of course. There are even videos on YT of cats that like to be slapped. I think cats are freaks or maybe i'm the freak.

I'm going to call Animal Control, Peta and the SPCA. Lol

I jerked my cat off a couple of times and she loved it. Please don't call the animal control or Peta or the SPCA.

As long as it's not to fill a void, travelling can be a good and rewarding experience. Give it a shot. You'll learn a thing or two, which is always a good thing. But don't let us choose for you, you decide even tho, suggestions and opinions can also be eye-opening. In the end, it's your decision.

Maybe you don't feel deserving of her love or maybe you like challenges and she's not a challenge. Maybe.

There. Now I have to figure out the multiple, but I'll figure it out, Leave it up to Leo to make things complicated/ easy, never in the middle. He's an extremist.

Just left click and drag highlight the part of the text you want to quot Finally, thank you. I just have to not highlight my own quote/post/comment. But that was easy to do.

I was just being idiotic. Don't mind me.

And girls are here to say "fuck them".?

Can you pee on demand. Answer that and you get your answer. Cause and effect.

I'm lost. Help

I'm speaking about God the creator here. God is greater than it's creation but it is also one with it. God creates by being. It doesn't create and then says, look what I've created now I'm responsible for it, I'm afraid of it, what can I do with it. God is it. It doesn't have authority over it. It IS it. God is only lost in it's dream, like you are. Every part of God contains the whole of God because the Universe is holographic.

I did. I assumed there were idiots on this forum and i was right.

It's a good thing I didn't have to quote a long ass quote here. This one is too laughable.

Hit the "show replies" button after you make a post. At the top right-hand corner of a post there's a "follow" choice. Hit that. Also go to settings>notifications and set to "show me replies to posts I follow" or have commented on. Hope this helps. I had to maneuver my way around in the beginning to figure it out. I still don't know how to extract a specific quote from a post and just respond to that quote alone, I just quote the whole thing.

You sound a bit insecure to me. Nothing wrong with that because most people are insecure about something. In this department, tho, if you're looking for a mate, you have to work on the securities you have around this issue. Some guys may still be insecure, shy or nervous but will still make the effort if they want it badly enough. You seem like that type but you don't take rejection very well and that to me shows there's something that happened in your past that you haven't come to terms with where you felt rejected and it's still carrying over to this day. I don't know the situation there, only you know that. If that makes sense, and you can relate to what I'm saying, try to come to grips with that issue and leave it behind. If that's not the case, understand that you don't have to feel rejected if someone doesn't show up or if a girl seems disinterested. You can't date everyone, and everyone isn't for you. You also have to make space energetically for this to happen also. Meaning, don't compare past partners to your intentions. Start fresh, erase all memories of old relationships and treat each encounter as a brand-new experience. Get excited. Don't assume the worst and see yourself going out on dates and having a good time. You're expecting the worst and hoping for the best from the start and that will lead to you showing up already losing. Females can read your energy from the start. Don't wait for clues of her showing interest. Go for it. If she isn't interested, then move on. If you only wait for clues from her and you become unsuccessful with the approach, that's just going to make you feel more rejected because you assumed she liked you. If you just approach without clues, then you won't feel so rejected because she didn't give you any signs and your mind will just process that differently. It's like if you ask someone if you can cook for them and they say yes and when you offer them the meal, they don't eat it VS. just offering someone a meal and they decline. The former makes you feel rejected and the latter just, oh well, maybe they're not hungry. Do both but don't rely on one over the other. Your chances will be greater. That's just my female's perspective.

The practice is so simple but hard to implement. Most of us are so used to the negativity that we become familiar with it and now we have a hard time letting go of it because the body is used to feeling a certain way. It took lots of practice to get into that state and it will take practice to get out of it. It's an addiction. Some people are addicted to their unhappiness without realizing it.

You reduce your amount of suffering by stop thinking how to reduce your suffering. All the mind hears is suffering. Think about how to create more happiness. That's it. Stop living in your head. You are a creator and all we're creating is more suffering by thinking about suffering.

You're welcome. I hope you get the help you need to overcome your challenges. On numerous occasions I have overcome challenges in my life by using the approach I suggested. It's not about New Age, it's about understanding how Reality works in respect to the mind and how we are creating our own Reality by our thoughts, assumptions and self-concepts and our beliefs. I'm not saying it isn't more than that, and just simply believing you're skinny isn't going to turn a fat person skinny overnight or turn a poor person rich just by believing your rich. It doesn't work that way it's more complex than that. But I was giving you the basics and maybe you could expand from there because the Universe has a way of guiding us down a path we have chosen and giving us more ways to fulfil that path. Even if that path is destructive because it doesn't know the difference. Saying "I'm a loser", "I'm in debt", is you telling the Universe to show you more ways how I can fulfill this prophecy and now the subconscious will look for ways to prove those beliefs to be true. Very few people understand this and we're trying to become awake not realizing we're already enlightened beings we just have to drop the false beliefs we have about ourselves and the world. It's not about doing, it's about being. We can try to manipulate our way through Reality all we want by using logic and through rational thinking but that just brings a whole lot of suffering. It can be done, but there are simplier more effective ways to do it. We are Reality and you don't see Reality struggling to survive it is flowing with ease. We are the ones complicating things with the mind and trying to control outcomes by doing. We are attracting things and repelling things all the time and what we attract or repel depends on our state of being. Sounds woo woo and New Agey, but that's what you and I are doing in every single moment unaware this is happening. Anyway, until you have consciously done this for yourself and seen it happen, and change your self-concept you will forever deny your powers and become a victim to your own mind and attract thoughts to you of a similar nature. I wish you the best as I have done my part. We have so many false beliefs as humans that it is contributing to our own demise. I'm not saying my life is perfect, far from it, but I'm seeing small changes as I begjn to change the way I see myself and the world and knowing that I have the power within me to do so. It is challenging because of all the programming, conditioning and filters, but at least I'm aware of it, and having the awareness is the beginning of change. Much love.

You're welcome

Don't know if this is related to topic but I just want to say, my mom didn't go to school, or I think she dropped out real early, all 4 of her kids did and all of us did real well. 2 above average and 2 not above average but still pretty good. All graduated high school. She made sure of that. Point is, we all used to play Scrabble growing up. My mom and all her bright educated school kids. My mom used to beat the shit out of all of us in Scrabble. She knew the technique and how to maneuver the game without a high school education. If you know Scrabble you know you need to have a basic knowledge of spelling and 2/3 letter words. So, I don't think it's intelligence but how well you know the game, the strategies involved and how much you've practiced. I know Scrabble is different from chess, but it's not that far apart in terms of what is needed to play. I know nothing about chess only checkers, so I can't comment on the chess game. I see Integral's point, tho, if more women played more women would be at the top as the ratio is not balanced.

You are too. YOU ARE THAT YOU ARE...That will be more legendary after THE I AM imagines that quote. ?

It is. Change your assumptions of the world. It's an assumptive world. You can never experience anything outside your own state of Consciousness. You are Reality, and what you are aware of is not Reality but an experience within your awareness based on your assumptions.