Princess Arabia

Their fantasy woman. I'll be their fantasy woman. What do you want me to be. The freak in the bed, the house wife, or the schoolgirl with the white socks and the plaid skirt on with the $#@me stilettos. Lmao. Let me stop. Guys I'm just being silly.

Whenever I see how some men describe women, especially pertaining to what they want, and somewhat how they are, all I see is them describing how men are, or how they want women to be. Usually, the bad traits are how men are usually, and the good ones are just how they prefer women to be. But you don't know this, though, so you'll disagree, but it never ceases to amaze me. Very few men get it right. The ones who just allow the woman to be herself without too much judgement and criticism, are the ones who are really good with women. I'm not speaking about toxic women who have men issues or hate men or are spoilt rotten and looking to manipulate men, but women who know who they are and are looking to be with men for the right reasons. Most men don't have a clue about women. They think we're the same as them, and so they treat them as such or they treat them how they think they, the women, should be treated, and there-in lies the confusion. But I'll leave it at that and just say you will attract the type of woman that matches what you think about yourself, so work on yourself if you want to attract the type of woman you want; because if you don't, you'll just be attracting the wrong type of woman and then seeing all her faults and trying to hammer her head with a broomstick to try to change her then go criticize all women thinking we're all the same when she doesn't change.

About time someone start talking about this stuff on here. Hard to convince these folks about LOA and the powers of the mind and even though I don't read the Bible, I'm aware of it's connection to the mind and that it is symbolic of such. Even the Adam and Eve story. Neville Goddard's teachings are wholesome and teaches how to use the mind to manifest the life you desire. A lot of other variations of his teachings are on YT, but they are all saying the same thing, with the exception of some. We are manifesting everyday. It is a way of being. That's why I consistently say do not think about the things you don't want but focus on the things you do want. You attention is your light of Awareness and what you focus on you get more of. So if you're constantly complaining about something and focusing on what is going wrong in your life you will get more things to complain about and more things that will go wrong. That's the power of Awareness. People don't understand the power within them. You are not being rewarded with anything. You are Everything. You don't get what you want, you get what you are. All is imaginary, so how do you think you create? Through the mind. Thoughts. Everything was a thought first, but it's more than just imagining it, you have to become it, it is not separate from you. It is you. Our job now is to figure out how to use the mind to create the things we want to experience and not monstrosities.

It depends on the female. Different women respond to different things. You have to take that into consideration and use your judgement depending on how you approach. Feel her out. Hard to just say, women are more complicated than that, just to ask what do women want, despite what some men think. How you make her feel is more important than what you do.

Now you get what I'm saying. Thank you, even though from a relative pov, i know the difference.

Ok, I see.

Maybe there's no you being stupid but how you are is of the highest intelligence and you're interpreting it as foolish because you're comparing it to another's level of intelligence. Maybe.

I don't even mean how you look at it, but that that is actually the case. No meaning to it from a human perspective but WHAT IS.

This God thing is so tricky. Sometimes I put my hand on my heart and say, "you don't fool me". While I'm looking like, "what the hell is happening here, wtf is this, what the hell are you, why are you here, who sent you, did my momma send you, are you my momma, am I even real, is my poppa real, am I here, am I there, am I floating in space, who is I, who is me...lmao. Meanwhile, my cat is just being a cat. What is a cat. Then I surrender and go to bed.

Ok. Glad you got my point as sometimes I can go off left field with what I'm trying to say with my analytical mind.

@vibv @Razard86 I think both of you are right, but they are both perspectives, so neither right nor wrong. I think you're both saying the same thing but vibv from a non-dual perspective and razaard from a dual perspective. If you look at it from a place where God is and it isn't, everywhere and nowhere, everything and no-thing, all the contrasts, then why can't you say it is special and not special at the same time. It is and it isn't. Dual/Non-Dual. The GodHead doesn't see special because it is all there is. The human sees special because it is comparing. Can't see "special" without "not special". If I was the only thing to exist, why would I see myself as special, special to what? So viewing anything as special has to be coming from a place of separation since it implies other. Even viewing something as not special is also implying other, not special as opposed to.....seems paradoxical to me.

Great question. But he did an update and has seen improvements from fasting, which I assume from dairy, so maybe he'll get it.

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He posted a video about being a monster in becoming a hero and he probably didn't use proper discernment as to what the video was pointing to and interpreted it in a way that was not meant by the author. So he's trying to be that monster but not the kind of monster the author of the video meant and now he is trying to be what he's not to try to fit into that interpretation. That's why it's being counterintuitive and that's why he's getting the results he's getting.

Ok thank you. I thought the same thing after awhile . A few sentences, I guess is OK but not back and forth too much. My apologies. Personal messenger is there for a reason.

I wish someone else could just comment on what color they see because I certainly don't see any form of green.

In Spirituality, which I just call life, it is crucial to learn the art of discernment. People can interpret something differently than what the true meaning behind the purpose of what's being said. This topic right here is one of them. So many variants and then we try to fit in with what we think people will accept or don't accept and we rebel against the different ends of the spectrum. Telling someone to just be themselves is an oxymoron as you cannot be another way and are just acting from a specific programming.

That's it. So what color is that. I see purple and black.

That's strange. Would be nice if you could post a pic of it here. If not, no worries, but I could have sworn the color was purple. Hope i'm not color blind too. Oh my, I'm turning into God. Lol

You'd be surprised what in-tuned and not so in-tuned people can tell about someone from their posts and online presence. Not just you but people in general. You don't own your personality, it's something you project. There is no you there, just energetic patterns. That's why body language can be deciphered and personality traits predicted. You have been on this forum for a while interacting with people; and aside from the details of your personal life and your day-to-day activities and how you interact with people personally or in a group setting some parts of your personality is being projected unto the screen. We tend to think it doesn't show, but it does. Action speaks louder than words in the "real world", but onscreen, words speaks volumes and the interpretation is more highlighted because of the sense of sight that's being suppressed where actually seeing the person goes so-to-speak by the screen. So a part of your personality is being projected here and so is everybody else's. How it's being interpreted, now, is a different story. That's why there's no you, only perceptions .

I swear, between you, someone_else, someone_here, some_girl, some this some that, if it's not for your profile pic I don't know who is who and since you changed your profile pic I just recognized who this is from looking back at our convos, which I used to recognize from your purple pic. I'm a bit dyslexic (so I think anyway) so I have a problem distinguishing things that are similar and different at the same time. Like sometimes in order to know permanent I have to think of temporary to distinguish the two. Horizontal and vertical, same thing. Not that it matters sometimes who I'm talking to but I didn't even recognize it was you, my friend.

You're doing it too, because I just found what he said funny without turning it on you, just the joke itself. Idk if you're funny or not, I was laughing at the joke not what it implied because I have no judgement or criticism towards you. If @StarStruckwas referring to you personally and was actually saying you weren't funny, idk, I didn't consider that before making my comment. So don't take it personal coming from me.

Lmao. Now, that's Something funny.

I would like for the forum users to answer that: Vote (1) for Nice Guy. (2) for not so nice. Leo that is and how YOU see him. I know this won't fly but nice try anyway. Everybody will be like wanting to vote 2 but don't want to be on the watch list.

No, I'm saying if I was an accountant or lawyer or executive, and being the same way I am, saying the same things, my intelligence wouldn't stand out as much; but because I'm a working girl and with the stigma around that in respect to the kind of women that do that type of work being called dumb with no other skills, I just appear to be so much more intelligent than what they expected. I was being funny when I said I can't act dumb but my level of intelligence to some quite surpasses the level they think working girls should be at, even though I personally think my intelligence is more of an EQ rather than IQ. I'm very highly Emotionally Intelligent, so I think anyway, with a little bit of IQ and now I'm developing my SQ.