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Not necessarily and depends on the woman and the service. I have reservations about it because it's way more of an audience and most will be unknown to you. This is true, but not exclusive. There are women online (and not just for adult services), who have been stalked and even murdered by unknown predators, but overall it is indeed safer. Not necessarily the case and depends on what she's doing and if she really enjoys it or not. It can be very mentally demanding dealing with strange horny men who has nothing to lose but a few dollars or who need not show their real identity and personal info. Another assumption. If a woman is offered more $ to meet up for real sex that takes away time and energy that she could use for the same amount of time online without having to do that. Real sex has to be done in person and even if the act is only a half hr, the whole process can take 2hrs with transport and other miscellaneous things involved. Plus it's more tiring and the next day could be a waste because of it so 48hrs lost for half hr worth of work and many men are willing to pay the same amount for online services. Many women understand that the more the man wants from you is the less he's willing to pay so it's not necessarily more profitable overall. Ask me how I know it.

So is soda, white bleached flour, round-up found in oatmeal, cinnamon with lead, table salt, toxic wild berries found in nature, too much pizza, ice cream, and French fries, lollypops, ice pops, Pringles, bleach, non-cotton underwear.....do you have time. It's just another method of control and mental slavery which can lead to people not capable of making their own decisions and to self-regulate without force which can lead to feelings of oppression which can lead to one acting out.

Notice how threads like these that were started by the OP as a way to dump their emotional feelings, they very rarely ever come back and answer any responses or contribute any more to the topic and it's usually the members arguing amongst themselves about the topic. I've seen many threads like these and they're usually in the dating section. They get started not for advice, mot to resolve anything, not for ways to help them deal with the issue at hand, but as a dumping garbage pan for the energy that built up inside them. Then we pick up the remnants and the energy gets fed and lives on. That's how energy expands. Hatred feeds on itself and others' that wasn't supposedly manifested starts to come alive and takes hold of the individual reading this and all sorts of stories and explanations come into the picture to explain away their own feelings of hatred and now the chain reaction lives on. It's not my thread but I would suggest OP asks to close this thread because all it's doing is bringing up unwanted feelings in others and giving them a reason to think of why they are also feeling hatred. Hatred that is there regardless of women but women are used as the scapegoats for the reasons why they have these feelings. It's never about the object in question, it's about the relationship one have with themselves and their own thoughts.

A guy will very rarely have feelings for a woman he didn't invest in. You said you were going to ask her out but she asked you out instead. Big mistake on her part. Guys will not agree and it's not always the case, but if you see and check the amount of times you weren't that interested in the women that pursued you, you'll see what I'm saying. You don't consciously do this and it's usually with masculine men. It's a chore now be cause you can't shine and impress her. You can't do things for her. She's readily available and already has shown enough interest for you to not feel anything for her because you feelings come from her reciprocation and gratitude for you. A man falls in love by doing for a woman. This isn't about falling in love, its just the dynamic isn't there.

Sometimes this can be the case because the women are giving themselves so easily and they resent them for it as they might not see a need to grow in all the ways a man grows. A lot of men out there knows the value of having women around and are improving themselves to get the kind of women they want and to have options. If women are not allowing them to have incentives sometimes they'll resent her for it. That's why a lot of low-income men turn out to be abusive and beat upon their baby mommas because they feel like worthless piece of shits so they act like it and take it out on her. If you didn't sleep with me and made me have ambition to go out and work hard so I could get the hot woman I so desire, I'd amount to something, so it's because you were so easy to get why I have no respect for you, cheat on you and treat you like this. That is some of the subconscious mindset. They would never treat a woman who they had to put in the investment for like that.

Such entitlement. I've had enough of this conversation. Maybe when you grow up and realize women have more to risk than just having the mindset of an easy lay and a night filled with passion can lead her into the doom house and that lots of men only want sex from her and she can't just lay up with any and any one, you'll understand why. Maybe turn yourself into someone that a woman can feel safe and secure with and from the way you speak on here about women to me, maybe try to polish up the lingo and the way you view them on a whole. WE'RE NOT HERE FOR YOUR SELFISH SEXUAL GRATIFICATIONS. I've seen time and time again that you're not presenting the best version of yourself to women but speak about them like trash and expect the best out of them. I'm through with this conversation with you, I have nothing more to say on the matter with you and i hope you really start to see the value of women and the role they play in a man's life other than what you think it is and that being for just sex.

@HojoThe point of me referencing the marriage and divorce and baby industries, is to show that there cannot be such a wide problem of men and women getting together if those other industries are also fruitful. They somewhat go hand in hand on a general scale and on some level. You said men are having problems picking up women but there's another booming industry called marriage happening. Divorce and baby rearing. I can add to the list that suggests men are indeed hooking up with women. Child support cases in court, domestic violence, Valentine's Day affairs, so many that suggests this. So the problem isn't men picking up women but the men who are having problems picking up women thinking the problem is men are having problems picking up women. This is an individual problem that can be rectified on an individual level not on a mass scale.

A point is better made and understood when there are examples. One's mind cannot be open to really understand their own claims and perspectives if it's only limited to one factor. There were factors responsible for that industry becoming a billion dollar industry and there will be factors within that billion dollar industry that causes another industry to be successful. Only focusing on the one industry and trying to argue a point by only referencing the one industry and saying you're not speaking about the other industries will only result in limited pov's and illuminate biases and projections and turn the trajectory of the conversation into one that seems goal-oriented to just trying to prove a point and not see how the held perspective could be faulty because of blind spots not revealed by the seeing of outside causations.

It's not about a need. I had to attend to your comment to make a response. What you're trying to say probably is that men don't require the same kind of attention that women require. Men need the attention to even start the dating process.

I never said it wasn't true but the question is "what's true". The numbers can represent something true and something false simultaneously. Something good and something bad simultaneously. Marriage is also an industry worth millions, so is divorce and baby rearing and baby killing. If so many men were having problems picking up women on a whole, those other industries wouldn't even be profitable because they require the two to be in union with each other. Problem is, men want hot models and then complain when they can't get them and call the ones they settled for stupid or the ones that settled for them stupid.

It's not about easiness being good or bad. It's about having sex, as a woman, with whom you really want to have sex with. You say dishonest because you think she really wants to but holds back because of. Maybe she just doesn't want to. Of course, men would love it for women to be easy. It's not about what men want, but what they will respect and see in a woman. All of this depends on different stages in one's life. It's not so cut and dry. An 18yr old female will probably view sex differently than a 30yr old.

There are plenty of billion dollar scams out there feeding off of people's emotions and having people believing all sorts of shit while the others are raking in the results. Don't fall for the numbers. Learning pick up is not the only answer. The men teaching men how to better themselves, improve themselves, work on themselves and how to attract what they want in life are not raking in the billions because they don't cater to the hate emotion or the "I need something from women" narrative. Men don't need to learn how to pick up women, men need to learn how to attract women. Women also have pick up communities learning how to attract the men they want to attract. You just don't know about it because that's not where your focus is. It's on the lack of what you're not getting, not what you want. Most women are being hit on on a daily basis. It's not original and new. What's original is being original and becoming the type of man that women are flocking to. Women have options in this department because they are women, men have options in this department because they became a man.

Being easy on your own without a substance is different than being easy because of a substance. Saying drunk women are easy is attacking the women, saying it's easier to get a drunk woman in bed is attacking the substance. There is no blame either way it's just the perspective is being looked at from different angles.

This is the point right here that men don't understand. For a man and a woman, attention is different.

I was making a point. The point was that women want to sleep with who they want to sleep with. A man may want to sleep with a woman who doesn't want to sleep with him and if he's a "date raper", he might resort to that to get to sleep with her. Women who are drinking or even drunk may sleep with guys they wouldn't normally sleep with if they were sober. I never said drunk women were easy but it's easier to sleep with a drunk woman - there's a difference.

I didn't say that.

@Hojo

Lot of interpretations there. I never said MEN invented date rape. I said date rape was invented. Women are less inhibited when they are drinking, yes and some women are easier to get in the bed if drunk. Everyone knows that and it's no secret.

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There was a misunderstanding there. You assume I meant that that was his personality and that nothing created that and that's who he is and for no reason. No. There are circumstances that created that, but the message I was trying to put across wasn't about why date rapers are born or what makes up their psyche. Your suggestion was that men date rape because women don't give up sex easily and that's the issue we are commenting on.

Yes, thank you for being open about that and not denying it. It was quite obvious to me before you even said it. There's a certain energy to things and can even be felt via computer through words and implications. You say "through God" and that's very uplifting for you and inspiring and sometimes the best bet. However, to me, it's still important to try and understand what we're dealing with here in life so bitterness doesn't creep in because it only poisons us, not the other person. Aligning ourselves with what's real and true will surpass any worldly endeavors and will allow for better understanding of what is. For me, it's also important, but also to try and understand why things are the way they are. Not for existential matters but for worldly matters. As a woman, I could have easily went down the bitterness trail for men because it was too much about sex and physicality with them and not enough of who I am as a person. Now, I don't even care about that because I understand it and what we don't understand, we judge and call the enemy. Men aren't the enemy, ignorance is, and that goes for both genders. I'm still trying to understand men but just for understanding sake and it's just my nature. God alone, won't solve this challenge, love will. Hate turns to love when applied properly and is used to go within to understand where the root is. Bitterness stems from giving up and not willing to transform the hate into a positive. We need to understand that people are at different stages, survival strategies are in play, delusion is at the root and ignorance of our own constructs and other's plays a big role. What has helped me is the recognition that there are programs at play and what goes in is what comes out and that different programs are running for different people. Not everyone is at the same level and we all have different experiences, thoughts and beliefs running the show. Recognizing this helps with empathy and compassion but still keeping a firm grip on our own sense of individuality but realizing what the truth of it all is. This helps with feelings of contentment and pushes all the hatred and bitterness aside. Men and women are different in their make up both biologically and psychologically and are treated differently as children, so the program runs deep. It is up to us to understand this and take the time to understand this if we're feeling any ounce of bitterness and hatred creeping in and nit to let it be a part of the programming and embed itself into our psyche.

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It's simply the Absolute appearing as all that. No one is really self-deceived because there's no one. This is already liberation and freedom. So let's just get back to the apparent self-deception of it all where we're all thinking we're a separate human being that can be deceived by the concept of non-duality. There is no magnificent place to get to and no exotic awakening Bangs with blue lights and magic wands. Awakening and enlightenment is right here right now and this is all there is. Any story of an experience is just that - a story and an experience. Any deeper awakenings is just that deeper awakenings. You will still end up on earth going to sleep and waking up to go to work and parties and having sex and breaking up with your girlfriend and taking a dump and going to college and trying to ground yourself in the groundless ground because you think you're a somebody that can get somewhere and you don't want to fly there but take your time and awaken in 3months to tell about your story. There's no existential difference between you and the bumb on the street who knows nothing about this shit; in fact there is, he's less neurotic and just needs a piece of bread and a cold beer to get him through the next day while he sits on the street corner and watch sexy girls go by and go jerk off later under the bridge with his blanket and wake up to another cold beer he begged $2 for. He's not searching for happiness and enlightenment and suffering his awakenings that he can't unsee to now want more awakenings by taking drugs to piss himself. He just wants a sandwich and a beer to be alright until he ends up in the same place we'll all end up - in the grave. How many bumbs you see out there crying how they're suffering and can't get girls or hate their lives or worried about concepts, experiences, thoughts and desires. They just are and are apparently living from moment to moment and not suffering their existence but maybe only of hunger. A drunk is always drunk. A neurotic is always neurotic.

There are healthy versions of pizza. Maybe made with cauliflower instead of white flour, all veggies, homemade healthy marinara sauce etc. No cheese or even nut cheese. So that question is vague. Eating traditional pizza everyday isn't a good idea to maintaining one's health, no.

Only if you're trying to lose weight or if you're eating a lot of junk food. Not all fats are equal and some are beneficial. It's best to just watch the types of food you're eating; and if it's a balanced diet with mostly whole foods, calorie counting would not be necessary then.