Princess Arabia

Belief isn't it. The feeling is the secret. Feel it. You can try to believe all you wan't. Without feeling it's just words.

Tear up a dollar bill into pieces, is that brutal Truth? Stop believing these things. They are not brutal truths. How you feel about them determines how they relate to you. If you told me I was brutal, I wouldn't want to come around you. Why should money be any different. It's all energy.

Good for you. Just don't get caught up in the outside world. Soul mates are still coming from within you. You are creating that soul mate. You don't need a soul mate outside there. Anyone can be a soul mate. It will all depend on your embodiment. Have you bonded with your own soul. That's your soul mate, I've found mine. It was never lost. I'm just trying to develop a better relationship with it , as I have neglected it for so long. Didn't realize it was so close. It's me. Now I'm seeing through the facade. I'm seeing how it was me all along. All me. Then I can share myself with presumed others and become one with them and play the game of a soul mate being there with me.

Those things are effects. What needs to get in order first is what you identify as. Do you identify as a broke guy. Someone who can't afford this or that? Or someone who is abundant and can afford a cab fare. Because if you do, the cab fare, being a container that's easily doable, will find it's way to you. You'll be surprised how this works. I'm practicing this principle and it's amazing the results. Different content, of course, but same principle. You cannot jump to being able to afford a limousine ride at first. The mind needs to adjust, but start with small things and I promise, you'll see things start to change.

You're right. It's up to your belief systems and thought patterns. Not me, not even you as a fictional character. You're being driven by those things. Which is ok, me too. It's just I'm more apt to trying to adopt belief systems that serve me and how Source sees me, rather than previous conditionings that hasn't served me well in the past. Outside conditions doesn't matter.

There's nothing to come around to. You're only frustrating yourself even more by putting monetary value on dates. She's not. She didn't asked you to pay for her coming to the date. She only asked to pay for the cab fare home. If you can't afford to pay for cab fare, offer to meet her close to her house walking distance. If she refuses, then that's a criteria to probably know it's not about you but what you can pay for. You have to take fear out the picture. Fear will lead you to make irrational decisions.

Forget about culture. You're putting culture into this. What about you as a person. How do you show your love. Do you want her to feel safe, protected and cared for, whether gf or not. She spent time with you, you spent time with her at least make sure she, as a woman gets home safely, whether you want to see her again, unless she showed you some utter disrespect. Don't go by what you think she's doing and your insecure stories. Go by what is actually happening.

Because men don't see value in a woman that gives too freely if he doesn't feel worthy of it. When you have to work for her love, you appreciate it more, as a man.

That's a selfish act. What you're actually saying is, time spent with ME is worth me paying, but time spent apart is not. You're just looking out for your best interest not hers.

Some men don't understand this. Men love differently than women in most cases.

Hence, No self. No doer. No individual. Illusion. Appearances. No thinker. Energy, frequency and vibration. Just God at play. Source Energy. All one Source. You, me the same energy, vibrating at different frequency. This energy is LOVE.

I would say that's a distinction. I would say discernment is having the qualifications to understand or comprehend something previously unknown.

Nice. Very Inspiring.

We also have ignorant people..Infinity

Maybe it exists to balance things out. Who knows. Who cares. Why not be concerned with why mass shootings occur. Why poverty exists. Why domestic violence happens. Why are so many people drug addicted. Did you choose to be straight. Did you choose to be born male. Did you choose to be whatever race you are. You didn't even choose your preferences. They were all predetermined just like people who are gay. Why do you like burgers instead of broccoli. Do you know. (insert whatever foods you like and dislike). Because one tastes better? Why does it tastes better to you. Can you answer that. Are you operating your tastes buds. No. Just because something happens more often doesn't mean what occurs less is not natural. I experience more sunny days than blizzards. Aren't blizzards a natural occurrence. What is a fact is that humans have limited minds, therefore limited perspectives, therefore limited arguments, therefore limited world views, therefore limited ways of thinking, therefore limited ideas, therefore limited understanding, therefore we should leave what God created alone and live our lives the best we know how and let the limited homosexuals be to do the same.

Brian Scott's channel is good, will watch those later. Thanks.

Didn't know you could smoke it. Is it like an Yerba mate cig. Or you roll it yourself or can you buy it. I currently smoke American Spirits, which is an all natural cig, but it's still pure tobacco, which is still toxic in minute portions to humans. The "normal" cigs are mostly filled with other toxic substances like ammonia and rat poison along with like 500 other chemicals.

Exactly

This is why I add the word "subtle". The difference is so subtle. @Carl-Richardis making some good points, which I'm trying to make discernments on to see the differences, but the point you just made about description is also notable. Geesh, this subject is more complicated than I thought. Lol

Maybe that's the difference i'm indirectly referring to - condescending. I try so hard in my mind to analyze what I'm trying to say because I still stand by my stance on it. I use examples to try to clarify the minute, subtle differences between judging and, like you say, description. I see the differences now I think "condescending" is where my mind draws the difference. Even though I still think we can make observations without judging it because it's what is and i'm trying to train my mind to accept what is without interpretation and with full acceptance as my Signature suggests. But thank you for this and I will contemplate on it a bit more as I recognize some judgement is needed for us to maneuver our way around life - just not condescendingly.

I kind of resonated with most of what he said so I can agree that he does see it in the same light as I do, somewhat. Close.

I'm not really concerned with what humans do all the time because humanity is in trouble as far as what i've observed and all of us experience emotional pain and a lot have traumas and emotional baggage and so on. We think it's all normal and we try to fix it externally thinking it's something out there that caused it. I'm more in the business of going against the grain and normality of human behavior (including my own) to try to alleviate the amount of suffering we put ourselves through. What causes it and how to reduce it. I look at normal human behavior and try to put the pieces together to see if those behaviors can be traced back to why we suffer and try to see what we can do differently in the way we think which leads to the actions we take which determines our way of being.

To me, just saying someone is fat, isn't judging. Example 1. She's fat - not judging. Example 2. She's fat and that's disgusting - judging. 1. He said some inappropriate things to me - not judging. 2. He's an asshole for saying some inappropriate things to me - judging. You're adding stories behind your observations. That's observing with judgement. Observing without judgement is observing something for what it is without making condescending remarks about what you're observing. It's hard to explain because of the subtle difference. We all put stories and meaning to things we observe, that's what we do as humans but we can observe, analyze compare and explain without being condescending and labelling things without judging them. That's the best way I can describe what I'm trying to say. Making a judgement call about a decision you have to make is not judging, calling someone's decision after them making a judgement call silly or stupid is judging. Saying you think that judgement call you made is not a wise decision isn't judging, that's an opinion. Saying someone is silly and foolish for making a particular decision is also an opinion but it's still judging because you're not calling the decision silly you're calling the person silly. I'm trying to explain the subtle difference very delicately the best I know how, but I can see it in my mind's eye the difference, but it's nit easy to explain on paper.

You don't build a website of this caliber without putting passion into it. This was very well thought out and took a lot of time and energy to build. You can also see the passion in his eyes in most of his videos. Everyone has to make a living, but you can tell this means a lot to him. To what degree, idk, but it's more than just business. Anyone else who knows what passion feels would be able to sense that. Even if he's out "living his life", as you phrased it, it is well deserved. All of us are reaping the benefits of his hard work, including you just from having the opportunity to voice your opinion here, so that in itself is worth it for you to be able to "have a voice", even if it is to criticize.