Princess Arabia

You remind me of a Donald Trump. Not sure what the word is but I think there's one born every century. If Obama did half the stuff that Trump is accused of doing or did, he'd be ostracized a long time ago and forbidden to even run for President much less get elected. Donald just seems like he could do or say anything and get away with it with just a pat on the back. You're like that for this forum. Can post anything and get away with it. First it was a about gay people a while back. Then a few days ago it was fantasies about raping and murdering women. Now it's some blatantly racist shit with no attempt to even disguise the wording or any hints, it's blatant and in your face type shit with no filter. All you get is a pat on the shoulder saying please don't be so crude and make sure to straighten up your act and start to post better stuff. This has been up for 7hrs and has not been locked. It's a disgrace that this can be allowed on this forum. We're not sure if you're really from Lebanon or not and quite frankly it doesn't really matter. For all I know you could be from anywhere and of any race. If a black person said they were a black supremacist and that the black race was superior, that would also be racism so it's not because it's white based. @Leo Guranot the mods because they've already seen this and even commented. Not sure if you've seen this but I'm not sure you accept this kind of talk on your forum or not. I've seen where you've told people to stop from making certain spiritual claims but this is on a whole other level. Not asking for anything drastic to happen but for it to be locked to send a message that this kind of talk cannot be allowed and should be against forum guidelines. It's blatant and in your face racist with no attempt to even be disguised as such.

You know I have to be extra for my love on his birthday. Hehe. He's probably like, wtf. Lol.

Do this, do that, don't do this, don't do that. Be this, be that, don't be this, don't be that. Become this, don't become that. Watch this, don't watch that. Read this, don't read that. Eat this, don't eat that. Walk this way, don't walk that way. Sit this way, don't sit that way. Lay this way, don't lay that way. Sleep on this side, not that side. Chew this way, not that way. Drink this, don't drink that. Speak like this, not like that. Dress this way, don't dress like that. Obey this, obey that. Stop this, stop that. Wear this, don't wear that. Act like this, don't act like that. Want this, don't want that. React this way, not that way. Respond like this, not like that. Say this, don't say that. Like this, don't like that. Breathe like this, don't breathe like that. Meditate like this not like that. Think this don't think that. Look like this, don't look like that And we wonder why we need relief, have stress, get depressed, have anxiety, get tired, frustrated and suffer. It's not that we shouldn't strive for what's better for us, it's that there are so many things that's bad for us as a species. We have to be on alert at all times. On guard. So many toxicities and poisons, so many ways to harm us if we're not careful. So much to look out for. So many potential harms. We are very resilient beings the body is magnificently designed to protect itself from outside invaders but it's still in danger. Some we can avoid and some not so easily. It's hard being a being. It's challenging to be and stay alive. Not to mention mental health. Everything is a fucking challenge. We have to watch for everything. Who designed this crap. Why put us through so much. If you say to grow us, then you've been misled. All plants need to grow is water and a little fertilizer proper environment and some love and care. They don't need all that extra shit to grow. All animals basically need is food. The rest as in shelter and health care depends on the type of animal. Most can survive in the wild just on food. Why humans. Why do we have to go through so much to grow. If you really take a deep look into it, it's basically only humans that go through all I've stated in the first paragraph. Does your cat have to watch how it sits or chew it's food or how it breathes. Does your dog have to watch what it watches or sees or how it sleeps and responds. This is utter madness and we claim to be the most intelligent. Why can't we figure out ways to not suffer or be challenged or have to go through all the shit other animals don't have to go through if we're so intelligent. We can't even stop our homes from being flooded or how not to get mad but we're so highly intelligent. It's very tiring being a human. Try not to stress so much unnecessarily. Your body will thank you for it. Relax more. Take it easy more. You're wearing yourself out and causing the body distress. Don't put the body in shock. It doesn't need the extra baggage.

I think he means the knowledge he's acquired. There's nothing to reference to but things he already knows. That's why I say experience is knowledge and the I is knowledge and without it you are no one and cannot know yourself to be a self. There's something there in him that recognizes this.

If that's what's happening, that's what's happening. Nothing you can do about it because you're not doing it to begin with. Everything screams THERE'S NOONE doing anything. EVERYTHING.

Happy Birthday, Leo. 😘😘

We have attached stories to the felt emotions and we believe it's the object in question that's responsible for the emotion. This is a learnt habit and how we feed the sense of self. Feelings can just arise for no reason, but because of the story attached to it that we believe in, we either blame or praise the object we believe is the reason. This is why we keep chasing happiness in objects. We believed that the empty object that is void of feelings, purpose or of any substance was responsible for the felt emotion and because it's actually empty of any meaning on it's own it doesn't last. We move on to something else for happiness and blame another for our sadness. It's a cycle that we're unaware of that we're doing. That new car made me happy, that girl made me sad, that teacher made me depressed, that man made me feel used. No. Those feelings arose in you because you put meaning to those people, have an idea about them in relation to you and now, they're responsible in your eyes for how you feel when the truth of the matter is they can do the exact same thing to someone else and the other person don't feel a thing. So, it's not the person, but the relationship you have with that thing. It's not their fault, it's no one's fault, it's energetic.

Yes, I agree and that's why I started a journal where i can dump some wasted energy without expecting it to be continued with responses. Usually responses, if any, are short, and the post is not lingered on with useless thoughts, ideas and opinions. i donlt even re-read my own journal. I just dump in the trash and move on. I consider them dead.

Not necessarily and depends on the woman and the service. I have reservations about it because it's way more of an audience and most will be unknown to you. This is true, but not exclusive. There are women online (and not just for adult services), who have been stalked and even murdered by unknown predators, but overall it is indeed safer. Not necessarily the case and depends on what she's doing and if she really enjoys it or not. It can be very mentally demanding dealing with strange horny men who has nothing to lose but a few dollars or who need not show their real identity and personal info. Another assumption. If a woman is offered more $ to meet up for real sex that takes away time and energy that she could use for the same amount of time online without having to do that. Real sex has to be done in person and even if the act is only a half hr, the whole process can take 2hrs with transport and other miscellaneous things involved. Plus it's more tiring and the next day could be a waste because of it so 48hrs lost for half hr worth of work and many men are willing to pay the same amount for online services. Many women understand that the more the man wants from you is the less he's willing to pay so it's not necessarily more profitable overall. Ask me how I know it.

So is soda, white bleached flour, round-up found in oatmeal, cinnamon with lead, table salt, toxic wild berries found in nature, too much pizza, ice cream, and French fries, lollypops, ice pops, Pringles, bleach, non-cotton underwear.....do you have time. It's just another method of control and mental slavery which can lead to people not capable of making their own decisions and to self-regulate without force which can lead to feelings of oppression which can lead to one acting out.

Notice how threads like these that were started by the OP as a way to dump their emotional feelings, they very rarely ever come back and answer any responses or contribute any more to the topic and it's usually the members arguing amongst themselves about the topic. I've seen many threads like these and they're usually in the dating section. They get started not for advice, mot to resolve anything, not for ways to help them deal with the issue at hand, but as a dumping garbage pan for the energy that built up inside them. Then we pick up the remnants and the energy gets fed and lives on. That's how energy expands. Hatred feeds on itself and others' that wasn't supposedly manifested starts to come alive and takes hold of the individual reading this and all sorts of stories and explanations come into the picture to explain away their own feelings of hatred and now the chain reaction lives on. It's not my thread but I would suggest OP asks to close this thread because all it's doing is bringing up unwanted feelings in others and giving them a reason to think of why they are also feeling hatred. Hatred that is there regardless of women but women are used as the scapegoats for the reasons why they have these feelings. It's never about the object in question, it's about the relationship one have with themselves and their own thoughts.

A guy will very rarely have feelings for a woman he didn't invest in. You said you were going to ask her out but she asked you out instead. Big mistake on her part. Guys will not agree and it's not always the case, but if you see and check the amount of times you weren't that interested in the women that pursued you, you'll see what I'm saying. You don't consciously do this and it's usually with masculine men. It's a chore now be cause you can't shine and impress her. You can't do things for her. She's readily available and already has shown enough interest for you to not feel anything for her because you feelings come from her reciprocation and gratitude for you. A man falls in love by doing for a woman. This isn't about falling in love, its just the dynamic isn't there.

Sometimes this can be the case because the women are giving themselves so easily and they resent them for it as they might not see a need to grow in all the ways a man grows. A lot of men out there knows the value of having women around and are improving themselves to get the kind of women they want and to have options. If women are not allowing them to have incentives sometimes they'll resent her for it. That's why a lot of low-income men turn out to be abusive and beat upon their baby mommas because they feel like worthless piece of shits so they act like it and take it out on her. If you didn't sleep with me and made me have ambition to go out and work hard so I could get the hot woman I so desire, I'd amount to something, so it's because you were so easy to get why I have no respect for you, cheat on you and treat you like this. That is some of the subconscious mindset. They would never treat a woman who they had to put in the investment for like that.

Such entitlement. I've had enough of this conversation. Maybe when you grow up and realize women have more to risk than just having the mindset of an easy lay and a night filled with passion can lead her into the doom house and that lots of men only want sex from her and she can't just lay up with any and any one, you'll understand why. Maybe turn yourself into someone that a woman can feel safe and secure with and from the way you speak on here about women to me, maybe try to polish up the lingo and the way you view them on a whole. WE'RE NOT HERE FOR YOUR SELFISH SEXUAL GRATIFICATIONS. I've seen time and time again that you're not presenting the best version of yourself to women but speak about them like trash and expect the best out of them. I'm through with this conversation with you, I have nothing more to say on the matter with you and i hope you really start to see the value of women and the role they play in a man's life other than what you think it is and that being for just sex.

@HojoThe point of me referencing the marriage and divorce and baby industries, is to show that there cannot be such a wide problem of men and women getting together if those other industries are also fruitful. They somewhat go hand in hand on a general scale and on some level. You said men are having problems picking up women but there's another booming industry called marriage happening. Divorce and baby rearing. I can add to the list that suggests men are indeed hooking up with women. Child support cases in court, domestic violence, Valentine's Day affairs, so many that suggests this. So the problem isn't men picking up women but the men who are having problems picking up women thinking the problem is men are having problems picking up women. This is an individual problem that can be rectified on an individual level not on a mass scale.

A point is better made and understood when there are examples. One's mind cannot be open to really understand their own claims and perspectives if it's only limited to one factor. There were factors responsible for that industry becoming a billion dollar industry and there will be factors within that billion dollar industry that causes another industry to be successful. Only focusing on the one industry and trying to argue a point by only referencing the one industry and saying you're not speaking about the other industries will only result in limited pov's and illuminate biases and projections and turn the trajectory of the conversation into one that seems goal-oriented to just trying to prove a point and not see how the held perspective could be faulty because of blind spots not revealed by the seeing of outside causations.

It's not about a need. I had to attend to your comment to make a response. What you're trying to say probably is that men don't require the same kind of attention that women require. Men need the attention to even start the dating process.

I never said it wasn't true but the question is "what's true". The numbers can represent something true and something false simultaneously. Something good and something bad simultaneously. Marriage is also an industry worth millions, so is divorce and baby rearing and baby killing. If so many men were having problems picking up women on a whole, those other industries wouldn't even be profitable because they require the two to be in union with each other. Problem is, men want hot models and then complain when they can't get them and call the ones they settled for stupid or the ones that settled for them stupid.

It's not about easiness being good or bad. It's about having sex, as a woman, with whom you really want to have sex with. You say dishonest because you think she really wants to but holds back because of. Maybe she just doesn't want to. Of course, men would love it for women to be easy. It's not about what men want, but what they will respect and see in a woman. All of this depends on different stages in one's life. It's not so cut and dry. An 18yr old female will probably view sex differently than a 30yr old.

There are plenty of billion dollar scams out there feeding off of people's emotions and having people believing all sorts of shit while the others are raking in the results. Don't fall for the numbers. Learning pick up is not the only answer. The men teaching men how to better themselves, improve themselves, work on themselves and how to attract what they want in life are not raking in the billions because they don't cater to the hate emotion or the "I need something from women" narrative. Men don't need to learn how to pick up women, men need to learn how to attract women. Women also have pick up communities learning how to attract the men they want to attract. You just don't know about it because that's not where your focus is. It's on the lack of what you're not getting, not what you want. Most women are being hit on on a daily basis. It's not original and new. What's original is being original and becoming the type of man that women are flocking to. Women have options in this department because they are women, men have options in this department because they became a man.

Being easy on your own without a substance is different than being easy because of a substance. Saying drunk women are easy is attacking the women, saying it's easier to get a drunk woman in bed is attacking the substance. There is no blame either way it's just the perspective is being looked at from different angles.

This is the point right here that men don't understand. For a man and a woman, attention is different.

I was making a point. The point was that women want to sleep with who they want to sleep with. A man may want to sleep with a woman who doesn't want to sleep with him and if he's a "date raper", he might resort to that to get to sleep with her. Women who are drinking or even drunk may sleep with guys they wouldn't normally sleep with if they were sober. I never said drunk women were easy but it's easier to sleep with a drunk woman - there's a difference.

I didn't say that.

@Hojo