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This is where you're limited in your thinking. Why do I have to go and understand how to become what I am already. What's there to figure out - only observe. It's the masculine that I am interested in, so that's where it makes sense to go study and try to understand. I already understand you, you're a softy trying to appear hard but only come off as a hard dick. 😛😛
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Believe it or not, lots of so-called masculine traits that men exude stems from past-trauma and were told they're not a man if.....which can lead to lots of men becoming more aggressive, angry, suicidal, resentful and feeling hurt by society. See my latest video in the powerful(dating and relationships) section with Lisa Bilyeu. He speaks about this in the first 15mins. Maybe what we're really seeing in masculine men is the pain they're dealing with. Maybe OP isn't dealing with any pain, but the stigma of needing to show masculine qualities as a man by society's standards. This video. Just watch the first 15 mind or so to see what I'm saying.
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Princess Arabia replied to gengar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
True. I wouldn't say it's a matter of preference, but choice. They'll choose whites over non-whites but only when it comes to certain things because of an ingrained belief. Politics is one. Many people have private fantasies in many areas involving non-whites, but in public they'll die first before revealing the truth. Don't be fooled, a lot of it has to do with group think and reputation. -
Princess Arabia replied to gengar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It isn't racist to prefer a certain race. Most people have their preferences and sometimes it depends on the context. However, by googles definition, it is racist to think of a particular race as SUPERIOR and he said that in his post. That can only be in comparison to...and suggesting that they are better than. There are blacks who believe that blacks are superior and that's also a racist belief. It's that simple and one can be racist if they like, but there shouldn't be that type of language allowed where the rule is 'no racism allowed'. That's the issue. Also, by Google's definition, white supremacy is a form of racism which he also defined himself as. -
If that was the case, the whole world would be suffering from food poisoning everyday, it would be an epidemic and food trucks would be out of business; not to mention buffets.
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If you're only doing it for women, it may not be a good idea. You may end up resenting women for it. Not sure how old you are, but you seem quite young from what you've said. Maybe time and experience will allow for the masculine side of you to flourish. It could just be who you are also; nothing wrong with that. Lots of women are attracted to the feminine side of men. It may just mean you'll attract more masculine-type women and that doesn't necessarily mean in their appearance, but their ways which could be complimentary to yours. Embrace who you are, and the women will feel that and be attracted anyway. Maybe what's not attractive to some, is that they can sense you're not comfortable in your own skin. All that hit the gym and stuff like that is just a mask to hide what you really feel inside. Gym is great for health purposes, but if it's to compensate to feel masculine, the feminine side will just be repressed and manifest in other ways and now you're left with hating yourself and your feminine side. Personally, too much aggression in a man is a turn off for me. It's not that I prefer feminine men, but I like when they show that side when they're around me and leave all that aggression when with the guys or when it's needed appropriately like in bed. Hehe. Masculinity is not about muscles and a six pack, it's in one's mental attitude and the way they show up. When I see bulk, all I see is a whimp inside. Strength in a man for me is one who's not afraid to show both sides and knows how to respond respectively.
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Princess Arabia replied to Never_give_up's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Reality cannot be defined or it can be defined using all definitive words. The word 'Mystery' is one of them. -
Princess Arabia replied to Never_give_up's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
"Reach Awakening" implies time. There's no actual time. Yes, there appears to be time and we're living in time and space but it's only an appearance. The Absolute appears as time and space. That said, the Absolute is also appearing as someone trying to 'reach awakening'. Blah blah blah. I know, more non-duality bullshit, but you asked and I'm just giving you my take. You're already awake. All the practices people do will lead to this recognition when exhausted. That's actually what the practices are good for. It's not to awaken you, but so you realize there's no you to awaken and that awakening is already the case. You just haven't realized this yet. No one realizes it, actually, there's something there that realizes itself to be nothing. Something like that; hard to explain. This is not to say don't even do practices, but if you're hungry, you eat. You get hungry again, you eat again. You will never stay full. Always a process going on. Same thing here, awaken, then awaken to more, and more and more. Always awakening to bigger and better awakenings. It never ends because there is no end to what never was. -
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Princess Arabia posted a topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This Channel is moving mountains. There's no other like it. -
Princess Arabia replied to Sugarcoat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
When people are told what to do all the time, and not allowed to err on their own to see what they're doing wrong for themselves on their own, how their decisions are ruining their lives, they will lose the ability to decide for themselves what they should give up, things that are bad for them and why. Just telling people to stop eating junk food because it's bad for you isn't enough, it is not until they're seeing the effects of the junk food that they'll really understand what that means and how badly it's affecting their lives. They see first hand what it can do. Keep telling people what to do and not do without letting them have a first hand experience of things doesn't do much good in the sense of understanding why something is bad for them and will only make them more curious about the thing and indulge more. Of course this doesn't go for murder, theft and laws like that that are obviously criminal. -
Princess Arabia replied to integral's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Nice! You'd make a great father, uncle, son, brother, nephew and husband. At least everybody would know what to expect from you, no disappointments and no surprises. This is not sarcasm and is for real from my heart. -
It's interesting to see the craziness, weirdness and ordered chaos of Absolute Infinity play out right Infront of my eyes. It's so fucking wild, spontaneous and free that it needs an ass whooping to tame itself down and behave. The poor mind is having a hard time accepting how free it is to do what the hell it wants to do and be however it wants to be that it tries very hard to cope with the insanity but it just can't handle it. This is utter madness and i can see why things are the way they are or more people would end up in the insane asylum. I'm half-way there; but thank God, I'm able to contain myself and cope with it somewhat. I'm probably the type to just burst one day from over exertion like a gas tank ready to explode. Hopefully my time here on earth expires by then.
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Princess Arabia replied to Majed's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You remind me of a Donald Trump. Not sure what the word is but I think there's one born every century. If Obama did half the stuff that Trump is accused of doing or did, he'd be ostracized a long time ago and forbidden to even run for President much less get elected. Donald just seems like he could do or say anything and get away with it with just a pat on the back. You're like that for this forum. Can post anything and get away with it. First it was a about gay people a while back. Then a few days ago it was fantasies about raping and murdering women. Now it's some blatantly racist shit with no attempt to even disguise the wording or any hints, it's blatant and in your face type shit with no filter. All you get is a pat on the shoulder saying please don't be so crude and make sure to straighten up your act and start to post better stuff. This has been up for 7hrs and has not been locked. It's a disgrace that this can be allowed on this forum. We're not sure if you're really from Lebanon or not and quite frankly it doesn't really matter. For all I know you could be from anywhere and of any race. If a black person said they were a black supremacist and that the black race was superior, that would also be racism so it's not because it's white based. @Leo Guranot the mods because they've already seen this and even commented. Not sure if you've seen this but I'm not sure you accept this kind of talk on your forum or not. I've seen where you've told people to stop from making certain spiritual claims but this is on a whole other level. Not asking for anything drastic to happen but for it to be locked to send a message that this kind of talk cannot be allowed and should be against forum guidelines. It's blatant and in your face racist with no attempt to even be disguised as such. -
You know I have to be extra for my love on his birthday. Hehe. He's probably like, wtf. Lol.
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Do this, do that, don't do this, don't do that. Be this, be that, don't be this, don't be that. Become this, don't become that. Watch this, don't watch that. Read this, don't read that. Eat this, don't eat that. Walk this way, don't walk that way. Sit this way, don't sit that way. Lay this way, don't lay that way. Sleep on this side, not that side. Chew this way, not that way. Drink this, don't drink that. Speak like this, not like that. Dress this way, don't dress like that. Obey this, obey that. Stop this, stop that. Wear this, don't wear that. Act like this, don't act like that. Want this, don't want that. React this way, not that way. Respond like this, not like that. Say this, don't say that. Like this, don't like that. Breathe like this, don't breathe like that. Meditate like this not like that. Think this don't think that. Look like this, don't look like that And we wonder why we need relief, have stress, get depressed, have anxiety, get tired, frustrated and suffer. It's not that we shouldn't strive for what's better for us, it's that there are so many things that's bad for us as a species. We have to be on alert at all times. On guard. So many toxicities and poisons, so many ways to harm us if we're not careful. So much to look out for. So many potential harms. We are very resilient beings the body is magnificently designed to protect itself from outside invaders but it's still in danger. Some we can avoid and some not so easily. It's hard being a being. It's challenging to be and stay alive. Not to mention mental health. Everything is a fucking challenge. We have to watch for everything. Who designed this crap. Why put us through so much. If you say to grow us, then you've been misled. All plants need to grow is water and a little fertilizer proper environment and some love and care. They don't need all that extra shit to grow. All animals basically need is food. The rest as in shelter and health care depends on the type of animal. Most can survive in the wild just on food. Why humans. Why do we have to go through so much to grow. If you really take a deep look into it, it's basically only humans that go through all I've stated in the first paragraph. Does your cat have to watch how it sits or chew it's food or how it breathes. Does your dog have to watch what it watches or sees or how it sleeps and responds. This is utter madness and we claim to be the most intelligent. Why can't we figure out ways to not suffer or be challenged or have to go through all the shit other animals don't have to go through if we're so intelligent. We can't even stop our homes from being flooded or how not to get mad but we're so highly intelligent. It's very tiring being a human. Try not to stress so much unnecessarily. Your body will thank you for it. Relax more. Take it easy more. You're wearing yourself out and causing the body distress. Don't put the body in shock. It doesn't need the extra baggage.
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Princess Arabia replied to samijiben's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I think he means the knowledge he's acquired. There's nothing to reference to but things he already knows. That's why I say experience is knowledge and the I is knowledge and without it you are no one and cannot know yourself to be a self. There's something there in him that recognizes this. -
Princess Arabia replied to samijiben's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If that's what's happening, that's what's happening. Nothing you can do about it because you're not doing it to begin with. Everything screams THERE'S NOONE doing anything. EVERYTHING. -
Happy Birthday, Leo. 😘😘
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We have attached stories to the felt emotions and we believe it's the object in question that's responsible for the emotion. This is a learnt habit and how we feed the sense of self. Feelings can just arise for no reason, but because of the story attached to it that we believe in, we either blame or praise the object we believe is the reason. This is why we keep chasing happiness in objects. We believed that the empty object that is void of feelings, purpose or of any substance was responsible for the felt emotion and because it's actually empty of any meaning on it's own it doesn't last. We move on to something else for happiness and blame another for our sadness. It's a cycle that we're unaware of that we're doing. That new car made me happy, that girl made me sad, that teacher made me depressed, that man made me feel used. No. Those feelings arose in you because you put meaning to those people, have an idea about them in relation to you and now, they're responsible in your eyes for how you feel when the truth of the matter is they can do the exact same thing to someone else and the other person don't feel a thing. So, it's not the person, but the relationship you have with that thing. It's not their fault, it's no one's fault, it's energetic.
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Yes, I agree and that's why I started a journal where i can dump some wasted energy without expecting it to be continued with responses. Usually responses, if any, are short, and the post is not lingered on with useless thoughts, ideas and opinions. i donlt even re-read my own journal. I just dump in the trash and move on. I consider them dead.
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Princess Arabia replied to Sugarcoat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Not necessarily and depends on the woman and the service. I have reservations about it because it's way more of an audience and most will be unknown to you. This is true, but not exclusive. There are women online (and not just for adult services), who have been stalked and even murdered by unknown predators, but overall it is indeed safer. Not necessarily the case and depends on what she's doing and if she really enjoys it or not. It can be very mentally demanding dealing with strange horny men who has nothing to lose but a few dollars or who need not show their real identity and personal info. Another assumption. If a woman is offered more $ to meet up for real sex that takes away time and energy that she could use for the same amount of time online without having to do that. Real sex has to be done in person and even if the act is only a half hr, the whole process can take 2hrs with transport and other miscellaneous things involved. Plus it's more tiring and the next day could be a waste because of it so 48hrs lost for half hr worth of work and many men are willing to pay the same amount for online services. Many women understand that the more the man wants from you is the less he's willing to pay so it's not necessarily more profitable overall. Ask me how I know it. -
Princess Arabia replied to Sugarcoat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
So is soda, white bleached flour, round-up found in oatmeal, cinnamon with lead, table salt, toxic wild berries found in nature, too much pizza, ice cream, and French fries, lollypops, ice pops, Pringles, bleach, non-cotton underwear.....do you have time. It's just another method of control and mental slavery which can lead to people not capable of making their own decisions and to self-regulate without force which can lead to feelings of oppression which can lead to one acting out. -
Notice how threads like these that were started by the OP as a way to dump their emotional feelings, they very rarely ever come back and answer any responses or contribute any more to the topic and it's usually the members arguing amongst themselves about the topic. I've seen many threads like these and they're usually in the dating section. They get started not for advice, mot to resolve anything, not for ways to help them deal with the issue at hand, but as a dumping garbage pan for the energy that built up inside them. Then we pick up the remnants and the energy gets fed and lives on. That's how energy expands. Hatred feeds on itself and others' that wasn't supposedly manifested starts to come alive and takes hold of the individual reading this and all sorts of stories and explanations come into the picture to explain away their own feelings of hatred and now the chain reaction lives on. It's not my thread but I would suggest OP asks to close this thread because all it's doing is bringing up unwanted feelings in others and giving them a reason to think of why they are also feeling hatred. Hatred that is there regardless of women but women are used as the scapegoats for the reasons why they have these feelings. It's never about the object in question, it's about the relationship one have with themselves and their own thoughts.
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A guy will very rarely have feelings for a woman he didn't invest in. You said you were going to ask her out but she asked you out instead. Big mistake on her part. Guys will not agree and it's not always the case, but if you see and check the amount of times you weren't that interested in the women that pursued you, you'll see what I'm saying. You don't consciously do this and it's usually with masculine men. It's a chore now be cause you can't shine and impress her. You can't do things for her. She's readily available and already has shown enough interest for you to not feel anything for her because you feelings come from her reciprocation and gratitude for you. A man falls in love by doing for a woman. This isn't about falling in love, its just the dynamic isn't there.