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Hope it clears up soon. Stay safe. Not a good thing when everything is electrical and digital these days. Keep us updated.

I guess it's only animals you see God in. Makes no sense. Then again, nothing in life makes any sense. This is just another example of the random chaos happening here. Love animals but hate humans and think that's being conscious or God loving?

Yes, I've realized this to be the case. Tricky thing it is and we fall for the trick. It's pain or hatred arising and we put stories to those emotions and relate to them with past memories that we believe are responsible for them. Everybody's got a story to tell about these emotions. That's how thoughts keep the momentum going.

Not everyone you see viewing your profile did it on purpose. I can't tell how many times my finger slipped while scrolling and hit someone's name by mistake. Just something to keep in mind.

Nice. Just the other day I was looking out and said I don't feel like I have a head.

You don't have to feel like crap to want to enhance your beauty or appearance. If you go buy an expensive shirt, was it because you felt like crap or a nice watch. Not necessarily.

Yes, some women will enter relationships just to not be single. Still exceptions to what you're saying though. We can't know everything that's happening with everyone. If we don't see it on social media, it's just in our little bubble of experience and heresay.

This thread is about romantic relationships, dating and anything related. Suggested videos are videos that can enhance one's dating experience, provide information on how to succeed in romantic relationships both for men and women and how to potentially attract a romantic partner. Anything that is high-quality information to help with one's enhancement in the dating and relationship category and that gives helpful tips and advice on how to have a better experience in the dating world. Please, no Red or Black Pill ideology videos or videos of that nature. This thread is not intended to be a "war against the sexes or genders thread" unless it's nature is to show how the sexes are different by nature or to shed light on why the sexes are at war with each other in a productive way. Something similar to the book by Dr. John Gray, "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". Any misogynistic type videos or videos slandering either sexes that is of an offensive nature to both sexes will be suggested for removal.(These videos will be of an obvious offensive nature and not someone's opinionated guess). Please try to make this thread as productive as possible as the intention is to share quality videos that can aid in one's relationships and dating experience and maybe provide good, sound and quality advice to anyone that may need it. Go ahead and share videos that you believe would be a good fit for this thread or even share insights, opinions and comments that could be helpful to someone on this relationship/dating journey. Audio books on dating/relationships are also suggested.

The problem is you're looking at a particular breed of women. Probably young, inexperienced, getting to know themselves, etc. Plenty of women are choosing men with the traits you have mentioned. You just won't see that on reality shows or online in drama settings. You're blind to the other side. If one side exists, it's opposite does too. I would never choose the type of males that i chose in my 20's now. Doesn't mean it'll be perfect or something was wrong with those men, just a different stage.

It's not about that. It's that separation is suffering. It feels like suffering. Nothing is actually separate so one cannot "not be separate". One cannot end suffering. Suffering, without diminishing people's suffering or even my own, is suffering being suffering. It's energetic. Happiness is being happiness. No one does either so no one can end either. Let me see you suffer right now on demand. Be happy on demand. Tell me the mechanics of how you're doing that. You can't, so how can you end something you didn't start.

Three quarters or more of forum users have done psychedelics, or said they have. 100% of forum users suffer. Good luck trying to end suffering using psychedelics. That said, I love this post. It seemed a bit poetic too. Like describing the self. What it feels like to be a self. Everybody wants enlightenment and speak about awakening but you just described something very wonderful. What it's like to feel like a person. A person that feels trapped in a human body. It's wonderful to me because I sometimes feel that way. Like I don't feel separate; I feel like an individual. All I saw was Absolute perfection. The Absolute speaking. Speaking from a location, a place, limit, here, I am. That's why I said it seemed poetic. Like the Absolute writing about itself, with itself, by itself. It wasn't trying to be itself - in a way. It was like one describing what it was like playing a movie role. It was superb. I know I'm exaggerating a bit; but I truly felt that way reading it. This isn't even a post that needs advice or anything of the sort. It's one to marvel at. To see and recognize what the fucking Absolute can be. How it can deceive itself. Be anything. Reading your post, to me, was Absolutely freeing. I saw freedom's expression. Abso-fucking-lutely. Excuse my French. IT IS ONLY ABSOLUTE FREEDOM THAT CAN FEEL TRAPPED. If it weren't Absolutely free and unlimited, it wouldn't even have the desire to feel free. It wouldn't even know it wasn't free and liberated. Your post actually made me realize freedom and liberation more than what an enlightened being can ever reveal. It revealed the true essence of what Absolute freedom, liberation and limitless actually looks like. That's what's obvious. This is awesome.

Ok, well now I'm on that level. In the video he also spoke about what you mentioned in your last paragraph and how he tried those things that left him feeling what I mentioned. Yes, I like your definition and can be seen in men with no muscles or a big hairy chest or deep voice. OP could also possess some of those masculine traits you described.

This is where you're limited in your thinking. Why do I have to go and understand how to become what I am already. What's there to figure out - only observe. It's the masculine that I am interested in, so that's where it makes sense to go study and try to understand. I already understand you, you're a softy trying to appear hard but only come off as a hard dick. 😛😛

Believe it or not, lots of so-called masculine traits that men exude stems from past-trauma and were told they're not a man if.....which can lead to lots of men becoming more aggressive, angry, suicidal, resentful and feeling hurt by society. See my latest video in the powerful(dating and relationships) section with Lisa Bilyeu. He speaks about this in the first 15mins. Maybe what we're really seeing in masculine men is the pain they're dealing with. Maybe OP isn't dealing with any pain, but the stigma of needing to show masculine qualities as a man by society's standards. This video. Just watch the first 15 mind or so to see what I'm saying.

True. I wouldn't say it's a matter of preference, but choice. They'll choose whites over non-whites but only when it comes to certain things because of an ingrained belief. Politics is one. Many people have private fantasies in many areas involving non-whites, but in public they'll die first before revealing the truth. Don't be fooled, a lot of it has to do with group think and reputation.

It isn't racist to prefer a certain race. Most people have their preferences and sometimes it depends on the context. However, by googles definition, it is racist to think of a particular race as SUPERIOR and he said that in his post. That can only be in comparison to...and suggesting that they are better than. There are blacks who believe that blacks are superior and that's also a racist belief. It's that simple and one can be racist if they like, but there shouldn't be that type of language allowed where the rule is 'no racism allowed'. That's the issue. Also, by Google's definition, white supremacy is a form of racism which he also defined himself as.

If that was the case, the whole world would be suffering from food poisoning everyday, it would be an epidemic and food trucks would be out of business; not to mention buffets.

If you're only doing it for women, it may not be a good idea. You may end up resenting women for it. Not sure how old you are, but you seem quite young from what you've said. Maybe time and experience will allow for the masculine side of you to flourish. It could just be who you are also; nothing wrong with that. Lots of women are attracted to the feminine side of men. It may just mean you'll attract more masculine-type women and that doesn't necessarily mean in their appearance, but their ways which could be complimentary to yours. Embrace who you are, and the women will feel that and be attracted anyway. Maybe what's not attractive to some, is that they can sense you're not comfortable in your own skin. All that hit the gym and stuff like that is just a mask to hide what you really feel inside. Gym is great for health purposes, but if it's to compensate to feel masculine, the feminine side will just be repressed and manifest in other ways and now you're left with hating yourself and your feminine side. Personally, too much aggression in a man is a turn off for me. It's not that I prefer feminine men, but I like when they show that side when they're around me and leave all that aggression when with the guys or when it's needed appropriately like in bed. Hehe. Masculinity is not about muscles and a six pack, it's in one's mental attitude and the way they show up. When I see bulk, all I see is a whimp inside. Strength in a man for me is one who's not afraid to show both sides and knows how to respond respectively.

Reality cannot be defined or it can be defined using all definitive words. The word 'Mystery' is one of them.

"Reach Awakening" implies time. There's no actual time. Yes, there appears to be time and we're living in time and space but it's only an appearance. The Absolute appears as time and space. That said, the Absolute is also appearing as someone trying to 'reach awakening'. Blah blah blah. I know, more non-duality bullshit, but you asked and I'm just giving you my take. You're already awake. All the practices people do will lead to this recognition when exhausted. That's actually what the practices are good for. It's not to awaken you, but so you realize there's no you to awaken and that awakening is already the case. You just haven't realized this yet. No one realizes it, actually, there's something there that realizes itself to be nothing. Something like that; hard to explain. This is not to say don't even do practices, but if you're hungry, you eat. You get hungry again, you eat again. You will never stay full. Always a process going on. Same thing here, awaken, then awaken to more, and more and more. Always awakening to bigger and better awakenings. It never ends because there is no end to what never was.

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When people are told what to do all the time, and not allowed to err on their own to see what they're doing wrong for themselves on their own, how their decisions are ruining their lives, they will lose the ability to decide for themselves what they should give up, things that are bad for them and why. Just telling people to stop eating junk food because it's bad for you isn't enough, it is not until they're seeing the effects of the junk food that they'll really understand what that means and how badly it's affecting their lives. They see first hand what it can do. Keep telling people what to do and not do without letting them have a first hand experience of things doesn't do much good in the sense of understanding why something is bad for them and will only make them more curious about the thing and indulge more. Of course this doesn't go for murder, theft and laws like that that are obviously criminal.

Nice! You'd make a great father, uncle, son, brother, nephew and husband. At least everybody would know what to expect from you, no disappointments and no surprises. This is not sarcasm and is for real from my heart.

It's interesting to see the craziness, weirdness and ordered chaos of Absolute Infinity play out right Infront of my eyes. It's so fucking wild, spontaneous and free that it needs an ass whooping to tame itself down and behave. The poor mind is having a hard time accepting how free it is to do what the hell it wants to do and be however it wants to be that it tries very hard to cope with the insanity but it just can't handle it. This is utter madness and i can see why things are the way they are or more people would end up in the insane asylum. I'm half-way there; but thank God, I'm able to contain myself and cope with it somewhat. I'm probably the type to just burst one day from over exertion like a gas tank ready to explode. Hopefully my time here on earth expires by then.