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I see. I was saying that to myself after I wrote what I wrote. So you're saying If I look at my own pain and acknowledge it, I won't feel others pain as much, I won't feel others pain at all or I will interpret differently what I'm perceiving as other people being in pain.

I just can't help but feel others pain and it gets worse the deeper I get into this work as i get more sensitive to the tou h. I don't even like loud music anymore, I get sensitive to noise. Sometimes I feel like hibernating into my cocoon just so I don't have to witness this.

What I see is someone trying to understand the nature of Reality. Yes, he can be arrogant and rude at times and seems a bit delusional but I think some of that arrogance is falling away and transforming into genuine curiosity. Sometimes these things has to happen before Consciousness realizes itself. When one is shifting it will appear as confusion and delusion. You don't clean an already cleaned house and in the process of cleaning we shift around things that needs to be put in it's correct place and this shift appears as a disturbance and doesn't look pretty. This is what I sense. He is shifting and in his mind is a lot of confusion, but I see he is trying to understand. He's very stubborn, but that's ok too. Stubborness has to outgrow itself. No need to come down so hard on him and attack his character.

Ok. Got it. Don't shout. Lol. It's OK.

So IOW what you're saying is don't question the bad things that are happening. Let it be. Love it all. In regards to the person with the comment, they need to understand this and not question these atrocious things that are happening because it is God's expression of love. Is that what you're basically saying in so many words. Trying to understand.

Are you saying in respect to my post and regarding the YT comment, that she is making it all up as God to distract herself. I donlt think you directly addressed the post, you're just giving me examples of what you experienced and your illusory death.

Can you please elaborate more on what you are saying. Are you saying, that I made it all up or the YT commentor made it all up. Not sure if you're saying she's distracting herself or I am.

Here is the video

Very powerful.

I believe in marketing you can if they are a bunch of unconscious controllable sheep. You can target people's emotions and senses just to get them to buy certain things. Fear sells. Instill fear and there they go. Numerous techniques will do the trick but only if you're not aware that this is happening. Sometimes even if you are. This is happening on all levels on a very wide scale. Control them, and you got them by the balls.

I think what @gettoeflsaid was on the money when put in the proper context. It's not necessarily so for one night stands but for long-term relationships.

From you saying this, I can tell you are a very passionate lover.

Nice explanation. Made me more aware of some aspects of attraction and sexuality. It clicked somewhere inside my psyche.

If I told you that's why you're having a hard time with it, because its your most pressing issue, you would come back with a long list of reasons why that ain't so. Since I have nothing else to do at the moment, I'll lay it on you. Take it as you wish. When we fight life, life fights us back. It's a mirror. When we smile at life it smiles back. When we sulk, it sulks back. Etc etc. This has to be understood in the proper context, though, as it needs a bit of understanding what this means and how the Universe works. You are Awareness, Reality is Infinite. That means everything exists. Creation is finished. It is you. Your true nature. Pretend you are a movie projector shining your light on the movie screen. Whatever is coming from the projector is within the projector and wherever the projector shines it's light is where whatever is within the projector goes. You are that projector. If within you are complaints then all you will see are things to complain about. If within you are fears all you will see are things to be fearful about. Etc.etc. If you focus on lack you will experience more lack. The Universe is abundant. There is no lack in the Universe. So what you are projecting from your projector unto the screen of space is an abundance of lack. Lack of sex jn this case. What you focus on you get more of because that is where you're shining your light saying you want to experience. The Universe doesn't differentiate between anything. Everything is the same. A cow is the same as a dog or a plane. But what it does understand is energy, frequency and vibration. All these different things which carries a certain energy, vibrate at different frequencies. Lack carries a particular frequency so it reads that and gives you more lack because it thinks that's what you want. How? By your constant complaining. It doesn't know you're complaining all it knows is you like this because that's where your focus is. Your attention is your most prized asset and it can make or break you. If you are constantly complaining about the lack of sex in your life you will continue to experience the lack of sex. If you say, no, I'm trying to get it, you will also keep experiencing "trying to get it". That's the nature of Awareness. Which you are. You have to not focus and complain about it. Let it go. See yourself there. Imagine it. Focus on what you want to experience not what you're pissed off about. The mind wants to keep you safe, so if you're venturing out into territories it's not used to, it will come up with all sorts of stories and excuses as to why you shouldn't venture out of your comfort zone. In your case, you are entertaining thoughts that will tell you why this girl is the way she is, why she doesn't like you, why what this guy says is true, why you should believe this video, why you're lacking sex, why you should be this way and not that way etcetc all to keep you locked in that "guy who doesn't get sex identity", and because you're not in control of your thoughts which leads to certain beliefs, which leads to cerain actions, now you have woven an identity that needs to stay alive and will look for things to confirm this. Whew! I'm tired. Figure the rest out ,

Yeah! Maybe, what do I know. I'm starting to realize I know nothing.

I think it's more of just letting the mind be. Not really ignoring it as much but allowing thoughts to be there and not identify with them. I'm speaking about the monkey mind, not when we need the mind to consciously figure something out, contemplate or just normal day-to-day activities. I'm noticing how my mind continuously concoct stories and ideas about situations and circumstances that are just ideas about them and my own interpretations. When I limit this activity, or catch myself doing it and retract, I find myself to be at ease more and have less unnecessary mindless chit-chatter. This practice, I believe will pretty much causes us to have less anxiety and or depression. The more I catch myself doing it, I stop and focus the mind elsewhere. Since I've been aware of what the mind does, I realized how I've created a lot of unnecessary trivial mental suffering. Half of the stuff the mind says isn't true and we tend to want to believe it because we don't realize it's nature. So now, I practice allowing it to do it's thing without reacting as much and it is slowly but surely not having as much of a negative impact on me where before I had a tendency to worry about things that were just stories and made up stuff that never even came to the light.

Do you realize that every action here is considered a post. I have two mega threads that I've started, actually now three. Powerful, powerful short clips and healthy foods and recipes. Each video I post is considered a post, not to mention the edits which I think also are considered separate posts, not sure. Plus, I'm all over. I comment on a variety of sub-topics. You, on the other hand, I see mostly in the dating section. That counts for less amount of counted posts, also. You have to consider factors when observing figures like post counts not just the figures. Just like how you've created a story as to why your post count is low, it's the same way you (and the majority of people, including myself) operate in our daily lives. It's all fucking stories. Not true. Based on memories, conditioning, programming, belief systems, paradigms, patterns, group think, societal norms.....the list goes on. Then we believe these stories and construct our lives based on these beliefs. I've seen through this shit. I've seen the patterns, in myself and others. It's fucking deep, real deep. So deep we have sunk. Drowning in our own bullshit. Then we complain and point the finger at others blaming them for our own constructed egoic patterns and cry and come up with excuses as to why we are the way we are. I'm not referring to autism, ocd, mental disorders etc, just our normal way of living and how we navigate Reality, live our lives and interactions with people. It's really clever and nuanced how the brain works and how the mind uses us and how we use the mind. It's so clever that it doesn't realize it's own shit.

You might have a point here. I've seen some on here openly admit to being bi while having problems with dating or getting dates. Something to ponder. Human psychology and behavior can get very complicated but can be simple if understood.